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		<title>John Peter McCann &#8211; Class of 2010</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sister Maria Philomena, M.I.C.M.</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[[John is the youngest of ten. In his speech he will tell you about his educational struggles -- but his perseverance paid off during his senior year. Not only was he no longer "at the bottom of the class," he made Honor Roll twice (and Honorable Mention in this year's final average) -- with a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_1059" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 262px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1059    " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnPortrait.gif" alt="John Peter Michael McCann" width="252" height="381" /><p class="wp-caption-text">John Peter Michael McCann</p></div>
<p><em>[John is the youngest of ten. In his speech he will tell you about his educational struggles -- but his perseverance paid off during his senior year. Not only was he no longer "at the bottom of the class," he made Honor Roll twice (and Honorable Mention in this year's final average) -- with a cumulative GPA of 3.0. Congratulations, John!]</em></p>
<p>Good afternoon, Br. Andre Marie, Sister Marie Therese, Sister Maria Philomena, Dr. Fahey, Dad, Mom, and all my family and friends. Thank you all for coming here to support me during this event celebrating a very important milestone of my life.</p>
<p>Graduation is an event that allows a student to look back and reflect on the journey he or she experienced during the schooling process. When I was analyzing my journey, I discovered certain elements, virtues, and emotions that I wanted to discuss.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline">Progress</span>: (Advancement toward one’s goals, to develop or improve)</p>
<p>I never had an easy time with learning. I started off having to take kindergarten twice. When my parents realized that public schools were a danger to my spiritual well-being, my mother home-schooled me. I don’t blame her for my inability to learn; it was just there, and during those years of home schooling I fell behind . . . Really badly! My mother was able to school me herself for three years &#8212; until her life got complicated and she was forced to put me in a public school for the last quarter of that year. The board of directors decided to place me at a fifth grade level, accompanied by “special classes”. I couldn’t read or spell to save my life.</p>
<p>So, when I moved to NH, I was just a bit behind.<span id="more-1015"></span></p>
<div id="attachment_1060" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 150px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1060 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnReading5th.gif" alt="John studies his catechism" width="140" height="190" /><p class="wp-caption-text">John studies his catechism</p></div>
<p>When I tested for Immaculate Heart of Mary School, I was at a second grader’s level. I knew about as much as your average seven-year-old. Now, I was twelve at the time, mind you. So, the Sisters put me in fourth grade. For a twelve-year-old to be told he is going to have to go to fourth grade &#8212; after he just completed his fifth grade &#8212; is pretty hard to take.</p>
<div id="attachment_1056" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 185px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1056 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnPagentYoung.gif" alt="Christmas Play (John is the tall shepherd)" width="175" height="172" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Christmas Play (John is the tall shepherd)</p></div>
<p>To add insult to injury, I was always the one who was behind. Every one else understood things quicker, got better grades, and beat me in the classroom competitions time and time again. This seemed like the common theme of my I.H.M. experience (barring my Senior year). But during these years of strenuous progression, I have received quite an education. I now have an understanding of Algebra, Grammar, Geometry, Church History, Physics, Chemistry, Biology, Latin, Rhetoric, American History, Literature, Trigonometry, Logic; I think you get the point!</p>
<div id="attachment_1049" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 170px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1049 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnAllSaints.gif" alt="All Saints' Day" width="160" height="237" /><p class="wp-caption-text">All Saints&#39; Day</p></div>
<p>So in short, this school has not only taught me an amazing amount of useful knowledge, but it also taught me to take difficulties and use them to improve myself giving me a stronger character.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline">Perseverance</span>: (Steadfastness in doing something despite difficulty or delay in achieving success)</p>
<p>Aside from being older then other students, I wasn’t able to get good grades. I tried my hardest &#8212; only to barely pass with less than average grades. But I did learn . . . slowly and painfully . . . but I <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline">did</span></strong><span style="text-decoration: underline"> </span><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline">learn</span></strong>.</p>
<div id="attachment_1058" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 235px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1058" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnPlayEsther.gif" alt="John, Clare, and Rose (seventh grade) in &quot;Esther&quot;" width="225" height="269" /><p class="wp-caption-text">John, Clare, and Rose (seventh grade) in &quot;Esther&quot;</p></div>
<p>One of the things I learned was simple math. If I’m in fourth grade now… by the time I get to twelfth grade I should be . . . twenty! Aren’t people usually seventeen when they graduate? Ooooooh boy!  I did skip sixth grade, but I knew going into ninth grade that there was no longer any hope of skipping grades (due to the necessity of acquiring a certain amount of credits).</p>
<div id="attachment_1065" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 150px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1065 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnVacuum.gif" alt="The McCann cleaning gene is showing up" width="140" height="315" /><p class="wp-caption-text">The McCann cleaning gene is showing up</p></div>
<p>Year after year of struggling as hard as I could, I continued to get very undesirable grades. I would always try and analyze my way out, for instance: “This couldn’t possibly be what God wanted me to suffer.” Eventually, I was fed up with it. (I was eighteen at the time.) It was the beginning of my junior year; I made up my mind to drop out. I was telling myself things, like: “There is always the G.E.D . . .  It’s not like I was throwing my life away. It seems to work out for other people. I am being responsible. I have a plain a plan. I going to get my G.E.D. and become an electrician’s apprentice in South Dakota. I’m just not meant to be in school any more.” (There was a girl in SD, of course; that made the matter all that much more urgent.)</p>
<div id="attachment_1050" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 185px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1050 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnCassenYoung.gif" alt="On the USS Cassen Young" width="175" height="173" /><p class="wp-caption-text">On the USS Cassen Young</p></div>
<p>So, I told Sister Maria Philomena, in a very matter-of-fact way, that I wasn’t going to finish that year. She sent me to Sister Marie Therese.</p>
<p>Sister Marie Therese listened to what I had to say. She treated me like an adult, and gave me some good advice, and said she would respect my decision <em>if it were <strong>well thought out</strong></em>. This was the catalyst that made me follow her advice to go on a retreat. I wanted everyone to respect my decision, and what better way was there than convincing everyone that it was God’s will? (Because, I already convinced myself of this, you see.) On retreat, I discovered that everyone else was right and I was wrong . . . what do you know! Reassured that what I was doing was good and profitable, I made a firm resolution to finish what I started; and, I haven’t looked back since. And let me tell you: now that I’m here looking back, I wouldn’t change a thing.</p>
<div id="attachment_1055" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 185px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1055 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnMailing.gif" alt="Looking back (and sealing envelopes at the same time!)" width="175" height="181" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Looking back (and sealing envelopes at the same time!)</p></div>
<p>Patience: (The capacity to accept or tolerate delay, trouble, or suffering without getting angry or upset)</p>
<p>Spelling Bees . . . Latin . . . Research Papers . . . Memory Items . . . Foot Ball . . . SPELLING BEES!!! Now, I’ll be the first on to confess that I was lacking in patience at times &#8212; especially on Fridays. But I did tolerate a lot of delay, trouble, and suffering in my I.H.M. experience. And, since there are troublesome hurdles in every walk of life, I’m really glad I had the extensive training in this virtue that I got. It was even conveniently worked into my curriculum.</p>
<div id="attachment_1066" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 150px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1066 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnVillain.gif" alt="A vicious villain (RBFF melodrama)" width="140" height="184" /><p class="wp-caption-text">A vicious villain (RBFF melodrama)</p></div>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline">The Future</span>: (The time or a period of time following the moment of speaking; time regarded as still to come)</p>
<p>As I already mentioned in my internship presentation three weeks ago, I’m going to begin my adult life in Kansas &#8212; where I will become an electrician. A couple of people asked,“ Why Kansas?” So, I’m going to explain my reasoning.</p>
<div id="attachment_1062" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 100px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1062 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnScienceYoung.gif" alt="Science Fair " width="90" height="143" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Science Fair </p></div>
<p>I believe it is prudent for a graduate to buckle down and take things seriously as soon as possible so as not to get caught in that weird “after-school-but-before-life” spell. So, as a solution or precaution against this danger, I’ve decided to jump on in and sink or swim. The drastic change of atmosphere will push me into taking my situation seriously and the lack of people taking care of my needs will make me anything but complacent.</p>
<div id="attachment_1063" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 130px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1063 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnSpelling.gif" alt="Spelling Bee!" width="120" height="178" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Spelling Bee!</p></div>
<p>Aside from being a precaution against that “in-between-period”, there are a couple of things calling me to Kansas as well. There is family out there: my brother Tim and his family. This gives me a few advantages &#8212; one of which will be to give me a place to stay when I arrive, and Tim and I have a mutual understanding of how temporary the situation will be. Another thing is that Kansas’ living expenses are not as challenging as New Hampshire’s, so this will be an easier start for my initial years of self-support. And last but not least, there is a massive traditional Catholic community out there that I was very interested in seeing for myself. I would appreciate any and all prayers that could be spared for me in this very important transitional period in my life.</p>
<div id="attachment_1070" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 240px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1070   " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/grad1.gif" alt="Graduating Class of 2010" width="230" height="215" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Graduating Class of 2010</p></div>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline">Gratitude</span>: (The quality of being thankful; readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness)</p>
<p>When looking back at the whole journey, the primary emotion that I feel is gratitude. I have a great deal of gratitude &#8212; not only for the excellent education that I’ve received &#8212; but also for all the people who made it possible. The people who taught me, and people who helped me stay on course. And the only way I know how to express my gratitude, is to thank the parties responsible.</p>
<p>Sister Marie Therese: You are a wonderful principal, and you really helped me look at the choices I had to make, concerning my leaving or staying, with a logical mind-set. Thank you; I probably wouldn’t have finished if it weren’t for you.</p>
<div id="attachment_1052" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 210px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1052 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnDash.gif" alt="The fastest boy in school!" width="200" height="208" /><p class="wp-caption-text">The fastest boy in school!</p></div>
<p>Sister Mary Joseph: You taught me for my first year here (which was a very difficult one). I also wanted to thank you for my superior coloring technique and penmanship skills (which are due to your ruthless tutoring).</p>
<p>Brother Louis Marie: You were always a very needed relief during the very trying breaks. You were always there to crack a joke or remind me why I was there. Thank you for consistently elevating my intentions to a higher ideal.</p>
<div id="attachment_1054" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 220px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1054 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnLab.gif" alt="John and Michael ('09) disecting a fetal pig" width="210" height="165" /><p class="wp-caption-text">John and Michael (&#39;09) disecting a fetal pig</p></div>
<p>Sister Mary Peter: You taught me for my seventh grade year, and I’m afraid I was a bit of a troublemaker for you. But more importantly, you were always there to try and calm me down when my frustration built up within me. Some times I would avoid you when I was getting angry because I didn’t want you to cheer me up, but yet, somehow, you always found me. So, thank you for being there to calm the beast.</p>
<div id="attachment_1051" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 170px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1051 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/johnChristmasTrees.gif" alt="His real self comes out!" width="160" height="271" /><p class="wp-caption-text">His real self comes out!</p></div>
<p>Sister Maria Perpetua: You taught me in both fifth grade and eighth grade, and it was your sweet manner accompanied with your strict discipline that enabled you to teach me so much. Thank you for making me write out the word “would” (as in should &amp; could) eighty times. I can’t help but think of you every time I go to write it.</p>
<p>Professor: I’m glad I had you for at least one of my classes for each of the last six years. You always treated me like you actually enjoyed talking to me, and you were always willing to let me vent. I probably would have gone mad if you weren’t here to help me. Thank you for being more then just my wicked cool math teacher; you were also my friend – in whom I could trust without the slightest hesitation.</p>
<div id="attachment_1053" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 160px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1053 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnFIddle.gif" alt="What will I do without John in the Blueberry Jammers?" width="150" height="181" /><p class="wp-caption-text">What will I do without John in the Blueberry Jammers?</p></div>
<p>Sister Maria Philomena: Four years straight! I’m not sure what life is going to be like without you for more than a summer. It almost seems like a sloppy divorce. You taught me more than I can generalize. One of the subjects I’m most grateful that I had you to teach me was religion, but there is no way I can express my deep gratitude for all that you’ve done for me. Thank you for giving and giving, day after day. Surely I wouldn’t be the man I am today if God didn’t give be the privilege of having you as my high school teacher.</p>
<div id="attachment_1057" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 235px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1057 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnParents.gif" alt="Mr. &amp; Mrs. McCann (front) at graduatio party" width="225" height="190" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Mr. &amp; Mrs. McCann (front) at grad party</p></div>
<p>My parents: You not only paid for my tuition so I could attend this school, but you convinced me to keep on &#8220;keepin&#8217; on.&#8221; I would like to thank my mother for doing her best to make sure I didn’t throw the opportunity of receiving the excellent education of I.H.M., and my father for teaching me &#8212; by example &#8212; dogged perseverance</p>
<p>The way I see it, the only way I can give anything back to all the people who gave me so much is to be the best I can be, share all the benefits the school has given me, and there by show the world what a great school I.H.M. is.</p>
<div id="attachment_1064" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 190px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1064 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnTwoSPies.gif" alt="A Case for Two Spies" width="180" height="214" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Agent 145-and-a-half  in  &quot;A Case for Two Spies&quot;</p></div>
<p>I am so glad that I had the privilege of an education at I.H.M. not only for the reasons I stated earlier, but, more importantly, I’ve acquired a dependency on daily sacraments, a habit I plan on preserving even in Kansas.</p>
<div id="attachment_1061" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 150px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1061 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnRelic.gif" alt="John with a relic of his patron saint" width="140" height="219" /><p class="wp-caption-text">John with a relic of his patron saint</p></div>
<p>I can’t pretend to know exactly what my future holds, but, if things go as I would like them to, I will get married (sooner rather than latter), convince my wife to move to New Hampshire, and have many many children. I would be very happy to see all of them attend I.H.M.</p>
