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		<title>John Peter McCann &#8211; Class of 2010</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sister Maria Philomena, M.I.C.M.</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[[John is the youngest of ten. In his speech he will tell you about his educational struggles -- but his perseverance paid off during his senior year. Not only was he no longer "at the bottom of the class," he made Honor Roll twice (and Honorable Mention in this year's final average) -- with a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_1059" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 262px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1059    " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnPortrait.gif" alt="John Peter Michael McCann" width="252" height="381" /><p class="wp-caption-text">John Peter Michael McCann</p></div>
<p><em>[John is the youngest of ten. In his speech he will tell you about his educational struggles -- but his perseverance paid off during his senior year. Not only was he no longer "at the bottom of the class," he made Honor Roll twice (and Honorable Mention in this year's final average) -- with a cumulative GPA of 3.0. Congratulations, John!]</em></p>
<p>Good afternoon, Br. Andre Marie, Sister Marie Therese, Sister Maria Philomena, Dr. Fahey, Dad, Mom, and all my family and friends. Thank you all for coming here to support me during this event celebrating a very important milestone of my life.</p>
<p>Graduation is an event that allows a student to look back and reflect on the journey he or she experienced during the schooling process. When I was analyzing my journey, I discovered certain elements, virtues, and emotions that I wanted to discuss.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline">Progress</span>: (Advancement toward one’s goals, to develop or improve)</p>
<p>I never had an easy time with learning. I started off having to take kindergarten twice. When my parents realized that public schools were a danger to my spiritual well-being, my mother home-schooled me. I don’t blame her for my inability to learn; it was just there, and during those years of home schooling I fell behind . . . Really badly! My mother was able to school me herself for three years &#8212; until her life got complicated and she was forced to put me in a public school for the last quarter of that year. The board of directors decided to place me at a fifth grade level, accompanied by “special classes”. I couldn’t read or spell to save my life.</p>
<p>So, when I moved to NH, I was just a bit behind.<span id="more-1015"></span></p>
<div id="attachment_1060" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 150px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1060 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnReading5th.gif" alt="John studies his catechism" width="140" height="190" /><p class="wp-caption-text">John studies his catechism</p></div>
<p>When I tested for Immaculate Heart of Mary School, I was at a second grader’s level. I knew about as much as your average seven-year-old. Now, I was twelve at the time, mind you. So, the Sisters put me in fourth grade. For a twelve-year-old to be told he is going to have to go to fourth grade &#8212; after he just completed his fifth grade &#8212; is pretty hard to take.</p>
<div id="attachment_1056" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 185px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1056 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnPagentYoung.gif" alt="Christmas Play (John is the tall shepherd)" width="175" height="172" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Christmas Play (John is the tall shepherd)</p></div>
<p>To add insult to injury, I was always the one who was behind. Every one else understood things quicker, got better grades, and beat me in the classroom competitions time and time again. This seemed like the common theme of my I.H.M. experience (barring my Senior year). But during these years of strenuous progression, I have received quite an education. I now have an understanding of Algebra, Grammar, Geometry, Church History, Physics, Chemistry, Biology, Latin, Rhetoric, American History, Literature, Trigonometry, Logic; I think you get the point!</p>
<div id="attachment_1049" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 170px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1049 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnAllSaints.gif" alt="All Saints' Day" width="160" height="237" /><p class="wp-caption-text">All Saints&#39; Day</p></div>
<p>So in short, this school has not only taught me an amazing amount of useful knowledge, but it also taught me to take difficulties and use them to improve myself giving me a stronger character.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline">Perseverance</span>: (Steadfastness in doing something despite difficulty or delay in achieving success)</p>
<p>Aside from being older then other students, I wasn’t able to get good grades. I tried my hardest &#8212; only to barely pass with less than average grades. But I did learn . . . slowly and painfully . . . but I <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline">did</span></strong><span style="text-decoration: underline"> </span><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline">learn</span></strong>.</p>
<div id="attachment_1058" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 235px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1058" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnPlayEsther.gif" alt="John, Clare, and Rose (seventh grade) in &quot;Esther&quot;" width="225" height="269" /><p class="wp-caption-text">John, Clare, and Rose (seventh grade) in &quot;Esther&quot;</p></div>