<p>Thank you.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Sister Maria Philomena, M.I.C.M.</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='series_toc'><h3>Table of contents for Mother Love</h3><ol><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2008/11/the-christian-training-children-chapt-1-early-cares/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Early Cares'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Early Cares</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/01/the-christian-training-of-children-new-and-more-difficult-cares/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; New and more Difficult Cares'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; New and more Difficult Cares</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/02/the-christian-training-of-children-admonition-to-mother/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Admonition to Mother'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Admonition to Mother</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/02/the-christian-training-of-children-combating-concupiscence-of-the-flesh/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Flesh'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Flesh</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/02/the-christian-training-of-children-combating-concupiscence-of-the-eyes/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Eyes'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Eyes</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/03/the-christian-training-of-children-combating-pride/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Pride'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Pride</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/04/the-christian-training-of-children-rewards-punishments/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Rewards and Punishments'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Rewards and Punishments</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/04/the-christian-training-of-children-the-fathers-role/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; The Father&#8217;s Role'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; The Father&#8217;s Role</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/05/the-christian-training-of-children-prayers/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Prayers'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Prayers</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-maxims-and-sayings/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Maxims and Sayings'>The Christian Training of Children – Maxims and Sayings</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/05/the-christian-training-of-children-co-operation-with-pastor-and-teacher/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Co-operation with Pastor and Teacher'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Co-operation with Pastor and Teacher</a></li><li>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Catechetical Instruction</li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-preparing-a-child-for-confession/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Preparing a Child for Confession'>The Christian Training of Children – Preparing a Child for Confession</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/05/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-preparation-for-holy-communion/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Preparation for Holy Communion'>The Christian Training of Children – Preparation for Holy Communion</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-care-of-young-adults/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Care of Young Adults'>The Christian Training of Children – Care of Young Adults</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/mother-love/' title='Mother Love'>Mother Love</a></li></ol></div> <address><span style="color: #000000"><strong>Little Book of  Instructions for Christian Mothers</strong></span> [continued]<br />
(from <em>Mother Love</em> – <em>A Manual for Christian Mothers</em> –  by Rev. Pius Franciscus, O.M.Cap., 1926)</p>
<p><strong>On the Christian Training of Children</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Chapter XII. –</strong> <strong>Catechetical Instructions Which a Christian Mother Should Frequently Explain to Her Children and upon Which She Should Often Question Them.</strong></p>
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<address>[This chapter is a lovely summary of the penny catechism.]<span id="more-969"></span></address>
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<address><strong>The Holy Sign of the Cross:</strong></address>
<address>In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost. Amen</address>
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<address><strong>The Our Father:</strong></address>
<address>The Our Father consists of one address, “Our Father, Who art in heaven,” and seven petitions. The first three, “Hallowed by Thy name, Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven,” refer to the honor of God; and the last four, “Give us this day our daily bread, forgive us our trespasses as we forgive them that trespass against us, and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.”— bear reference to our own and our neighbor’s temporal and spiritual welfare. The word “Father” is placed first because we should never repeat the Our Father without a filial turning of our heart to God. The mother should accustom her children to this.</address>
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<address><strong>The Hail Mary:</strong></address>
<address>The “Hail Mary” is composed of two parts. The first contains the salutation, “Hail Mary,” a threefold eulogium of the Blessed Virgin, “Full of grace, the Lord is with thee, blessed art thou among women,” and the praise of her Divine Child, “and blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus.”</address>
<address>The second part contains an address full of reverence, “Holy Mary, Mother of God,” and an humble petition, “pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen.”</address>
<address>Impress upon your children that it should always be said with child-like respect for the Mother of God.</address>
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<blockquote><address>The Six Truths which all must know and believe to gain eternal salvation:</address>
<address>1)    There is but one God, who created, preserves and governs all things.</address>
<address>2)    God is a just Judge. He rewards the good and punishes the wicked.</address>
<address>3)    In God there are three Persons: God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Ghost.</address>
<address>4)    The Son of God became man, and died on the Cross to save us.</address>
<address>5)    The soul of man is immortal.</address>
<address>6)     Grace is necessary to salvation.</address>
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<address> <strong>The Apostles’ Creed:</strong></address>
<address>This Creed contains twelve articles which are as follows:</address>
<address>1) I believe in God, the Father Almighty, Creator of heaven and earth.</address>
<address>2) And in Jesus Christ, His only Son, our Lord.</address>
<address>3) Who was conceived by the Holy Ghost, born of the Virgin Mary.</address>
<address>4) Suffered under Pontius Pilate, was crucified, died, and was buried.</address>
<address>5) He descended into hell, the third day He rose again from the dead.</address>
<address>6) He ascended into heaven, sitteth at the right hand of God, the Father Almighty.</address>
<address>7) From thence He shall come to judge the living and the dead.</address>
<address>8) I believe in the Holy Ghost.</address>
<address>9) The holy Catholic Church, the Communion of saints.</address>
<address>10) The forgiveness of sins.</address>
<address>11) The resurrection of the body.</address>
<address>12) And life everlasting. Amen.</address>
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<address><strong><em>The Gloria Patri, or Lesser Doxology:</em></strong></address>
<address>Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Ghost. As it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end. Amen.</address>
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<address><strong><em>The Holy Rosary:</em></strong></address>
<address>Teach the children at each decade to picture to themselves the mystery honored by the same and dto pray that its corresponding virtue may be impressed upon their hearts.</address>
<blockquote><address>The five Joyful Mysteries are to be said form the first Sunday in Advent, until the Feast of the Purification; the five Sorrowful Mysteries, from Ash-Wednesday until Easter Sunday; the five Glorious Mysteries, from Easter Sunday to Trinity Sunday. During the remaining part of the year, the Joyful Mysteries are said on Mondays and Thursdays, the Sorrowful Mysteries on Tuesdays and Fridays, and Glorious Mysteries on Sundays, Wednesdays, and Saturdays.</address>
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<address>The Rosary is to be said as follows:</address>
<address>In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost. Amen.</address>
<address>I believe in God, etc.</address>
<address>Our Father.</address>
<address>Hail Mary (three times).</address>
<address>Glory be to the Father, etc.</address>
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<address>The Joyful Mysteries  (The spirit of joy)</address>
<address>1)    The Annunciation of Our Lady (fruit: humility). Our Father, Hail Mary (ten times), Glory be, etc.</address>
<address>2)    The Visitation (fruit: love of neighbor). Our Father, as above.</address>
<address>3)    The Nativity (fruit: spirit of poverty)</address>
<address>4)    The Presentation (fruit: obedience)</address>
<address>5)    The Finding of the Child Jesus, twelve years old in the Temple (union of heart with Jesus and Mary)</address>
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<address>The Sorrowful Mysteries (the spirit of compassion)</address>
<address>1)    Our Lord’s Agony in the Garden (sorrow for sin)</address>
<address>2)    The Scourging at the Pillar (fervor of penance)</address>
<address>3)    The Crowning with Thorns (mortification of self-love)</address>
<address>4)    The Carrying of the Cross (patience in the trials of one’s state)</address>
<address>5)    The Crucifixion (love of Jesus and Mary)</address>
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<address>The Glorious Mysteries (spirit of reverence)</address>
<address>1)    The Resurrection of Our Lord (true conversion)</address>
<address>2)    The Ascension (desire of heaven)</address>
<address>3)    The Descent of the Holy Ghost (recollection of mind and fervor of prayer)</address>
<address>4)    The Assumption of Our Lady (grace of a good death)</address>
<address>5)    The Coronation of Our Lady (perseverance, reverence for the glorious Queen of Heaven, and confidence in her prayers)</address>
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<address>Conclude with the Salve Regina:</address>
<address> Hail, holy Queen, Mother of mercy, our life, our sweetness, and our hope! To thee do we cry, poor banished children of Eve. To thee do we send up our sighs, mourning and weeping in this valley of tears. Turn then, most gracious advocate, thine eyes of mercy toward us, and after this our exile, show unto us the blessed fruit of thy womb, Jesus. O clement, O loving, O sweet Virgin Mary!</address>
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<address><em>It is not necessary to reflect upon the foregoing virtues. Other meditations may be substituted and other petitions made according to the devotion of the individual.</em></address>
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<address><strong>The Ten Commandments of God:</strong></address>
<address>I.      I am the Lord, thy God, who brought thee out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of bondage. Thou shalt not have strange gods before Me. Thou shalt not make to thyself a graven thing, nor the likeness of anything that is in the heavens above, or in the earth beneath, nor of those things that are in the waters under the earth. Thou shalt not adore them nor serve them.</address>
<address>II.    Thou shalt not take the name of the Lord, thy God, in vain.</address>
<address>III.  Remember that thou keep holy the Sabbath day.</address>
<address>IV. Honor thy father and thy mother.</address>
<address>V.   Thou shalt not kill.</address>
<address>VI. Thou shalt not commit adultery.</address>
<address>VII.        Thou shalt no steal.</address>
<address>VIII.      Thou shalt not bear false witness against they neighbor.</address>
<address>IX. Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor’s wife.</address>
<address>X.   Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor’s goods.</address>
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<address>The Six Commandments of the Church:</address>
<address>I.      To rest from servile work, and to hear Mass on all Sundays and Holydays of Obligation.</address>
<address>II.    To fast and abstain on the days appointed.</address>
<address>III.  To confess our sins at least once a year.</address>
<address>IV. To receive worthily the Holy Eucharist during the Easter time.</address>
<address>V.   To contribute to the support of our pastors.</address>
<address>VI. Not to marry persons who are not Catholics or who are related to us in the third degree of kindred, nor privately without witnesses, nor to solemnize marriage at the forbidden times.</address>
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<address><strong>The Six Holydays of Obligation [in the USA]:</strong></address>
<address>I.      The Immaculate Conception of the Blessed Virgin (8<sup>th</sup> of December).</address>
<address>II.    The Nativity of Our Lord (25<sup>th</sup> of December).</address>
<address>III.  The Circumcision of Our Lord (1<sup>st</sup> of January).</address>
<address>IV. The Ascension of Our Lord (forty days after Easter).</address>
<address>V.   The Assumption of the Blessed Virgin (15<sup>th</sup> of August).</address>
<address>VI. The Feast of All-Saints (1<sup>st</sup> of November).</address>
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<address><strong>The Seven Sacraments:</strong></address>
<blockquote><address>The Seven Sacraments were instituted by Jesus Christ, for the salvation of sinners, and the perseverance of the just. They are: Baptism, Confirmation, Holy Eucharist, Penance, Extreme Unction, Holy Orders, and Matrimony.</address>
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<address>1.Baptism remits original sin and every actual sin committed before Baptism by one that has reached the age of reason. It takes away the eternal and temporal punishment due to sin; it pours into the soul sanctifying grace along with the three theological virtues of Faith, Hope and Charity; and it raises man to the dignity of a child of God, and rightful heir of the kingdom of heaven. In case of necessity, anyone of either sex that has reached the age of reason can and ought to baptize. Pouring common water on the head of the person to be baptized, so that the skin becomes wet, <em>say at the same time</em> the words: “I baptize thee in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost.”</address>
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<blockquote><address> The Baptismal Vows are fourfold:</address>
<address>I. I believe all that the Holy Catholic Church believes and teaches.</address>
<address>II. I renounce Satan.</address>
<address>III. I renounce all his works.</address>
<address>IV. I renounce all his pomps.</address>
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<address> By these words the newly-baptized promises to be forever a faithful child of the Catholic Church; resolutely to resist the suggestions and temptations of Stan; perseveringly to shun all sin (which is the work of Satan), and all the occasions thereto; to abhor and never to desist from mortifying in himself the threefold concupiscence in which the world seeks all its pleasure and enjoyment. Never  mshould we forget promises so holy, promises made on so solemn an occasion! Never should we violate them!</address>
<address>2.     Confirmation confirms the Faith and the life of grace in us, makes us able and strong to battle at the side of Christ against the enemies of the kingdom of God.</address>
<address>3.     The Blessed Sacrament of the Altar is the true Body and the true Blood of Jesus Christ under the appearance of bread and wine. It is the nourishment of the soul unto life everlasting for all who receive it worthily and with due preparation.         The Holy Mass is the real sacrifice of the Body and Blood of Jesus Christ, under the appearance of bread and wine. It is the most worthy act of adoration, praise, and thanksgiving, and the most powerful sacrifice of atonement and petition that we can offer.</address>
<blockquote><address> The three principal parts of the Mass are:</address>
<address>I.       The Offertory</address>
<address>II.     The Elevation</address>
<address>III.   The Communion of the Priest</address>
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<address> 4. Through the Sacrament of Penance are remitted all actual sins committed after Baptism, their eternal punishment and, at least, a part of the temporal punishment due to them. Through it Sanctifying grace is restored or, if it was not lost, is increased in the soul; and finally, it confers special graces for the leading of a pious life. For the worthy reception of the Sacrament of Penance, five things are necessary, namely:</address>
<blockquote><address> I.   Devout prayer to the Holy Ghost.</address>
<address> II.  A careful examination of conscience.</address>
<address> III. A sincere contrition and a firm resolution.</address>
<address> IV. A sincere confession of, at least, all mortal sins with their number and any </address>
<address> circumstances that materially change their nature.</address>
<address> V. Satisfaction, or the performance of the penance imposed by the Confessor.</address>
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<address> 5. Extreme Unction is the sacrament of the sick and comforts the soul especially for the hour of death. It often alleviates sickness, and sometimes even restores health itself.</address>
<address> 6. Through the Sacrament of Holy Orders, priests receive power to change bread and wine into the Body and Blood of Jesus Christ, and to forgive sins. It confers on them, also, many other powers and great graces. </address>
<address> 7. Through the Sacrament of Matrimony, husband and wife receive the grace to live together in love and peace, and to rear their children in a Christian manner.</address>
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<address><strong>Spiritual Communion</strong></address>
<address>Spiritual Communion consists in an ardent desire to receive our Lord in the Blessed Sacrament. Spiritual Communion can be made at any time, and in any place, and it enriches the soul with many graces according to the intensity of the desire for receiving Holy Communion. The Divine Savior Himself really deigned to teach the devout religious, Maria Lataste, the following simple form. He said: “Recollect thyself for one instant, place thyself in spirit before My tabernacle, and say to Me ‘O Jesus come into my heart!’ That is sufficient.”</address>
<address> But we may also make use of other and more lengthy forms; for instance,</address>
<blockquote><address> O Blessed Jesus, come to me!</address>
<address> O make me burn with love for Thee,</address>
<address> That I may live and die in Thee!</address>
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<address> Mothers, instruct your children already before they have made their First Communion to receive Jesus in this spiritual manner.</address>
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<address><strong>The Three Theological Virtues:</strong></address>
<address>The three divine virtues, Faith, Hope, and Charity, are infused into the soul together with Sanctifying Grace. They should be stirred into activity by frequently reciting them according to some definite form and thus they will take firm root in the soul and render it more and more holy. The following forms are recommended.</address>
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<blockquote><address>Act of Faith: </address>
<address> My God, I believe in Thee and in all that Thy Church teaches, because Thou hast revealed it, and Thy word is true.</address>
<address>Act of Hope: </address>
<address> My God, I hope in Thee for grace and for glory, because of Thy promises, Thy mercy, and Thy power.</address>
<address>Act of Love: </address>
<address> My God, because Thou art so good, I love Thee with all my heart, and for Thy sake I love my neighbor as myself.</address>
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<address>Act of Contrition: </address>
<address> My God, because Thou art so good,</address>
<address> With sorrow I deplore</address>
<address> That I have ever offended Thee.</address>
<address> I’ll never offend Thee more.</address>
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<address><strong>The Confiteor:</strong></address>
<address> I confess to Almighty God, to blessed Mary ever Virgin, to blessed Michael the Archangel, to blessed John the Baptist, to the holy Apostles Peter and Paul, to all the Saints, that I have sinned exceedingly in thought, word, and deed, through my fault, through my fault, through my most grievous fault. Therefore I beseech the blessed Mary ever Virgin, blessed Michael the Archangel, blessed John the Baptist, the holy Apostles Peter and Paul, and all Saints, to pray to the Lord our God for me.</address>
<address> May the Almighty God have mercy on me, forgive me my sins, and bring me to everlasting life. Amen.</address>
<address> May the Almighty and merciful Lord grant me pardon, absolution, and remission of my sins. Amen.</address>
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<address><strong>The Four Cardinal Virtues:</strong></address>
<address>1.     Prudence. Christian prudence causes us to discriminate in every circumstance the good from the bad, and prevents our being led astray by false appearances.</address>
<address>2.     Justice. By the practice of Christian justice, we constantly render to every one, to God, to superiors, to equals, and inferiors, all that we owe them.</address>
<address>3.     Fortitude. Christian fortitude enables us to overcome all the difficulties and dangers that might prevent us from doing good.</address>
<address>4.     Temperance. By Christian temperance we keep our sensual inclinations and desires in check.</address>
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<address><strong>Christian Perfection:</strong></address>
<address> Christian perfection consists in this: That we love God above all things, and all things for God’s sake.</address>
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<address><strong>The Seven Gifts of the Holy Ghost:</strong></address>
<address> The seven gifts of the Holy Ghost are: Wisdom, Understanding, Counsel, Fortitude, Knowledge, Piety, and the Fear of the Lord. They are infused into the soul, together with Sanctifying Grace, and affect us in such a way that, following the inspirations of the Holy Ghost, we dread to offend God (Fear of the Lord); we feel toward Him like children (Piety); we can rightly discriminate between the false and true, the good and the bad (Knowledge); we courageously conquer all obstacles in the serviced of God (Fortitude); we choose what is most advantageous for the honor of God and the salvation of souls (Counsel); we apprehend what is divine and eternal (Understanding); we love and esteem it as our greatest treasure (Wisdom). The Christian needs the first five gifts in order to struggle manfully; the two last, Understanding and Wisdom, are necessary to pray well.</address>
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<address><strong>The Merit of Good Works:</strong></address>
<address> All our words and actions as well as our good thoughts and holy imaginations, virtuous desires and resolutions, pleasure in good and fear of evil, briefly all our good works, exterior and interior, when performed in the state of grace, and with a good intention, are meritorious for heaven. They produce in us an increase of sanctifying grace and a greater love of God besides a higher degree of heavenly bliss; they obtain for us the remission of venial sin and of temporal punishment; and, finally, they procure for us and for others special actual graces.</address>
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<address><strong>Prayer, Fasting, Almsgiving:</strong></address>
<address> The principal good works are prayer, fasting and almsgiving, and comprise in themselves all other good works. Prayer embraces all other religious exercises; fasting, all corporal discipline; and almsgiving, all acts of mercy toward our neighbor. When practiced in their perfection, they lead to the three:</address>
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<address><strong>Evangelical Counsels:</strong></address>
<address> Entire obedience to a superior as to the representative of God, perpetual chastity, and voluntary poverty. By the three evangelical counsels, man sacrifices himself entirely to God. By chastity, his body; and by poverty, all his possessions. Only few are called by God to such a life. Members of religious orders bind themselves to it by vows.</address>
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<address>The Works of Corporal and Spiritual Mercy:</address>
<address> Christian charity does not consist in mere words and sentiments; it must also become practical in deeds. The ordinary needs of body and soul may be reduced to seven kinds, and hence we distinguish seven corporal and seven spiritual works of mercy.</address>
<blockquote><address> <strong>The Corporal Works of Mercy </strong></address>
<address>I.       To feed the hungry.</address>
<address>II.     To give drink to the thirsty.</address>
<address>III.   To clothe the naked.</address>
<address>IV.  To ransom the captive.</address>
<address>V.    To harbor the harborless.</address>
<address>VI.  To visit the sick.</address>
<address>VII. To bury the dead.</address>
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<address> <strong>The Spiritual Works of Mercy</strong></address>
<address>I.       To admonish the sinner.</address>
<address>II.     To instruct the ignorant.</address>
<address>III.   To counsel the doubtful.</address>
<address>IV.  To comfort the sorrowful.</address>
<address>V.    To bear wrongs patiently.</address>
<address>VI.  To forgive all injuries</address>
<address>VII.        To pray for the living and the dead.</address>
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<address>Point out to the child the works of mercy which are performed on its body and soul by others and which it can and ought to perform itself.</address>
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<address><strong>The Imitation of Jesus Christ:</strong></address>
<address> This imitation manifests itself in love of Jesus Christ, reverence for His words, obedience to His will, the following of His example. They follow Jesus Christ who exercise the three Theological Virtues, the four Cardinal Virtues, and the eight Beatitudes, and who cooperate with the seven gifts of the Holy Ghost. Seek ever to understand the Divine Master better and better, for this is eternal life.</address>
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<blockquote><address>The Eight Beatitudes (Matt. V):</address>
<address>I.   Blessed are the poor in spirit; for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.</address>
<address>II.  Blessed are the meek; for they shall possess the land.</address>
<address>III.  Blessed are they that mourn; for they shall be comforted.</address>
<address>IV.  Blessed are they that hunger and thirst after justice; for they shall be filled.</address>
<address>V.  Blessed are the merciful; for they shall obtain mercy.</address>
<address>VI. Blessed are the clean of heart; for they shall see God.</address>
<address>VII. Blessed are the peacemakers; for they shall be called the children of God.</address>
<address>VIII. Blessed are they that suffer persecution for justice’ sake; for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.</address>
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<address> The poor in spirit are they who have no attachment to perishable goods, whether they have earthly possessions or not. The meek are they who gently repay aversion and persecution with kindness and benefits. They “shall possess the land” means they shall gain the love and respect of all good people, shall oftentimes win over their adversaries; but, above all, shall obtain the kingdom of God, namely heaven. </address>
<address> They mourn in a holy manner, who are patient in suffering, who grieve over their own or others’ sins, or who long for the kingdom of heaven. </address>
<address> Hunger and thirst after justice indicate an ardent longing after virtue, after perfection, after grace, after the holy Sacraments, after the word of God, etc.</address>
<address> Merciful are they who are easily moved to compassion, and who love to exercise works of mercy.</address>
<address> The chaste souls detached from earthly things have a pure heart. They cheerfully stand before God here below, praying readily and fervently. And thus they enjoy a foretaste of the eternal vision of God which is prepared for them in heaven.</address>
<address> The peacemakers preserve peace with God by avoiding sin; they guard, as much as they can, against dissensions with and among their neighbors; and, as soon as they can, they restore the peace that may have been disturbed. They bear a special likeness to God, who is a God of peace; they are His well-beloved children, the objects of His special favor.</address>
<address> Ill-will, contempt, and persecution are the portion of all those who would lead a Christian life. What men inflicted upon the Divine Master, even this his disciples may expect: the cross and martyrdom.</address>
<address> The children of this world consider those who follow this road to heaven as fools, ridicule and despise them. This only shows how little the worldling understands what would save him from the eternal perdition into which he is precipitating himself.</address>
<address> </address>
<address><strong>The Twelve Fruits of the Holy Ghost:</strong></address>
<address> As the spirit of the flesh and the world can bring forth only evil and bitter fruit, so the Holy Ghost, on the other hand, produces in all souls, that allow Him to work freely in them, a multitude of beautiful virtues and good works, of which the holy Apostle Paul enumerates twelve, as follows:</address>
<blockquote><address> Charity, Joy, Peace, Patience, Benignity, Goodness, Long-Suffering, Meekness, Fidelity, Modesty, Continency, Chastity.</address>
</blockquote>
<address> </address>
<address><strong>The Four Last Things </strong>which men should constantly keep before their eyes, are: Death, Judgment, Hell, and Heaven.</address>
<address> </address>
<address><strong>The Life-Work </strong>of every Christian here below is:</address>
<blockquote><address>I.    To serve God, by keeping His commandments.</address>
<address>II.   To imitate Jesus Christ, by practicing the Christian virtues.</address>
<address>III.  To honor the angels and saints and invoke them.</address>
<address>IV.  To save his soul.</address>
<address>V.    To avoid hell.</address>
<address>VI.  To gain heaven.</address>
<address>VII. To despise the vanity of the world.</address>
<address>VIII. To atone for his sins.</address>
<address>IX.  To overcome evil inclinations.</address>
<address>X.  To perform good works.</address>
<address>XI. To edify his neighbor.</address>
<address>XII. To die, and to stand before the judgment-seat of Christ.</address>
</blockquote>
<address> </address>
<address><strong>The Two Means of Perseverance </strong>are watchfulness and prayer. “Watch and pray,” said the Divine Saviour to His disciples, “that ye enter not into temptation. The spirit, indeed, is willing, but the flesh is weak.” We must watch over the evil inclinations of our nature, that we do not fall into sin; over the movements of grace, that we may profit by them; over our love for Jesus Christ, that it may not be lost to us. We must pray, because without the assistance of God we can do nothing toward our salvation, much less persevere in the love of Jesus Christ. We must always watch, always pray, because we are always in danger of being unloyal [sic] to the love of Christ. Those moments in which we gave way to our evil inclinations, were moments of negligence in watchfulness and prayer.</address>
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		<description><![CDATA[Little Book of Instructions for Christian Mothers [continued] (from Mother Love – A Manual for Christian Mothers – by Rev. Pius Franciscus, O.M.Cap., 1926) On the Christian Training of Children Chapter XIII. – How a Christian Mother Should Prepare Her Child for Confession. The sincere confession of sins and faults in union with a sincere [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='series_toc'><h3>Table of contents for Mother Love</h3><ol><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2008/11/the-christian-training-children-chapt-1-early-cares/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Early Cares'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Early Cares</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/01/the-christian-training-of-children-new-and-more-difficult-cares/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; New and more Difficult Cares'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; New and more Difficult Cares</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/02/the-christian-training-of-children-admonition-to-mother/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Admonition to Mother'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Admonition to Mother</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/02/the-christian-training-of-children-combating-concupiscence-of-the-flesh/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Flesh'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Flesh</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/02/the-christian-training-of-children-combating-concupiscence-of-the-eyes/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Eyes'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Eyes</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/03/the-christian-training-of-children-combating-pride/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Pride'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Pride</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/04/the-christian-training-of-children-rewards-punishments/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Rewards and Punishments'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Rewards and Punishments</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/04/the-christian-training-of-children-the-fathers-role/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; The Father&#8217;s Role'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; The Father&#8217;s Role</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/05/the-christian-training-of-children-prayers/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Prayers'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Prayers</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-maxims-and-sayings/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Maxims and Sayings'>The Christian Training of Children – Maxims and Sayings</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/05/the-christian-training-of-children-co-operation-with-pastor-and-teacher/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Co-operation with Pastor and Teacher'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Co-operation with Pastor and Teacher</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-catechetical-instruction/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Catechetical Instruction'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Catechetical Instruction</a></li><li>The Christian Training of Children – Preparing a Child for Confession</li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/05/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-preparation-for-holy-communion/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Preparation for Holy Communion'>The Christian Training of Children – Preparation for Holy Communion</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-care-of-young-adults/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Care of Young Adults'>The Christian Training of Children – Care of Young Adults</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/mother-love/' title='Mother Love'>Mother Love</a></li></ol></div> <p><strong>Little Book of Instructions for Christian Mothers</strong> [continued]<br />
(from <em>Mother Love</em> – <em>A Manual for Christian Mothers</em> – by Rev. Pius Franciscus, O.M.Cap., 1926)</p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>On the Christian Training of Children</strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong><strong>Chapter XIII. – How a Christian Mother Should Prepare Her Child for Confession.</strong></p>
<div id="attachment_717" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><strong><img class="size-full wp-image-717" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/beanbags5.gif" alt="Third Grade students work on bean bags (a field trip fundraiser)." width="300" height="221" /></strong><p class="wp-caption-text">Third Grade students work on bean bags (a field trip fundraiser).</p></div>
<p>The sincere confession of sins and faults in union with a sincere sorrow for them and a firm resolution to amend is the best means to root out any bad habits or any evil inclination, as well as to strengthen the will in its determination to practice virtue and fulfill the daily duties and obligations. Confession teaches self-knowledge. Confession reveals the ugly side of our individuality, gives us a clearer view of our responsibility, and proves very vividly that sin, mortal and venial, is an offense, an insult against the supreme authority and majesty of God. Confession, therefore, has a distinct educative value in the development of character such as no other means can supply.<span id="more-713"></span></p>
<p>To obtain these results it is important to have the child thoroughly prepared and instructed in the proper manner of receiving the sacrament of Penance. No one can so easily and so effectively contribute to this thorough preparation as a pious father and a pious mother. Therefore parents should for the sake of their children make frequent use of the Holy Sacrament themselves. Their example will be the child’s first lesson on the subject of confession. The child will be deeply impressed when it observes how for some days after receiving the sacraments father and mother evidently are more subdued, more happy and peaceful, less irritable and less impatient.</p>
<div id="attachment_718" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 260px"><img class="size-full wp-image-718" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/beanbags2.gif" alt="Only clean consciences can work happily!" width="250" height="195" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Only clean consciences can work happily!</p></div>
<p>When, finally, the time arrives for the child to make its first confession, the parents should evince a cordial interest in its prospective happiness. They should carefully guard against frightening the child about confession and never represent confession as a difficult and laborious task; on the contrary they should represent it as comparatively easy. They should instill into the child’s heart love and confidence towards the priest who hears its confession in the name of Jesus Christ, in Whose name he is also ready to absolve every child, if it is sorry for its sins and resolved never to commit them again.</p>
<p>About a week before the day fixed for its first confession the parents should begin to pray with the child for the grace to make a good and worthy confession. The Our Father, the Hail Mary, or some other easy prayer will be suitable. The following prayer or at least a part of it may also serve the purpose:</p>
<blockquote><p>O Jesus, my God and Savior, I have often been a naughty child, I have been bold and saucy, disobedient and stubborn, and in this way I have displease You very much, so that You could hardly love me any more. I wish I had never done anything wrong. My Lord, I am sorry for all the naughty things I have done. I will never do them again. I love You, Lord; please, forgive me all my sins and love me again also. Help me to make a good confession, and help the other children too.</p></blockquote>
<p>If a child receives sufficient instruction in school, the parents’ task will be much easier. All they need do in this case, is to let the child tell them what was said in school, and then supply what the child may have forgotten. Certainly the task will be much more difficult if the school instruction is deficient. Then the duty will devolve upon the parents to instruct the child themselves. The following items may be of great usefulness to them.</p>
<p>Five things are necessary for a good confession:</p>
<blockquote><p>1) Prayer to the Holy Ghost;</p>
<p>2) Examination of conscience;</p>
<p>3) Sorrow for sin and the resolution to sin no more;</p>
<p>4) Telling of our sins to the priest;</p>
<p>5) Satisfaction or penance.</p></blockquote>
<p>The first is prayer to the Holy Ghost. This prayer the parents should have the child repeat frequently, till it has learned to say it devoutly. The following form may well serve the purpose:</p>
<blockquote><p>Come, O Holy Ghost, and enlighten me that I may know my sins, be heartily<br />