<p>One of the things I learned was simple math. If I’m in fourth grade now… by the time I get to twelfth grade I should be . . . twenty! Aren’t people usually seventeen when they graduate? Ooooooh boy!  I did skip sixth grade, but I knew going into ninth grade that there was no longer any hope of skipping grades (due to the necessity of acquiring a certain amount of credits).</p>
<div id="attachment_1065" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 150px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1065 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnVacuum.gif" alt="The McCann cleaning gene is showing up" width="140" height="315" /><p class="wp-caption-text">The McCann cleaning gene is showing up</p></div>
<p>Year after year of struggling as hard as I could, I continued to get very undesirable grades. I would always try and analyze my way out, for instance: “This couldn’t possibly be what God wanted me to suffer.” Eventually, I was fed up with it. (I was eighteen at the time.) It was the beginning of my junior year; I made up my mind to drop out. I was telling myself things, like: “There is always the G.E.D . . .  It’s not like I was throwing my life away. It seems to work out for other people. I am being responsible. I have a plain a plan. I going to get my G.E.D. and become an electrician’s apprentice in South Dakota. I’m just not meant to be in school any more.” (There was a girl in SD, of course; that made the matter all that much more urgent.)</p>
<div id="attachment_1050" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 185px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1050 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnCassenYoung.gif" alt="On the USS Cassen Young" width="175" height="173" /><p class="wp-caption-text">On the USS Cassen Young</p></div>
<p>So, I told Sister Maria Philomena, in a very matter-of-fact way, that I wasn’t going to finish that year. She sent me to Sister Marie Therese.</p>
<p>Sister Marie Therese listened to what I had to say. She treated me like an adult, and gave me some good advice, and said she would respect my decision <em>if it were <strong>well thought out</strong></em>. This was the catalyst that made me follow her advice to go on a retreat. I wanted everyone to respect my decision, and what better way was there than convincing everyone that it was God’s will? (Because, I already convinced myself of this, you see.) On retreat, I discovered that everyone else was right and I was wrong . . . what do you know! Reassured that what I was doing was good and profitable, I made a firm resolution to finish what I started; and, I haven’t looked back since. And let me tell you: now that I’m here looking back, I wouldn’t change a thing.</p>
<div id="attachment_1055" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 185px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1055 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnMailing.gif" alt="Looking back (and sealing envelopes at the same time!)" width="175" height="181" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Looking back (and sealing envelopes at the same time!)</p></div>
<p>Patience: (The capacity to accept or tolerate delay, trouble, or suffering without getting angry or upset)</p>
<p>Spelling Bees . . . Latin . . . Research Papers . . . Memory Items . . . Foot Ball . . . SPELLING BEES!!! Now, I’ll be the first on to confess that I was lacking in patience at times &#8212; especially on Fridays. But I did tolerate a lot of delay, trouble, and suffering in my I.H.M. experience. And, since there are troublesome hurdles in every walk of life, I’m really glad I had the extensive training in this virtue that I got. It was even conveniently worked into my curriculum.</p>
<div id="attachment_1066" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 150px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1066 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnVillain.gif" alt="A vicious villain (RBFF melodrama)" width="140" height="184" /><p class="wp-caption-text">A vicious villain (RBFF melodrama)</p></div>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline">The Future</span>: (The time or a period of time following the moment of speaking; time regarded as still to come)</p>
<p>As I already mentioned in my internship presentation three weeks ago, I’m going to begin my adult life in Kansas &#8212; where I will become an electrician. A couple of people asked,“ Why Kansas?” So, I’m going to explain my reasoning.</p>
<div id="attachment_1062" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 100px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1062 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnScienceYoung.gif" alt="Science Fair " width="90" height="143" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Science Fair </p></div>
<p>I believe it is prudent for a graduate to buckle down and take things seriously as soon as possible so as not to get caught in that weird “after-school-but-before-life” spell. So, as a solution or precaution against this danger, I’ve decided to jump on in and sink or swim. The drastic change of atmosphere will push me into taking my situation seriously and the lack of people taking care of my needs will make me anything but complacent.</p>
<div id="attachment_1063" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 130px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1063 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnSpelling.gif" alt="Spelling Bee!" width="120" height="178" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Spelling Bee!</p></div>
<p>Aside from being a precaution against that “in-between-period”, there are a couple of things calling me to Kansas as well. There is family out there: my brother Tim and his family. This gives me a few advantages &#8212; one of which will be to give me a place to stay when I arrive, and Tim and I have a mutual understanding of how temporary the situation will be. Another thing is that Kansas’ living expenses are not as challenging as New Hampshire’s, so this will be an easier start for my initial years of self-support. And last but not least, there is a massive traditional Catholic community out there that I was very interested in seeing for myself. I would appreciate any and all prayers that could be spared for me in this very important transitional period in my life.</p>