sorry for them, and sincerely confess them, and earnestly amend my life.</p></blockquote>
<div id="attachment_719" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 250px"><img class="size-full wp-image-719" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/beanbags8.gif" alt="Our students make their first confession in first grade (usually). This Third Grade boy could give YOU some tips on &quot;sewing a straight line&quot; in your life." width="240" height="290" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Our students make their first confession in first grade (usually). This Third Grade boy could give YOU some tips on &quot;sewing a straight line&quot; in your life.</p></div>
<p>Then follows the examination of conscience. When the child is quite young and has only learned the rudiments of the catechism, the parents should assist it in making this examination.</p>
<p>A good way to help children recall their sins is to remind them of how they behaved at home, at school, at church, on the street, on the playgrounds, towards father and mother, towards brothers and sisters, towards the teacher and towards other children. Parents should not ask their children to tell them the wrongs committed, but if a child should in its innocence reveal something which father and mother never expected it to do, they should not become excited over the revelation but use the opportunity calmly to recall the meaning of sin and the punishment which God will inflict for sin.</p>
<p>Children should also be assisted in making an act of contrition, and parents should consider it a privilege to teach them some form of this act. Any of the following will meet the purpose.</p>
<blockquote><p>My Father in heaven, I am sorry for all the naughty things I have done because<br />
They have displeased You Who are so good and kind, and because I love You.<br />
I do love You, indeed I do. Please forgive me and help me to be a good child<br />
after my confession.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>O my God, I am sorry that I have sinned against You, because You are so good,<br />
and I will sin no more.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>O my God, I am sorry for all my sins. I hate them more than all evils, because<br />
they deserve Thy dreadful punishments; I hate them because they offend Thy<br />
infinite Goodness. Do not punish me as I deserve. Forgive me and I will try not<br />
to do these sins again.</p></blockquote>
<p>Older and better instructed children should be taught to make their examination of conscience by going through the then commandments of God, the six commandments of the Church, the nine ways of being accessory to the sins of others, and the seven capital sins.</p>
<p>The first commandment demands that the child recite daily and devoutly its morning and evening prayers, the grace before and after meals, and frequent acts of Faith, Hope, and Charity.</p>
<p>The second commandment requires reverence towards the names of God, of the Saints, and of holy things. It forbids therefore the abuse of the name of God and of Jesus Christ by using them as by-words or in curing and sinful swearing.</p>
<div id="attachment_720" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 210px"><img class="size-full wp-image-720" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/beanbags6.gif" alt="The cheerfulness of a clean soul!" width="200" height="301" /><p class="wp-caption-text">The cheerfulness of a clean soul!</p></div>
<p>The third commandment demands attendance at Mass on Sundays and feast days of obligation, and also attendance at Christian Doctrine instructions; it forbids on Sundays and feast days any kind of unnecessary manual labor, and at all times bad conduct in church, such as laughing, talking, playing, disturbing others at prayer, and inattention during church service.</p>
<p>The fourth commandment requires reverence, obedience, gratitude and love towards father and mother, towards the priest and the teacher; and these obligations also include that children gladly accept and follow the admonitions of their superiors; that they do not despise parents and superiors; neither offend, deceive, or provoke them, nor wish them evil or speak evil of them. Finally it commands to respect old people and forbids ridiculing them, etc.</p>
<p>The fifth commandment demands that all persons and especially those who are more closely connected with us, as brothers and sisters, relatives and comrades, be treated with respect and consideration and that we should do them no harm either in body or soul. Hence we should fail against this commandment if we are self-willed and disagreeable, contemptuous and hateful, rude and unmannerly, harsh and uncharitable, irritable and revengeful; if we quarrel, fight and strike others or in some other way seek to hurt them; if we curse ourselves and others, endanger our own lives and the lives of others, and unnecessarily inflict pain upon dumb animals. Finally we fail against it when we are accessory to the sin of others. There are nine ways of being accessory to the sins of others: 1) by counsel, 2) by command, 3) by consent, 4) by provocation, 5) by praise or flattery, 6) by silence, 7) by toleration, 8) by assistance, and 9) by defense of the evil done. Tolerating or not punishing a sin is a sin which parents and superior commit when they are too lenient and indulgent with their subjects. It is evident that children cannot be accessory to the sins of others in this manner, but in all other ways they also can cooperate with another’s sin.</p>
<p>The sixth and ninth commandments forbid all unchasteness in thought, imagination and desire, as well as in looks, words, and actions, and, in short, everything that might lead to such sins, as dangerous reading, dangerous games, dangerous company.</p>
<div id="attachment_721" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 330px"><img class="size-full wp-image-721" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/beanbags4.gif" alt="Wouldn't you like to buy a bean bag? We promise to give you the correct change." width="320" height="282" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Wouldn&#39;t you like to buy a bean bag? We promise to give you the correct change.</p></div>
<p>The seventh and tenth commandments demand honesty and justice in all our dealings with others; therefore, they forbid pilfering and stealing, receiving stolen goods and keeping what was found, destroying and injuring the property of others. Children, furthermore, are not permitted even at home, to take anything that does not belong to them, nor give anything away without the permission or consent of their parents.</p>
<p>The eighth commandment demands truthfulness as well as respect for the honor and reputation of our fellow-men. Therefore it is a sin against this commandment to tell lies, may they be ever so slight, to insult our neighbor or speak badly about him whether it be true or not true. To make known secret faults of our neighbor without necessity is called detraction; to brand him with crimes and faults which are untrue is slander or calumny.</p>
<p>The commandments of the Church dictate the manner in which Sundays and feast days must be observed, and this has been referred to in the third commandment of God; but, besides, a child is obliged by the law of the Church also to abstain from flesh meat on Fridays and all days of abstinence, and is also bound to go to confession once a year and to receive Holy Communion at Easter time.</p>
<p>Finally children should be taught to examine themselves regarding the seven deadly or capital sins. Regarding pride they should ask themselves whether they raise themselves above their neighbor or even above God, and think themselves better than others. Sometimes children think they look pretty because of their hair or their dress or their eyes, and like to show off before others, etc. These actions are not real pride, but are indications of vanity and silliness.</p>
<p>Avarice shows itself in wanting everything for yourself, and never sharing with others any of the good things you may have.</p>
<p>Sins of lust are sins of unchasteness, as forbidden in the sixth commandment.</p>
<p>Envy shows itself when you grieve at the good things which others receive, and are glad when they meet with misfortune.</p>
<p>Gluttony is eating or drinking too much, or [doing] something which is injurious to the health of the body.</p>
<div id="attachment_722" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 250px"><img class="size-full wp-image-722" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/beanbags7.gif" alt="It takes concentration not to get distracted!" width="240" height="221" /><p class="wp-caption-text">It takes concentration not to get distracted!</p></div>
<p>Sloth is to neglect the work which you should do, because you do not like to do it or do not feel like doing it; sloth shows itself also in omitting our daily prayers, missing Mass and other devotions in church, neglecting the study of the catechism, etc.</p>
<p>It is not advisable to let the younger children make their whole examination of conscience at one time; let them do it gradually so that their little minds do not tire, and they perhaps get disgusted with the whole matter. Neither should they get the impression as if the examination of conscience and the memorizing of the sins were the most important part in preparing for the sacrament of Penance. It is certainly true that they should remember their mortal sins well and the number of times these were committed; and the child must not be allowed to consider the examination as negligible. Still the emphasis should be given to the necessity of a sincere sorrow for sin and a firm purpose of amendment. Hence in the course of the examination the parents should repeatedly try to elicit in the child sentiments and acts of real contrition. This can be most easily accomplished by pointing out again and again the motives for sorrow in language which will be intelligible to the child. A long discourse on these motives would be of little value. A mother’s instinct will naturally find the best method, but for a little guidance herein we have appended a few suggestions.</p>
<p>After having given the child some time to recall its faults, for instance, against the fourth commandment of God, the mother might ask: “Well, my child, are you sorry for these sins?” Whether it answers, “yes” or “no,” mother should use the opportunity to recall to the child one of the motives of sorrow in the following manner: “My child, remember, that all sins, event he smallest, are insults against the good God and displease and provoke Him very much.”</p>
<div id="attachment_723" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 210px"><img class="size-full wp-image-723" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/beanbags1.gif" alt="It is a valuable assistance to mothers to have the Sisters to help them in the training of their children." width="200" height="243" /><p class="wp-caption-text">It is a valuable assistance to mothers to have the Sisters to help them in the training of their children.</p></div>
<p>At another time she might say: “Remember, child, even venial sins are hated by God, and they lead slowly but surely to mortal sin, and mortal sin leads to the eternal punishment of hell; and do not forget, God punishes venial sins very severely even in this world, but especially in the fires of purgatory.” On another occasion she might remind the child of the horror of sin as follows: “Sin, my child, is indeed a very wicked thing, otherwise God would not have demanded that His beloved Son Jesus Christ suffer so many and cruel pains and tortures. To redeem us from sin and from hell the Son of God had to come from heaven, become man, be persecuted and hated and finally shed the last drop of His blood and die for us on the Cross.”</p>
<p>Again mother might speak to her child as follows: “Remember, my child, by every sin you do, you hurt Jesus just as much and even more than the Jews did. The Jews hurt His body only, but by sins you hurt His soul, His Heart which loves you so much, and desires to give you only what is good.” Finally, a mother might recall to the child all the great favors and benefits which God has bestowed on the child, such as life and health, food and clothing; the grace of baptism and of Christian instruction, the companionship and protection of the guardian angel, etc. Surely all these considerations repeatedly and earnestly retold will not fail to impress the tender heart of your child, and will fill it with a horror for everything sinful so that it will resolve never to be ungrateful again and never to commit a sin again, because God is so good and holy and sin is so vile and punishable. After you have accomplished this result, it may be very profitable if the mother or the father will recite with the child the following litany:</p>
<blockquote><p>Lord, have mercy on us! Christ, have mercy on us!<br />
Lord, have mercy on us! Christ, hear us! Christ, graciously hear us!<br />
God the Father of heaven, have mercy on us!<br />
God the Son, Redeemer of the world, have mercy on us!<br />
God the Holy Ghost, have mercy on us!<br />
Holy Trinity, one God, have mercy on us!<br />
Thou who dost call all sinners to penance and the amendment of life, have mercy on us!<br />
Thou who dost not take pleasure in chastisement and condemnation, etc.<br />
Thou who dost will to preserve every creature from hell and render him happy,<br />
Thou who hast promised me, also, pardon and grace if I am sorry for my sins and<br />
never again commit them,<br />
I have sinned,<br />
I have repeatedly and thoughtlessly sinned,<br />
I have trodden under foot Thy commandments,<br />
I have not fulfilled my duties,<br />
I have neither watched nor prayed,<br />
I have not feared Thy punishments,<br />
I have dishonored Thee,<br />
I have irritated Thee,<br />
I have renewed Thy Passion,<br />
I have deserved the most severe punishments,<br />
I am sorry that I ever committed a single sin,<br />
I am sorry that I ever displeased Thee,<br />
I am sorry that I was ever disobedient to Thee,<br />
I am sorry that I was ever ungrateful to Thee,<br />
I am sorry that I ever departed from Thy love,<br />
I will now detest all evil,<br />
I will now be carefully on my guard against it,<br />
I will now cheerfully overcome myself,<br />
I will pray repeatedly and devoutly,<br />
I will consider sin the greatest evil on earth,<br />
I will rather die than ever willfully commit a single sin again,<br />
Grant me, O God, grace to keep my resolution,<br />
Enlighten my understanding and strengthen my will,<br />
Preserve me from temptation and seduction,<br />
Protect me from the snares of the evil spirit,<br />
Subdue my evil desires and passions,<br />
Grant that I may rejoice in virtue and the fear of God,<br />
Bestow upon me final perseverance in good,<br />
Give to me a short and easy purgatory,<br />
Take me to heaven and make me eternally happy,<br />
Lamb of God, who takest away the sins of the world, spare us, O Lord.<br />
Lamb of God, who takest away the sins of the world, graciously hear us, O Lord.<br />
Lamb of God, who takest away the sins of the world, have mercy on us.</p>
<p>Let us pray.<br />
Heavenly Father, Thou dost love us so much and art willing to forgive us<br />
when with a sorrowing heart we come to you for forgiveness. I have been very naughty and disobedient. I have not loved or honored Thee as I should. I deserve to be punished severely. Please forgive me my past sins, because I am sorry for them, and from now on I will never do anything willfully that I know displeases Thee. Love me again , O Lord, as Thou didst love me before. Love me as if I had never sinned; yes, love me more and help me to love Thee also more than anything else. Help me to keep my promise that I may always be Thy good and loving child, and may also give pleasure to my parents and teachers and to all my friends. Amen.</p></blockquote>
<p>Your child, dear mother, is now ready for the cleansing, healing and helping graces of the sacrament of Penance. But before sending it to the confessional, instruct it also how it should enter the confessional, teach it the form it should use in beginning the confession, and also the one with which it should close its confession. Finally instruct it also to make a short thanksgiving after confession, and then to say the penance which the priest imposed. Then let your child “show itself to the priest” so that he may bless it and by the words of absolution purify it from the stains of sins and adorn it with the garb of sanctifying grace.</p>
<div id="attachment_724" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 310px"><img class="size-full wp-image-724" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/beanbags3.gif" alt="Bean bags are very useful for a variety of games and using energy that could get children into trouble. (Bean bags are also useful for developing physical coordination skills!)" width="300" height="199" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Bean bags are very useful for a variety of games and using energy that could get children into trouble. (Bean bags are also useful for developing physical coordination skills!) Would you like any for Christmas presents?</p></div>
<p>When the child returns from church, receive it, dear mother, with evident signs of joy and admonish it to make itself worthy of the great mercy it has just obtained. Watch over its conduct closely for the next few days, and remind it occasionally of its good resolutions.</p>
<p>Oh, how much good a Christian mother can achieve by taking a personal interest in her child’s confessions! She thereby sows a seed that is bound to bring forth fruit a thousandfold. Surely it requires much tact and much tender solicitude, but all her loving efforts will be richly rewarded when she sees her little ones earnestly responding and striving to make a good and worthy confession. And as they begin in their childhood to appreciate the value of this holy sacrament, she may confidently expect that also in later life they will find in it a source of consolation and of spiritual rejuvenation and strength against the dangers and the temptations of the wicked world. Through their whole lives and in eternity they will be ever grateful to your solicitude which familiarized them with this treasury of grace and opened to them the gates of heaven.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='series_toc'><h3>Table of contents for Mother Love</h3><ol><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2008/11/the-christian-training-children-chapt-1-early-cares/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Early Cares'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Early Cares</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/01/the-christian-training-of-children-new-and-more-difficult-cares/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; New and more Difficult Cares'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; New and more Difficult Cares</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/02/the-christian-training-of-children-admonition-to-mother/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Admonition to Mother'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Admonition to Mother</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/02/the-christian-training-of-children-combating-concupiscence-of-the-flesh/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Flesh'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Flesh</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/02/the-christian-training-of-children-combating-concupiscence-of-the-eyes/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Eyes'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Eyes</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/03/the-christian-training-of-children-combating-pride/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Pride'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Pride</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/04/the-christian-training-of-children-rewards-punishments/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Rewards and Punishments'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Rewards and Punishments</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/04/the-christian-training-of-children-the-fathers-role/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; The Father&#8217;s Role'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; The Father&#8217;s Role</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/05/the-christian-training-of-children-prayers/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Prayers'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Prayers</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-maxims-and-sayings/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Maxims and Sayings'>The Christian Training of Children – Maxims and Sayings</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/05/the-christian-training-of-children-co-operation-with-pastor-and-teacher/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Co-operation with Pastor and Teacher'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Co-operation with Pastor and Teacher</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-catechetical-instruction/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Catechetical Instruction'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Catechetical Instruction</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-preparing-a-child-for-confession/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Preparing a Child for Confession'>The Christian Training of Children – Preparing a Child for Confession</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/05/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-preparation-for-holy-communion/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Preparation for Holy Communion'>The Christian Training of Children – Preparation for Holy Communion</a></li><li>The Christian Training of Children – Care of Young Adults</li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/mother-love/' title='Mother Love'>Mother Love</a></li></ol></div> <p><span style="color: #000000"><strong>Little Book of   Instructions for Christian Mothers</strong></span> [concluded]<br />
(from <em>Mother Love</em> – <em>A Manual for Christian Mothers</em> –   by Rev. Pius Franciscus, O.M.Cap., 1926)<strong> On the Christian Training of Children</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Chapter XII. –</strong> <strong>A Christian Mother’s Care of Her Child after the Period of School-Life.</strong></p>
<p>The periods of childhood and school-life are soon past, and then there begins a period of life which is, indeed, fraught with dangers for your son and your daughter. It is the period of transition in which the life-course of your child is definitely settled, its character firmly fixed, and its vocation decided. It is the period which decides the weal or woe of your child’s whole future, both temporal and eternal. <span id="more-982"></span>During this period the battle between Christ and Satan, between the Church and the World, rages more than ever for the possession of the heart of your growing boy and girl. In this period your child experiences new and strange sensations; and novel ideas, inclinations and desires present themselves; they promise pleasure and more or less insistently demand gratification. On every side the child beholds the alluring appeals of the three-fold concupiscence, everywhere it sees the wanton abandon with which the votaries of the world seem to surrender themselves to every enjoyment and pleasure. Few it sees who follow in the footsteps of Christ, few who mortify their passions and deny their inclinations, and these few are despised and ridiculed. Will your child join the big crowd, or will it follow in the wake of the few?</p>
<p>This is not all that faces your child, dear Christian Mother, in making its choice. Your boy and your girl have started to feel their importance since graduating from school. They are working, they are earning money which every week helps to meet the expenses for the upkeep of the family. They feel that, because they are contributing towards the family funds, they ought to have more liberty than heretofore and be allowed to be the masters of their time and of their action. The urge of independence is becoming stronger.</p>
<p>They do not want you to interfere with their “fun,” as they call it. All the young people are having good times, why shouldn’t they have them just as well?</p>
<p>These two new conditions — the strange physical manifestations and the urge of independence — are the factors that make it so necessary for the prudent mother to keep her eyes more widely open than ever. If ever, so especially now a mother should possess the full confidence of her boy and girl, and strive to hold it without seeming to pry into any secrets. This may be difficult at times, but if the child has been reared according to the principles and suggestions laid down in this book, it ought to be comparatively easy. The boy and girl and have come to realize that mother is not unsympathetic, that, while she believes life to be an earnest duty, she at the same time believes that it should be generously interspersed with innocent amusements and recreations and with every comfort and ease that is compatible with Christian ideals and principles. And there need be no special effort to confirm your boy and girl in this view. Having held their confidence for so many years, you need but sympathize with the new spirit that possesses them and, ordinarily they will accept your interpretations of the changing phases of their life. But in her sympathy mother must not compromise her position. She must not only be her children’s sympathetic companion and guide, she must also remain the queen of her home and assert her God-given right of authority. Therefore, while she may relax somewhat in supervising every detail of her growing children’s actions, yet she must not tolerate any willful disobedience in moral problems of importance. The following paragraphs will attempt to show how a Christina mother may cope with the various phases of this new period of her children’s life.</p>
<p>In the first place a Christian mother will direct her children at this period in the employment of their time. As long as the children went to school, the school practically regulated their time on account of the demands which their teachers and their lessons made upon them. Since their graduation from school, the children will have much leisure time which must be well utilized if it should not make them dissipated. In every household there should be a regular daily routine, which barring extraordinary cases should be observed faithfully. There should be a fixed hour for rising, a fixed hour for family morning prayer, a fixed hour for breakfast, a fixed hour for going to or beginning work, a fixed time for the noon-meal and the return to work, a fixed time for the evening meal and a fixed time and a fixed period for recreation and relaxation and enjoyment, a for profitable reading, for self-improvement, both intellectual and physical, and a fixed time for family night prayer. The son, having finished school, should be assigned to the work for which his talents, natural gifts and abilities fit him. It may be that he is fitted for more than just manual labor. In this case his parents should strive to give him the opportunity to become proficient in the profession most suitable to him, may it be law, medicine, business, or some particular commercial pursuit. He should be encouraged in his ambitions, as long as they do not interfere with the interests of his soul, and if they are not beyond the family finances.</p>
<p>As regards the daughter we would strongly discourage the idea of putting girls to work among strangers at the age of sixteen. We believe in the old-fashioned idea of keeping them at home and teaching them the important occupation of housewifery in some shape or form. There are so many domestic duties to be fulfilled, duties which mean so much for the comfort and the happiness of home-life. Girls should become acquainted with and learn all of them, cooking, washing, cleaning, sewing, darning, fancy work, etc. After girls have become older and after they have been trained in the various duties of housework, they may, if necessary, be allowed to go out to work, but they should be given charge of some of the household duties even then. The principal aim in the training of the girls must be, after all, to fit them for good housewives and mothers.</p>
<p>The next point of importance is recreation. How much recreation should boys and girls have? There certainly must be a limit, though, in general, we may say that it should be plentiful, taking care merely that recreation and enjoyment do not interfere with the proper fulfillment of the daily duties. When pleasures are sought merely for the sake of enjoyment we consider them injurious to the spiritual welfare of a person. If in any way possible, all recreation and pleasure should be provided for at home, music, singing, dancing, interesting books, games, cards, etc. The more attractive and pleasant you can make your home, the less desire your children will have to seek their enjoyments outside, and the more the family will keep united. Fewer sins are committed in a bright home than in a dull, gloomy one, and this is surely a great gain. As much as possible, the frequentation of theaters, public dances and amusement places should be discouraged and, indeed, should not be allowed except under the escort of mother or of some discreet elderly person; this should at least be the rule for the girls. Outdoor games, such as baseball, tennis, swimming, skating, and others are very conducive to the physical well-being of the young, and should also be readily allowed, but never to be pursued so far as to become a passion, or an injury to the health.</p>
<p>The choice of companions or friends is a third point that requires the earnest attention of a good Christian mother. All the good which a careful education may have sowed into the hearts of your children, can be rooted out again in a very short time by dangerous companions and friends. Experience only too frequently has proven the truth of that Scriptural proverb, “Evil associations corrupt good manners.” Mother should investigate thoroughly the moral character of every companion of her son or daughter before approving of the companionship. Innocence and faith are easily endangered, love of God and peace of conscience are easily lost, and neither can be regained except through mighty struggles and severe penance, if at all. Particular supervision must be exercised in your children’s associations with persons of the opposite sex. All the warnings that mother ever heard from the pulpit or read in books of instruction should be ever before her mind, so that her boy and her girl may not become victims of the devil of lust who only too often lurks under the guise of refinement and etiquette.</p>
<p>The choice of books and other reading material is another grave matter. Mother should never permit any trashy novel to come into her house whether it be gotten at the public library, or be bought at a nearby newsstand. No magazine, pamphlet or newspaper of whatever type — literary, scientific, political, economic, or social — should be permitted if it contains anything that might be contrary to good faith and good morals. Both the son and daughter should be earnestly warned against picking up indiscriminately every magazine that flaunts gay colors or a catchy title. A good rule which mother should inculcate into the hearts of both her sons and daughters is the following: “Never read a book by yourself, which you would blush to read aloud to a respectable person.”</p>
<p>Mother should also gently but firmly urge the practice of weekly confession and communion. She should also recommend devout assistance at daily Mass and at the ordinary church services, and whatever she admonishes her children to do, she herself should practice and induce her husband and the father of her children to fulfill as far as his business or work permits. Here we would also urge mother to have her boy and her girl enrolled in the young men’s or the young ladies’ sodality, and she should send them to the vocational instructions which are occasionally given by the sodality director. Those instructions will no doubt supplement many of her own admonitions and teachings and will keep alive in her children the earlier instructions of their schooldays.</p>
<p>It may be that God will inspire your son or daughter with the desire of consecrating themselves to a higher, to the more perfect life in the service of God. This call should be appreciated, indeed, as a special favor of God, and if your boy be otherwise fitted for the holy priesthood, dear Christian Mother, rejoice! Do not oppose his desire, but urge him to seek the advice of his confessor, who will more thoroughly investigate the purity of the boy’s intentions and who will advise the manner of preserving and attaining his desire. And if your daughter desires to devote her life in holy virginity to the care of the sick or to the education of the young and ignorant, encourage her in her laudable aspirations and thank God that He has singled out one of your own flesh and blood for so noble a calling. Indeed, the world may speak about the burying of talents behind gloomy convent or monastery walls, it may deplore what it calls the fanaticism which prompts a young man to forego a brilliant worldly career in exchange for the tame career of a priest, but all the criticism of the worldly-minded should not be allowed to influence your willingness to surrender your daughter or your son to God’s service and the service of mankind. Christ’s call of your children – If thou wilt be perfect, come and follow me — is, indeed, a pledge of their salvation and even of your own; if you place no obstacles in their way to obey that call.</p>
<p>Matrimony is the other vocation, which your son or daughter might choose. Teach your children to consider this state of life also as a holy one, and fraught with momentous and noble obligations; that it entails many sacrifices, sorrows and suffering, though these are coupled also with many pleasures and with many merits for eternity. In choosing a companion for life, the Christian mother should advise her boy or girl against making mistakes. A mistake in this choice will be a misfortune, indeed, for it can never be remedied. Passion and infatuation are poor guides in this decision. Wise reflection and calm, judicious deliberation with father and mother as well as with the confessor are indispensable in making a wise choice, a choice, that promises with some guarantee a future of temporal happiness and eternal salvation. Surely physical and intellectual accomplishments and talents will greatly influence the final decision, but “the one thing necessary” for both parties is sincere Catholicity, Christian virtue and earnest piety. These three form the solid foundation for a happy marriage, all others are merely contributing factors. Associations and friendships with non-Catholics should not be fostered lest perhaps the danger of a mixed marriage arise. Mixed marriages are forbidden by the Church, and this should be sufficient reason to make them odious to a sincere Catholic. A marriage forbidden by the Church cannot be acceptable in the eyes of God, must not be countenanced by good Catholic parents, and dare not be desired by a Catholic youth or maiden.</p>
<p>After the life-partner has been chosen and the engagement has been closed, the parents must not relax their vigilance over the young couple. Liberties and familiarities should not be permitted to them, and they should not be allowed to meet except in the presence of a third person; at least, they should not be permitted to be alone together for any length of time. They should be admonished to receive the sacraments frequently before the day of marriage, if possible, every week, to foster a tender devotion to the purest Virgin Mary and her most chaste Spouse, St. Joseph, and thus to prepare their hearts for receiving the Holy Sacrament of Matrimony, and also to escape the allurements of unholy passion.</p>
<p>Let the wedding day be celebrated in a decent manner without too much worldly pomp and clamor. Catholics should always remember that the day of the wedding is a holy day, and that our Lord Himself sanctifies it by deigning to become a guest in the souls of the bride and bridegroom.</p>
<p>After the marriage has taken place the parents should assist the young couple with impartial affection, and in the little ups-and-downs which naturally occur in the course of married life, they should encourage them to bear with patience each other’s faults, to rear their children in the fear and piety of the Lord, and in all things to place their confidence in the Providence of God. It is then that parents may expect to reap the fruits of the education they have given their children. In the  happiness of their children, in their grateful love, as well as in the reverence in which they are held, father and mother enjoy a sweet and well-earned reward for the innumerable and great sacrifices which they once made. Therefore, father and mother, continue to follow your children with your prayers and counsels, your admonitions and your encouragements. But in your love for them do not during your life-time share all your material possessions with them and thus make yourself entirely dependent on them. Many sad examples show the imprudence of such a proceeding. Many a father and many a mother who relied too much upon the fine promises of their children and who expected greater filial devotion and love in exchange for their own generosity, were cruelly neglected and their death was hailed with joy by their precious offspring.</p>
<p>In concluding these instructions we would earnestly urge all Christian parents to decorate their homes with some expressive marks of their Catholic Faith, such as crucifixes, holy water fonts, images or pictures of our Lord, of the Blessed Virgin Mary, of St. Joseph, of the Guardian Angel, and of some Saint or Saints to whom they may have a special devotion. We would recommend a crucifix for every bedroom besides a picture of the Blessed Virgin in the bedrooms of the girls as well as of the boys. A beautiful picture of the Sacred Heart of Jesus would surely be an ornament even to the most gorgeously furnished parlor. In every bedroom there should also be found a holy water font, which should always contain a generous supply of holy water. Besides these religious articles each Christian family should possess a number of pious books of instruction and edification, which may serve as spiritual reading for the members of the family. We would recommend a large family Bible and a more or less elaborate volume of the Lives of the Saints. Furthermore, a larger catechism with popular explanations of the text should be considered an important general household book. For general spiritual instruction in our warfare against passion, temptation, and sin, Scupoli’s <em>Spiritual Combat</em> was highly recommended and also extensively used by St. Francis de Sales. Appropriate prayerbooks are Father Lasance’s <em>Young Man’s Guide </em>and <em>Catholic Girls’ Guide, </em>and for Christian Mothers the prayerbook, <em>Mother Love. </em>A special book of spiritual value is<em> Introduction to a Devout Life </em>by St. Francis de Sales. There are other books which might appeal more to the individual taste, but it would lead too far to mention them all. Your pastor will surely be glad to give you any desired information and will gladly furnish you also with the addresses of the firms from which the above-mentioned or any other books may be purchased.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='series_toc'><h3>Table of contents for Education - Necessary for Life</h3><ol><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/12/education-a-necessity-for-life/' title='Toward a Deeper Understanding of the Powers of Life'>Toward a Deeper Understanding of the Powers of Life</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/12/education-a-necessity-for-life-2/' title='As They Transcend the Material'>As They Transcend the Material</a></li><li>The Acquisition of Wisdom and the Transmission of Culture</li></ol></div> <dl> </dl>
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<p>Our third level of education is the human or liberal &#8212; the training of man as man (how to think, how to act, and how to express oneself eloquently with both tongue and pen). A liberal education presupposes the earlier levels. If you can&#8217;t stay alive, you won&#8217;t be able to train your intellect. If people aren&#8217;t working together in society and providing for its needs with servile education, liberal education isn&#8217;t an option. But, once a society is established, now we can build even higher. And, to paraphrase Brother Francis, having a liberal education will make everything else you do more meaningful. Remember, the more you know, the more you can love, and the more you love, the more you serve.</p>
<p>In honor of Father Leonard Feeney, one of my examples is Saint Ignatius and his Company of Jesus.</p>
<p>Like that of Saint John Bosco, the story of Saint Ignatius&#8217; personal education is fascinating. He was of a noble family and followed a military career. When he was laid up after the cannon ball broke his leg, he was disappointed that his sister-in-law had nothing else for him to read than the lives of Christ and the saints &#8212;so he was literate &#8212; but this reading educated him in a way that opened his soul to grace and God&#8217;s call (he had not been living the faith very well until now).<span id="more-803"></span> In order to become a priest, he had to get a more formal scholastic education and so he went back to school. You are probably familiar with his humility, a grown man in a class of little boys, and how he worked his way up through school until he received his degree. It was while he was at the university that he met Saint Francis Xavier and gathered the rest of his first followers.</p>
<p>To talk about the founding of the Company, I&#8217;m going to use excerpts from The Jesuits and Education &#8212; by Father McGucken:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;His original concept [for the Company of Jesus was] of a very select body of men, limited in number . . .not to exceed sixty . . .He had not visualized a vast organization, but rather a small group of men, gifted, trained, university men, of whom St. Francis Xavier was a perfect example; men of executive ability, bound by no petty parochial cares, much less by the daily routine of the classroom, ready to fly at a moment&#8217;s notice to any part of the world at the Pope&#8217;s command, there to sit in on the councils of kings, to argue with heresiarchs, or to captivate the university centers of Europe by their learning and eloquence&#8221; (pg 6) &#8212; making sure that the Faith was integrated at highest levels of society . . . something they could only do if they were learned, holy men.</p></blockquote>
<p>The Society developed differently, however, even during Saint Ignatius&#8217; lifetime.</p>
<blockquote><p>Soon he had &#8220;great numbers clamber[ing] for admission to the new Company . . . [and t]he admission of these younger men, the &#8220;scholastics,&#8221; their university training not yet complete, presented a new problem to St. Ignatius, the problem of educating them. At first they were &#8220;sent in small groups to the universities (the first one to Paris 1540), where &#8220;they lived under a superior and followed the ordinary exercises of community life, daily Mass, meditation, and the like. . . .Naturally, these young men with their fixed hours for study and their regular manner of life were a striking contrast to the university youth of the sixteenth century. Young seculars desirous of profiting by the favorable surroundings of the Jesuits asked to be taken into the Jesuit [residence hall] &#8220;college&#8221;. Occasionally courses were given by Jesuit professors to counteract the none-too-orthodox university teaching, or to supplement a regular course.&#8221; (pg 7) (*re-cap*) From here, it was only a short step to founding a separate school, in fact, only seven years after the first scholastics were sent to university of Paris, the first Jesuit college, as a school for externs (seculars) only &#8212; with Jesuits acting as professors &#8212; was established at Messina.</p></blockquote>
<p>Eventually, the scope of Jesuit education was broadened to include what we call &#8220;secondary&#8221; education.</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;[A]lmost against [St. Ignatius'] will, he and his followers came to see the power of education. This would be not [just] a cure for heresy, but a preventive of it. To save southern Germany for the Church, there was needed a genius like Peter Canisius; and even his heroic efforts were powerless to remedy all the ravages wrought by heresy and worldly prelates. But once get control of the youth, train them in right principles, impart to them at the same time an education the equal or superior of any in Europe, and the whole world is saved for the Church.&#8221; (pg 9)</p></blockquote>
<p>And if you can&#8217;t get control of ALL youth, you start with those you have. The effectiveness of the Jesuits in the Catholic Counter Reformation for two and a half centuries can perhaps best be measured by the hatred which they inspired in the enemies of the Church &#8212; hatred that led to their suppression. If you think of the familiar English Jesuits, like Saint Edmund Campion, or if you look at the family of Saint Thomas More, I think you will immediately get a picture of the kind of full Catholic life and culture that is the result of a liberal education.</p>
<p>We are in the home stretch, but to show that an appreciation for liberal education is not limited to modern times . . . I would like to go back to the Middle Ages, what your average American knows as &#8220;the Dark Ages.&#8221; We move to England, where the King is Alfred the Great. It is the late 800&#8242;s, and with his wars of defense over, he is turning his attention to the welfare of his people&#8217;s souls. With the aid of the monks (mostly Benedictines), he duplicates in England &#8212; much more gently &#8212; what Charlemagne did in France during the previous century &#8212; what&#8217;s called the Carolingian Renaissance. This covers all aspects of life and learning: religion, education, law (trial by jury of 12), language, exploration and expanded trade and travel, agriculture, the useful and mechanical arts. The result of Alfred&#8217;s reign was such peace and tranquility that he could (and apparent did) hang gold bracelets some major sign posts and no man would touch them &#8212; and that if a traveler dropped a purse in the highway &#8212; he would find it untouched the next day! This is particularly impressive when you realize that prior to this, plundering and robbery by the English of their own countryside had become common place. King Alfred&#8217;s reign was one of the golden ages of England history.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s just take a quick look at St. Alfred&#8217;s educational policies.</p>
<p>First of all, not only did he restore the destroyed monasteries, but at the advice of St. Neot founded a palace school. To run this school, the king invited scholars (monks) from Europe and Wales. King Alfred himself hadn’t learned to read until the age of 12 because of the invasions of the Danes and he always regretted this late start. So, (to paraphrase Father Butler in his Lives of the Saints for October 28, feast of St. Neot)</p>
<blockquote><p>“Not only did the King see to his own education, spending all his free time conversing with the scholarly monks of the palace school, he also made the series of translations* for the instruction of his clergy and people, most of which survive.” (<a title="Alfred the Great" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alfred_the_Great" target="_blank">en.wikipedia.com</a>) He himself set the example for his people of putting religion first: eight hours of the day he devoted to prayer and reading, eight hours to the administration of his kingdom, and the final eight to the needs of his body.   King “Alfred stirred up all the gentlemen to bring up their sons to the study of literature, or, if they had no sons, some servants or vassals whom they should make free. He obliged every free man … [with a certain amount of land] to keep their sons at school till they were fifteen years of age. … In order to be qualified [for their rank and responsibilities], their tender hearts must be deeply impressed with the strongest and most generous sentiments of sincere piety and religion, and of true honors; . . . they must acquire the habit of reasoning well and readily, and of forming right judgments and conclusions. Their faculties must be raised and improved by study, … [and then after a foundation in the sciences, directed according to their talents]. King Alfred also exhorted the noblemen to choose among their country vassals … some youths who should appear by their parts [talents] and ardent inclinations to piety, particularly promising to be trained up to the liberal arts. … [T]his prince was solicitous that care should be taken for the education and civilizing of all [his people] by religious instructions and principles. …” [Butler’s Lives of the Saints, John Murphy &amp; Co., 1866 – Volumes 4, October 28, page 227]</p>
<p>*St. Bede’s Church History, St. Gregory’s Pastoral, Orosius’ Roman History, Boetius’ De Consolatione Philosphia, St. Austin’s Soliloquies, Dialogues of St. Gregory, as well as a prose version of the fifty Psalms. A book of the poverbs of St. Alfred has come down to us, as well as the King’s crowning literary work: The Lays of Boethius. He was probably also the inspiration for the Saxon Chronicle and the Saxon Martyrology.</p></blockquote>
<p>I already mentioned the peace and tranquility that reigned under this amazing, saintly king &#8212; and the education of himself and his people played no small role.</p>
<p>***</p>
<p>In our time, with a majority of high school students going on to college  &#8212; although most of these colleges are providing, not liberal education but more advanced vocational training &#8212; higher education certainly is valued.</p>
<p>Brother Francis was asked by Father Feeney: what is the matter with education today? Unbeknownst to Father, Brother had been thinking about this question and so surprised him with a ready answer: An absence of Wisdom. Brother told this story many times, but I remember one time in particular. I can still remember the joy on Brother&#8217;s face &#8212; the smile with which he told me how he surprised Father!</p>
<p>And absence of Wisdom. Education today needs the Faith. It was this conversation, I believe, that led to Brother Francis&#8217; Tuesday Night Philosophy class at the early Center. Philosophy is the study of wisdom, natural wisdom as a preparation for supernatural wisdom, and so it ties right back into our definition of education: what was it? (repeat definition)</p>
<p>It was to address the problems of modern education that the Center was founded in the first place; and it was at the Center that Father Feeney put his finger on the root of the current Crisis: yet another attempt to deny the necessity of the Faith in our time, by denying the necessity of the Church for salvation – by denying the dogma: Extra ecclesiam nulla salus &#8212; Outside the Church there is no salvation.</p>
<div id="attachment_751" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><img src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/Conf9.gif" alt="Conf9" width="300" height="222" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Just look at that pile of books!</p></div>
<p>Among Brother Francis&#8217; notes, I found a couple of lists, enumerating the results of denying this dogma. One list has nine points, the other has fourteen &#8212; but both lists include this point: one of the results of denying the dogma is the destruction of Catholic Education. If we take that and word it positively, we get: If we are defending the dogma, we should be building Catholic Education.</p>
<p>How can we build Catholic education, the acquiring of Wisdom and the transmitting of culture, into our own lives now that, for most of us, the years of our formal education are past?  An excellent means of continuing our education is to be part of the Saint Augustine Institute of Catholic Studies. <a title="Saint Augustine Institute of Catholic Studies" href="http://sai.catholicism.org/" target="_blank">[There is more information on the table over there.]</a></p>
<p>The history of man follows a predictable pattern of hills or waves. There is a period of growth, of effort and enthusiasm, of building, until a certain order is reached. This is maintained &#8212; or even built upon &#8212; for a time, and then people start getting lax. This begins a downhill trend until things get so bad that &#8220;somebody does something&#8221; and we begin the upward processes again.</p>
<p>We see this in nations, in societies, in families, in individuals. And we see it in the history of education.</p>
<p>Education is necessary for life; Catholic education is necessary for a Catholic life.</p>
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<p>Before I close, I would like to give you two short exercises in imagination.</p>
<p>First, imagine yourself without any of your senses, except the sense of touch. You cannot see, you cannot hear, you cannot smell, you cannot taste. All you can do is feel. Now I, who have my senses, wish to share with you a gorgeous rose. But you cannot see it and you can not hear me describe it . . .  So I take the rose and put it near your hand. What happens? You would probably prick yourself on a thorn and refuse to touch it any more, being content with a smooth pebble or a simple clover blossom that doesn&#8217;t hurt. You will not be able to appreciate much about the rose with only the sense of touch.</p>
<p>But suddenly you have your sense of taste! Well, taste doesn&#8217;t help much with roses, although you could taste honey made from its nectar, but you probably wouldn&#8217;t make any connection between honey and the thing that pricked you since you can&#8217;t hear.</p>
<p>Add your sense of smell. You can smell the marvelous scent of the rose &#8230; which might make you explore further with your sense of touch to find the velvety petals. But you are still very limited.</p>
<div id="attachment_752" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 170px"><img src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/Conf12.gif" alt="The appreciation of roses . . ." width="160" height="229" /><p class="wp-caption-text">The appreciation of roses . . .</p></div>
<p>Now you can hear. I can tell you about the rose, give you its name, you can hear poetry about it . . . but you still can&#8217;t fully appreciate the gorgeous queen of flowers &#8212; you don&#8217;t have enough knowledge.</p>
<p>So: You now have sight &#8212;  But only shades of gray &#8212; because you are colorblind. You can now see the petals, the beautiful intricacy of God&#8217;s creation, but when I tell you that it is red, you have no idea what I&#8217;m talking about.</p>
<p>At last, you can see color. The fascinating shades of gradating color in the petals . . .Now you can truly know what I mean when I say: &#8220;Look at the beautiful rose!&#8221;</p>
<p><em>What the senses do for the body in acquiring knowledge, education does for the intellect and will: it makes one able to appreciate all of God&#8217;s creation, physical and spiritual, as well as God Himself. </em></p>
<p>***</p>
<p>I have one more exercise for you. I have here on the podium a little white rock. Suppose I give it to you. What is your reaction?</p>
<p>What a nice white rock &#8212; just like hundreds of others out in the driveway. Thank you! And you toss it outside.</p>
<p>It is possible that because <strong>I</strong> gave it to you, you might not toss it away, but slip it into your</p>
<div id="attachment_753" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 250px"><img src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/Conf7.gif" alt="Education leads to appreciation." width="240" height="159" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Education leads to appreciation.</p></div>
<p>pocket. If you were Brother Francis, you would make a meditation on it &#8212; probably several meditations on it! &#8212; all about the stability of its nature, what its nature means for plants, animals, and men &#8212; in fact to the whole universe &#8212; what part rocks played in the life of Our Lord or the Saints . . . but most of us would just throw it away.</p>
<p>But now I tell you that it comes from the Holy Land &#8212; and you know what the Holy Land is. Wow, now this rock takes on some significance. From being ready to toss the rock outside, you might keep it as an almost-relic &#8212; or at least an interesting artifact.</p>
<p>And this respect will deepen into reverence when I explain that it came from a spot near Calvary, a spot where we know Our Lord and Our Lady had been.</p>
<p><em>You are really starting to appreciate this rock now that you are being educated about it. </em></p>
<p>But, when I tell you that this rock, this exact piece in my hand, is a piece of the Holy Sepulcher, where Our Lord Himself was laid after He was taken off the cross, your reverence turns to . . . veneration.</p>
<p>This rock really is from the Holy Sepulcher. Helene Armeno and her twin sister brought it back with them from their pilgrimage.</p>
<p>Until I educated you about this rock, this relic, you might have been ready to throw it away.</p>
<p><em>Can you see how education, leading to appreciation, can affect our outlook and decisions? </em></p>
<p><em> </em>Remember, the saints became saints because they appreciated the things we have &#8212; the things that we don&#8217;t appreciate.</p>
<p>***</p>
<div id="attachment_754" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 220px"><img src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/Conf1.gif" alt="Seat of Wisdom, pray for us!" width="210" height="252" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Seat of Wisdom, pray for us!</p></div>
<p>Another quote from Brother Francis (which I&#8217;ve included on the handout):</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;When the condition of the world is as bad as it is, it calls for great sanctity to meet the challenge. Mediocrity is not for our time.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>Sanctity is union with God, union with God is measured by charity, charity is fed by knowledge . . . and knowledge is gained by education.</p>
<p>I have shown you different scenes from the past that demonstrate how Catholic education played a vital role in teaching, living, and spreading the Faith.</p>
<p>How will future historians describe our time &#8212; so troubled and muddied?</p>
<p>What difference will Catholic education make for us now?</p>
<p><a title="The Dogma &amp; Catholic Culture" href="http://catholicism.org/ad-rem-no-119.html" target="_blank">Our Crusade</a> was founded by <a title="History of Saint Benedict Center's Founding" href="http://catholicism.org/book-loyolas-and-the-cabots.html" target="_blank">educated men and women</a> &#8212; with such courage &#8212; what will the future have to say about OUR response in this critical time?</p>
<p>Thank you.</p>
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<p>Bibliography (partial):</p>
<p>Pioneer Priests of North America, 1642-1710, by the Rev. T. J. Campbell, S.J., Fordham University Press, 1908.</p>
<p>The Jesuits and Education, The Society&#8217;s Teaching Principles and Practice, Especially in Secondary Education in the United States, by William, J. McGucken, S.J., Ph.D., The Bruce Publishing Company, 1932. (pp. 6-9)</p>
<p>The Biographical Memoirs of Saint John Bosco, by Giovanni Battista Lemoyne, S.D.B., An American Edition Translated from the Original Italian, Diego Borgatello, S.D.B., Editor-in-chief, Volume IV, 1850-1853, Salesiana Publishers, Inc., 1967. (pp. 204-207)</p>
<p>The Lives of the Fathers, Martyrs, and Other Principal Saints; by the Rev. Alban Butler, John Murphy &amp; Co., 1866. Volume IV, pp. 222-229.</p>
<p>Saint Angela of the Ursulines, Mother Francis d&#8217;Assisi, O.S.U., The Bruce Publishing Company, 1952.</p>
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		<title>Pickle Festival 2009</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Immaculate Heart of Mary School participated in the twelfth annual Winchester Pickle Festival this past weekend. Whenever the festival does not clash with the Auriesville Pilgrimage, the students perform at the gazebo. This year, the older students also walked in the parade: one of the first marching fiddle groups in history! (There were marching violins [...]]]></description>
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<p>Immaculate Heart of Mary School participated in the twelfth annual Winchester Pickle Festival this past weekend. Whenever the festival does not clash with the Auriesville Pilgrimage, the students perform at the gazebo. This year, the older students also walked in the parade: one of the first marching fiddle groups in history! (There were marching violins at one time &#8212; Brother Andre saw them more than fifteen years ago.)<span id="more-672"></span></p>
<div id="attachment_674" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 260px"><img class="size-full wp-image-674" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/09/PF2.gif" alt="The Blueberry Man pays tribute to Mr. Pickle." width="250" height="212" /><p class="wp-caption-text">The Blueberry Man pays tribute to Mr. Pickle.</p></div>
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<div id="attachment_678" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 360px"><img class="size-full wp-image-678" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/09/PF7.gif" alt="At the gazebo . . ." width="350" height="233" /><p class="wp-caption-text">At the gazebo . . .</p></div>
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<div id="attachment_683" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 210px"><img class="size-full wp-image-683" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/09/PF13.gif" alt="The mothers made and sold cand &amp; carmel apples. Yumm! (Look for our booth at the Keene Pumpkin Festival.)" width="200" height="169" /><p class="wp-caption-text">The mothers made and sold cand &amp; carmel apples. Yumm! (Look for our booth at the Keene Pumpkin Festival.)</p></div>
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		<title>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Rewards and Punishments</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Apr 2009 14:20:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sister Maria Philomena, M.I.C.M.</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Little Book of Instructions for Christian Mothers [continued] (from Mother Love &#8211; A Manual for Christian Mothers &#8211; by Rev. Pius Franciscus, O.M.Cap., 1926) On the Christian Training of Children Chapter VII. - Of Rewards and Punishments. A stubborn evil spirit that resists the ordinary means of control, is driven out according to the words [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='series_toc'><h3>Table of contents for Mother Love</h3><ol><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2008/11/the-christian-training-children-chapt-1-early-cares/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Early Cares'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Early Cares</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/01/the-christian-training-of-children-new-and-more-difficult-cares/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; New and more Difficult Cares'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; New and more Difficult Cares</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/02/the-christian-training-of-children-admonition-to-mother/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Admonition to Mother'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Admonition to Mother</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/02/the-christian-training-of-children-combating-concupiscence-of-the-flesh/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Flesh'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Flesh</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/02/the-christian-training-of-children-combating-concupiscence-of-the-eyes/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Eyes'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Eyes</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/03/the-christian-training-of-children-combating-pride/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Pride'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Pride</a></li><li>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Rewards and Punishments</li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/04/the-christian-training-of-children-the-fathers-role/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; The Father&#8217;s Role'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; The Father&#8217;s Role</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/05/the-christian-training-of-children-prayers/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Prayers'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Prayers</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-maxims-and-sayings/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Maxims and Sayings'>The Christian Training of Children – Maxims and Sayings</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/05/the-christian-training-of-children-co-operation-with-pastor-and-teacher/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Co-operation with Pastor and Teacher'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Co-operation with Pastor and Teacher</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-catechetical-instruction/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Catechetical Instruction'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Catechetical Instruction</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-preparing-a-child-for-confession/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Preparing a Child for Confession'>The Christian Training of Children – Preparing a Child for Confession</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/05/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-preparation-for-holy-communion/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Preparation for Holy Communion'>The Christian Training of Children – Preparation for Holy Communion</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-care-of-young-adults/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Care of Young Adults'>The Christian Training of Children – Care of Young Adults</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/mother-love/' title='Mother Love'>Mother Love</a></li></ol></div> <p><span style="color: #000000"><strong>Little Book of Instructions for Christian Mothers</strong></span> [continued]<br />
(from <em>Mother Love</em> &#8211; <em>A Manual for Christian Mothers</em> &#8211; by Rev. Pius Franciscus, O.M.Cap., 1926)</p>
<p><strong>On the Christian Training of Children</strong></p>
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<div id="attachment_530" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 210px"><strong><strong><img class="size-full wp-image-530" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/04/temper.gif" alt="Temper tantrum in adults (or students acting adult parts) is not pretty." width="200" height="141" /></strong></strong><p class="wp-caption-text">Temper tantrums in adults (or students acting adult parts) are not pretty.</p></div>
<p><strong>Chapter VII. -</strong> <strong>Of Rewards and Punishments.</strong></p>
<p>A stubborn evil spirit that resists the ordinary means of control, is driven out according to the words of our Lord by prayer and fasting. This is also the means by which deeply-rooted defects and faults in children must be driven out. Prayer and fasting will win. Still as long as a child is young enough to be coerced, it should be compelled to pray and fast in its own behalf, though it may be good and advisable that a mother pray for such a child and offer for it many personal acts of self-denial. Prayer humbles the spirit, while fasting chastens the flesh and is the sovereign remedy against sensuality.<span id="more-525"></span></p>
<p>This two-fold means is indicated in all cases which do not yield to admonitions and remonstrances, nor to kind words or threats. The mother should consider the source of the fault&#8211;pride or sensuality&#8211;and choose the remedy accordingly. But she should remember that prayer alone, though very efficacious, will not in itself subdue a proud spirit. It is also necessary to make the child feel humiliation. This may be done by showing preference to its brothers and sisters, by being brief and curt, by disregarding its advances, by isolating it from the others, and by other such minor humiliations.</p>
<div id="attachment_528" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 185px"><img class="size-full wp-image-528" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/04/humiliations.gif" alt="Humiliations come in many forms." width="175" height="169" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Humiliations come in many forms.</p></div>
<p>Repeated faults of sensuality are most easily conquered by denying a child a dessert or some delicacies and knick-knacks for which it may have a special predilection; in extreme cases sine favorite dish of necessary food may also be denied. In serious breaches of sensuality the child should be compelled to sleep on a hard, springless bed, or some other physical chastisement be administered with the palm of the hand or with the rattan or rod. Hardness of heart against the poor should be conquered by distributing alms to the needy through the hand of the child, avarice and greed may be corrected by depriving the child of things to which it may be much attached and by insisting upon its sharing liberally with its brothers and sisters whatever it possesses. The same means, namely distributing alms through the hands of the child and denial of the comforts and luxuries of life, may be used when the child is inclined to extravagance.</p>
<p>The choice of the particular punishment to be administered in the individual case must be a subject of intelligent study. A mother’s intention must never be merely the infliction of pain, but rather the amendment of the child. Severe punishments should only be resorted to, when light punishments produce no results. The punishment also which was fixed upon, should never be applied more severely than necessary, and it should always be administered with due regard for the child’s physical condition. Frequent mistakes are made in the choice and infliction of chastisement.</p>
<div id="attachment_527" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 260px"><img class="size-full wp-image-527" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/04/dramaqueen.gif" alt="Drama queens require special treatment." width="250" height="180" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Drama queens require special treatment.</p></div>
<p>They are mostly administered without reflection, on the spur of the moment and thoughtlessly. On one occasion parents will punish excessively, and on another not enough, or not at all. Would to God that every mother and every father understood the value of conscientious punishment! The punishment of children has for its object the correction and amendment of faults, and if it is to produce these results, parents must consider it one of their most important obligations, the faithful fulfillment of which becomes a source of untold benefit to their boys and girls and also the occasion of infinite merits to themselves.</p>
<p>However, it is not sufficient to inculcate merely a fear of sin in the hearts of children by the infliction of some punishment; parents must also instil [sic] in them a love of virtue for its own sake and for the sake of the joys and rewards attached to the practice of virtue. This may be done by portraying to them the inner peace which is consequent upon the doing of good works in the service of God and of our neighbor, and by describing in some appropriate story the unrest and remorse of conscience which the sinner experiences after his misdeeds.</p>
<div id="attachment_529" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 210px"><img class="size-full wp-image-529" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/04/stickyfingers.gif" alt="Sticky Fingers claims her own reward (and then loses it)." width="200" height="189" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Sticky Fingers claims her own reward (and then loses it).</p></div>
<p>Parents should not be chary of words of commendation and encouragement when a child perseveringly strives to get rid of some fault, or when it had performed some act of self-denial, of patience, of kindness, of obedience, or of forgiveness, which perhaps required no little moral courage. Indeed, mother and father should show sincere pleasure in any act of virtue that the child might perform, and at times, even reward it with some material recompense. Still, in doing so, they should remind the child of the greater pleasure which God has in its well-doing, and how He will reward it with the eternal happiness of His own heavenly home, if it will only persevere in its efforts till the end of its days.</p>
<p>Valuable presents and extraordinary pleasures should rarely be given as a reward. Trifling gifts and minor enjoyments may be granted, but not too frequently, otherwise the child may learn to despise them. The child should never join in the amusements proper to adults only, neither should it be drawn into their cares and worries. The longer we can preserve in the children the simplicity and the innocence of childhood, the more shall we be able also to preserve in them the spirit of docility and obedience and their love for the simple pleasures of home-life.</p>
<p>To be continued . . .</p>
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		<title>A Global Warming Fashion Show for Nuns</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 19:28:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sister Maria Philomena, M.I.C.M.</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This was a skit that was written at the last minute: literally the morning of our congregation&#8217;s 60th Anniversary Program. It was a combined effort on the part of one of our school mothers, some of the high-school-aged girls in the community, and the Sisters that had our audience in stitches. It is not polished, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_429" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 312px"><a href="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow16.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-429" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow16.jpg" alt="Fashion Show Judges" width="302" height="150" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Fashion Show Judges</p></div>
<p><em>This was a skit that was written at the last minute: literally the morning of our congregation&#8217;s 60th Anniversary Program. It was a combined effort on the part of one of our school mothers, some of the high-school-aged girls in the community, and the Sisters that had our audience in stitches. It is not polished, but enjoy! The narration is in the voice of the Fashion Show Hostess.<br />
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<p>Good afternoon, Ladies and Gentlemen.</p>
<div id="attachment_430" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 160px"><a href="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow15.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-430" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow15.jpg" alt="Hostess" width="150" height="209" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Hostess</p></div>
<p>Change has come to America. Since we have elected change, we are critically looking everywhere for change which is equal to positive progress.</p>
<p>We are ushering in this inaugural week with an example of how changes can be made in even the most unexpected arenas: in this case with clothing changes for sisters. We have invited a distinguished panel to evaluate a few proposals. Please welcome some of the Sisters of the Slaves of the Immaculate Heart of Mary.</p>
<p>Congratulations, Sisters, on the 60th anniversary of your order. We are confident you understand that, with global warming, you will need to adapt your habits in order to survive another sixty years.</p>
<p>For your information, to demonstrate our global consciousness, the makeup used by the girls today has not been tested on animals and was smudged on with biodegradable applicators without the used of synthetic lighting.<span id="more-425"></span></p>
<div id="attachment_431" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 110px"><a href="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow14.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-431" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow14.jpg" alt="Analisa" width="100" height="151" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Analisa</p></div>
<div id="attachment_432" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 85px"><a href="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow13.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-432" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow13.jpg" alt="Note the boots!" width="75" height="173" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Note the boots!</p></div>
<p>Our first outfit is shown us by <em>Analisa</em>. This costume features a traditional color scheme with a modern flair. The reduction in excessive fabric multiplied by the required number of outfits results in a significant savings in the carbon footprint. <em></em></p>
<p><em>Analisa</em> has chosen jewelry accents that are cosmological and Trinitarian &#8211; emphasizing doctrinal awareness &#8211; but any inclination toward rigidity is tempered by the flowing tiers of the skirt.</p>
<p>The outfit is adorned with the white shawl, representing purity, which is conveniently accessible for chapel entry. As glaciers melt worldwide, it&#8217;s best to be prepared for an increase in mud, so <em>Analisa&#8217;s</em> shoes are practical and comfortable. Thank you, <em>Analisa</em>.</p>
<div id="attachment_433" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 185px"><a href="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow11.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-433" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow11.jpg" alt="Flora" width="175" height="203" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Flora</p></div>
<div id="attachment_434" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 110px"><a href="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow12.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-434" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow12.jpg" alt="Springtime . . ." width="100" height="222" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Springtime . . .</p></div>
<p>Our next selection is modeled by <em>Flora</em> and suggests bright green living with a flair.</p>
<p>Her head-cover builds on an ancient theme. The secure jaw band aids in maintaining silence. <em></em></p>
<p><em>Flora&#8217;s</em> choice of footwear is excellent for interacting with global citizens on the streets and leaves the sisters always ready for a seventy-mile hike.</p>
<p>The flowing lines of the gown remind us of sacramental grace. This garment is altogether evocative of the springtime of the Church.</p>
<p>Thank you, <em>Flora</em>.</p>
<div id="attachment_435" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 170px"><a href="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow8.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-435" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow8.jpg" alt="Giselle" width="160" height="194" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Giselle</p></div>
<div id="attachment_436" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 83px"><a href="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow9.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-436" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow9.jpg" alt="Diversity . . ." width="73" height="250" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Diversity . . .</p></div>
<p><em>Giselle</em> will lead us down a culturally diverse path that embraces the global perspective. This easy-care rayon and cotton outfit is simple to wash and doesn&#8217;t need ironing, especially steam ironing, which helps in the reduction of greenhouse gases. The bright colors turn us from the old symbolism of death to the world.</p>
<p><em>Giselle&#8217;s</em> jewelry catches our attention and renders the religious life more attractive to the populous. Her head-cover glitters with sanctity and its stylish threadbare-ness reminds one of the vow of poverty.</p>
<p>By being barefoot, not only is <em>Giselle</em> sustained by a vibrational connection with the earth, she is evoking a sentimental reminiscence of the barefoot religious. The full skirt and shorter length aid in ease of genuflection and the convenience in using stairs.</p>
<p>Thank you, <em>Giselle</em>.</p>
<div id="attachment_437" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 135px"><a href="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow6.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-437" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow6.jpg" alt="Sakura" width="125" height="205" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Sakura</p></div>
<div id="attachment_438" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 160px"><a href="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow7.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-438" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow7.jpg" alt="Bride . . ." width="150" height="187" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Bride . . .</p></div>
<p><em>Sakura</em> is demonstrating how sisters can show the world that they are Brides of Christ, the envy of angels, and princesses in the royal courts. The decorative bodice symbolizes adorning the soul with virtues and the beautiful train represents the sweeping of sin from the earth.</p>
<p>This gown isn&#8217;t all glamor, though; the practical upper ventilation is very helpful with the increasing warmth of our climate. <em>Sakura</em> has chosen  her scarf accessory to be in continuity with Old Testament prayer shawl fringes. Her footwear is austere, yet inexpensive and comfortable.</p>
<p>For a head-cover, <em>Sakura</em> selected this charming design with features the motto: &#8220;Get your rock on,&#8221; a call to modern youth to embrace the papacy.</p>
<p>Thank you, <em>Sakura</em>, for this evangelical and lovely combination.</p>
<p>Now, Sisters, I hope you appreciate the selections and carefully chosen symbolism. We&#8217;ll bring the girls back on and we look forward to your commentary and preference.</p>
<div id="attachment_439" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 410px"><a href="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow4.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-439" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow4.jpg" alt="Final Comments" width="400" height="172" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Final Comments</p></div>
<div id="attachment_440" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 237px"><a href="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow10.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-440" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow10.jpg" alt="Discussion among the judges " width="227" height="75" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Discussion among the judges </p></div>
<p><em>[The Sisters make some comments on each design and then confer among themselves.]</em></p>
<p>The Sisters are asking for one more option. Certainly!</p>
<p>(Why is one of these Sisters standing up and modeling her current habit?) I&#8217;m sure this is lovely, Sister, but how does this choice address global warming?</p>
<div id="attachment_441" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 160px"><a href="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow1.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-441" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow1.jpg" alt="Tradition wins!" width="150" height="153" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Tradition wins!</p></div>
<p>(The Sister removes her black sweater, and the other Sisters rise in applause. Evidently, they are indicating a preference for their current habit.)</p>
<div id="attachment_442" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 210px"><a href="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow2.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-442" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/03/fashionshow2.jpg" alt="Oh, my!" width="200" height="137" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Oh, my!</p></div>
<p><em>[The models show their superiority to the Sisters' opinion and exit the stage.]</em></p>
<p>THE END</p>
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		<title>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Admonition to Mother</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Feb 2009 23:49:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sister Maria Philomena, M.I.C.M.</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Little Book of Instructions for Christian Mothers [continued] (from Mother Love &#8211; A Manual for Christian Mothers &#8211; by Rev. Pius Franciscus, O.M.Cap., 1926) On the Christian Training of Children Chapter III. &#8211; Admonition to the Mother. Above all things, Christian mother, you yourself should be animated with the love of Christ! You should be [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='series_toc'><h3>Table of contents for Mother Love</h3><ol><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2008/11/the-christian-training-children-chapt-1-early-cares/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Early Cares'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Early Cares</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/01/the-christian-training-of-children-new-and-more-difficult-cares/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; New and more Difficult Cares'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; New and more Difficult Cares</a></li><li>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Admonition to Mother</li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/02/the-christian-training-of-children-combating-concupiscence-of-the-flesh/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Flesh'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Flesh</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/02/the-christian-training-of-children-combating-concupiscence-of-the-eyes/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Eyes'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Eyes</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/03/the-christian-training-of-children-combating-pride/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Pride'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Pride</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/04/the-christian-training-of-children-rewards-punishments/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Rewards and Punishments'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Rewards and Punishments</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/04/the-christian-training-of-children-the-fathers-role/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; The Father&#8217;s Role'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; The Father&#8217;s Role</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/05/the-christian-training-of-children-prayers/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Prayers'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Prayers</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-maxims-and-sayings/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Maxims and Sayings'>The Christian Training of Children – Maxims and Sayings</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/05/the-christian-training-of-children-co-operation-with-pastor-and-teacher/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Co-operation with Pastor and Teacher'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Co-operation with Pastor and Teacher</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-catechetical-instruction/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Catechetical Instruction'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Catechetical Instruction</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-preparing-a-child-for-confession/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Preparing a Child for Confession'>The Christian Training of Children – Preparing a Child for Confession</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/05/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-preparation-for-holy-communion/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Preparation for Holy Communion'>The Christian Training of Children – Preparation for Holy Communion</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-care-of-young-adults/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Care of Young Adults'>The Christian Training of Children – Care of Young Adults</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/mother-love/' title='Mother Love'>Mother Love</a></li></ol></div> <p><span style="color: #000000"><strong>Little Book of Instructions for Christian Mothers</strong></span> [continued]<br />
(from <em>Mother Love</em> &#8211; <em>A Manual for Christian Mothers</em> &#8211; by Rev. Pius Franciscus, O.M.Cap., 1926)</p>
<p><strong>On the Christian Training of Children</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Chapter III. &#8211; Admonition to the Mother. </strong></p>
<p>Above all things, Christian mother, you yourself should be animated with the love of Christ! You should be a pious disciple, a courageous soldier of Jesus Christ, a Catholic Christian ardently desirous of the attainment of virtue. Have you not been such from your early youth? Be such, at least, and with redoubled earnestness, from the day on which you feel that you are a mother. Permit not the poison of unmortified passions to flow with your milk and life-blood into the heart of your child. That poison will, in later life, expose it to numerous and violent temptations, and even to the danger of eternal damnation. When you carry it in your arms, let Christian meekness, peace, and love beam in your eyes; for your child understands their language, and responds to it eagerly in its own little heart. When it begins to lisp and, under your direction, tries to stammer its first word, then teach it as its firs word, not &#8220;Mamma,&#8221; or &#8220;Papa,&#8221; but that name which should be to you also the sweetest and the dearest of all names, namely, the name of Jesus, which will rise as a loving sacrifice of thanksgiving and praise to its Creator, its Redeemer, its Judge, and its Savior. <span id="more-385"></span>The second should be that which, next to the name of Jesus, has the sweetest sound, namely the dear name of our heavenly Mother Mary. Believe me, the child will experience something of the blessing of these sweet names which causes hell to tremble and heaven to thrill with joy.</p>
<p><a href="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/02/twolittleboys.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-387" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/02/twolittleboys.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="295" /></a>Teach your child by your own example. Let all your words and actions in its presence bear upon them the impress of innocence and Christian piety. The child hangs upon you as the apple on the tree, and draws from your deportment and expressions nourishment for the life of its soul. Ah, give it not poison. Supply it with Christian, edifying, enlightening, consoling food; and as its years multiply, be still more careful on this point.</p>
<p>Hold pious converse with your child as soon as it is capable of answering. Sing to it holy hymns, and teach it to sing them after you. Pray with your child. Teach it to repeat with joined hands the words of the prayers after you. If it does not understand your words, it certainly does comprehend your devotion; and the Holy Ghost who dwells in its soul, will effect in its depths the wonders of His inexpressible love.</p>
<p>Pray for your child. You could not free it from original sin, had God not seconded your pious desire by holy Baptism; and just as little, without the grace and mercy of God, can you release it from the threefold concupiscence and imbue it with Christian sentiments. The Divine Savior alone can do that, for He has said: &#8220;Without Me you can do nothing.&#8221; Turn, then, to Him. Entreat Him, expect everything from His blessing, and attach to your own efforts only as much value as the Lord will be please by His helping hand to supply. You must, indeed, &#8220;always pray and never faint,&#8221; as the Divine Savior teaches. For as it is your duty ever to provide for the good of your child, so must Jesus Christ constantly lend you His support that you may always make use of the right word and the right manner of acting; namely, that which springing from the Heart of Jesus, will bear fruits of salvation. May your heart, O Christian Mother, be ever as full of prayer to God as it is at all times full of love for your children!</p>
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<p>Be watchful and combat the threefold concupiscence in the heart[s] of your children, wherever and as soon as it shows itself. Do not wait until bad habits have become deeply rooted. Keep the pruning knife always at hand, and cut away the wild branches as soon as they put forth their little heads. What may be easily removed in the beginning, might later on cost you years of bitter tears, tears of heartfelt regret, and even then you might be unable to effect a reform. Rear your little on in such a way that the power of its evil inclinations may be broken before it knows what evil is. Well disposed and carefully reared children, even at the early age of four, no longer need corporal chastisement, no longer have need of severe correction; a glance, a gentle sign or a word is sufficient. Still, I know well that children are not alike. Some give more trouble and take longer to correct than others. But if a child over twelve years of age still needs chastisements, it is, for the most part, a sign that in the administration of such punishment in the past, something has been wanting.</p>
<p>Bring before your child the words and example of Jesus, as soon as it is able to understand. Has it been guilty of some naughtiness say &#8220;Little Jesus never did anything like that!&#8221; &#8220;Ah, now you are grieving dear little Jesus!&#8221; &#8220;What would the little Child Jesus think were you to do such a thing!&#8221; -If the child has performed some good action, say: &#8220;That&#8217;s the way little Jesus used to do!&#8221; He says, &#8220;if you love Me keep My commandments!&#8221; &#8220;He that loveth Me not, keepeth not My words!&#8221; &#8220;Jesus loves good little children!&#8221; Or again, &#8220;Jesus Chirst forbids that!&#8221; or, &#8220;Jesus commands this,&#8221; etc.</p>
<p>Be not without anxiety when your children are out of the house. You know how inexperienced, innocent, and thoughtless they are. Do not permit them to go into neighbors&#8217; houses, or to any place in which you are not sure that their innocence and their soul&#8217;s welfare will receive no harm. Give them rules, instructions, and warnings for their conduct on the street; and on their return inquire how they have behaved themselves, what they did and said, what they heard. Make yourself acquainted with these points by means of others, and direct your future line conduct by what you may discover. Many a child well guarded at home has learned wickedness out-doors and stained its soul.</p>
<p>If the child gives evidence of possessing one of the three concupiscences in an especially strong form[,] search your own heart and actions, notice the disposition and life of the father, and see whether the same inclination is not found there. Consider whether or not up to the present you have taken serious action against it. Resolve now, at least, to free yourself from it. Facilitate by your own conversion that of your child; by your own improvement, the improvement of the child.</p>
<p>And when you have done all that lies in your power, say in your heart: &#8220;I am a useless servant. I have done what I was obliged to do, and by far not as I should have done.&#8221; The good results that you observe in the child, attribute humbly to divine grace, ascribing to yourself only faults and sins; and beg Almighty God to repair and forgive the harm you have done your child. Then your merit and reward will be truly great, if you refer to God alone all the honor your children bring you.</p>
<p>To be continued . . .</p>
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		<title>The Importance of the Education of Children</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[[Editor's note: This is an excerpt from: Marriage and Parenthood - The Catholic Ideal, by Rev. Tholmas J. Gerrard,  published by Joseph F. Wagner, NY, 1911.] The young intellect may be made or marred forever, according as its first operations are well or ill directed. The boy is the father of the man. The results [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[Editor's note: This is an excerpt from: <strong>Marriage and Parenthood - The Catholic Ideal</strong>, by Rev. Tholmas J. Gerrard,  published by Joseph F. Wagner, NY, 1911.]</p>
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<p>The young intellect may be made or marred forever, according as its first operations are well or ill directed. The boy is the father of the man. The results of child training reach out into youth, manhood, old age, and life eternal. Hence the greatest importance is to be attached to the education of children. Thus it is that educationists are realizing ever more and more the rich content of the principle, &#8220;Train up a child in the way he should go and he will not depart from it.&#8221;</p>
<p>If this is true of education in general, it is eminently true of Catholic education in particular. The future of the Catholic Church in any country depends on the Catholic education of the children. &#8220;Give me the children of England and I will make England Catholic.&#8221; That was one of the favorite sentiments of the late Cardinal Manning. And as so much concerning Catholic education pertains to family life, all Catholic parents ought to know the leading principles. <span id="more-141"></span>In the field of politics the education of the people plays a very important role. And in scarcely any country of the world does the Church have its full desire in the matter. It nevertheless continues to work for its ideal, a completely Catholic education for every Catholic child.</p>
<p><a href="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2008/11/sciencefair3.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-144" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2008/11/sciencefair3.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="260" /></a>Education, in the best sense of the word, is the formation of habits. The formation of good habits is good education. The formation of bad habits is bad education. Education is not merely the acquisition of knowledge . . . [Mere erudition] is only a small part of education. It pertains to the faculty of memory. Now, the memory must be trained, but not only the memory. All the powers of the child must be brought out to the highest perfection possible. Its intellect must be trained to perceive the truth. Its senses, internal and external, must be trained to perceive what is beautiful. And, above all, the will must be trained to do what is good. Moreover, since the soul, while in this life depends on the body for its due operation, the body also must be so trained as to keep in a healthy condition. &#8220;A sound mind in a sound body&#8221; is an axiom as old as the hills. A training in the fundamental laws of hygiene, therefore, is ministrant to the training of the child&#8217;s intellectual, esthetical, and moral faculties.</p>
<p>Further, since man is destined to an eternal life and must attain that eternal life through a life of the spirit in this world, all his natural powers must be mad ministrant to this spiritual life. His bodily health, his habits of memory, feeling, taste, intellect, and will must be so trained and directed as to bring forth the best possible fruits in the spiritual life. The supernatural is that which is built on the natural, not that which is built up in mid-air above &#8211; separated from the natural. The two merge, one into the other, in such a way that the natural becomes supernaturalized . .  .</p>
<p style="text-align: right">(Chapter 12, pg 152ff)</p>
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