<div id="attachment_1070" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 240px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1070   " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/grad1.gif" alt="Graduating Class of 2010" width="230" height="215" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Graduating Class of 2010</p></div>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline">Gratitude</span>: (The quality of being thankful; readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness)</p>
<p>When looking back at the whole journey, the primary emotion that I feel is gratitude. I have a great deal of gratitude &#8212; not only for the excellent education that I’ve received &#8212; but also for all the people who made it possible. The people who taught me, and people who helped me stay on course. And the only way I know how to express my gratitude, is to thank the parties responsible.</p>
<p>Sister Marie Therese: You are a wonderful principal, and you really helped me look at the choices I had to make, concerning my leaving or staying, with a logical mind-set. Thank you; I probably wouldn’t have finished if it weren’t for you.</p>
<div id="attachment_1052" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 210px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1052 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnDash.gif" alt="The fastest boy in school!" width="200" height="208" /><p class="wp-caption-text">The fastest boy in school!</p></div>
<p>Sister Mary Joseph: You taught me for my first year here (which was a very difficult one). I also wanted to thank you for my superior coloring technique and penmanship skills (which are due to your ruthless tutoring).</p>
<p>Brother Louis Marie: You were always a very needed relief during the very trying breaks. You were always there to crack a joke or remind me why I was there. Thank you for consistently elevating my intentions to a higher ideal.</p>
<div id="attachment_1054" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 220px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1054 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnLab.gif" alt="John and Michael ('09) disecting a fetal pig" width="210" height="165" /><p class="wp-caption-text">John and Michael (&#39;09) disecting a fetal pig</p></div>
<p>Sister Mary Peter: You taught me for my seventh grade year, and I’m afraid I was a bit of a troublemaker for you. But more importantly, you were always there to try and calm me down when my frustration built up within me. Some times I would avoid you when I was getting angry because I didn’t want you to cheer me up, but yet, somehow, you always found me. So, thank you for being there to calm the beast.</p>
<div id="attachment_1051" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 170px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1051 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/johnChristmasTrees.gif" alt="His real self comes out!" width="160" height="271" /><p class="wp-caption-text">His real self comes out!</p></div>
<p>Sister Maria Perpetua: You taught me in both fifth grade and eighth grade, and it was your sweet manner accompanied with your strict discipline that enabled you to teach me so much. Thank you for making me write out the word “would” (as in should &amp; could) eighty times. I can’t help but think of you every time I go to write it.</p>
<p>Professor: I’m glad I had you for at least one of my classes for each of the last six years. You always treated me like you actually enjoyed talking to me, and you were always willing to let me vent. I probably would have gone mad if you weren’t here to help me. Thank you for being more then just my wicked cool math teacher; you were also my friend – in whom I could trust without the slightest hesitation.</p>
<div id="attachment_1053" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 160px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1053 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnFIddle.gif" alt="What will I do without John in the Blueberry Jammers?" width="150" height="181" /><p class="wp-caption-text">What will I do without John in the Blueberry Jammers?</p></div>
<p>Sister Maria Philomena: Four years straight! I’m not sure what life is going to be like without you for more than a summer. It almost seems like a sloppy divorce. You taught me more than I can generalize. One of the subjects I’m most grateful that I had you to teach me was religion, but there is no way I can express my deep gratitude for all that you’ve done for me. Thank you for giving and giving, day after day. Surely I wouldn’t be the man I am today if God didn’t give be the privilege of having you as my high school teacher.</p>
<div id="attachment_1057" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 235px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1057 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnParents.gif" alt="Mr. &amp; Mrs. McCann (front) at graduatio party" width="225" height="190" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Mr. &amp; Mrs. McCann (front) at grad party</p></div>
<p>My parents: You not only paid for my tuition so I could attend this school, but you convinced me to keep on &#8220;keepin&#8217; on.&#8221; I would like to thank my mother for doing her best to make sure I didn’t throw the opportunity of receiving the excellent education of I.H.M., and my father for teaching me &#8212; by example &#8212; dogged perseverance</p>
<p>The way I see it, the only way I can give anything back to all the people who gave me so much is to be the best I can be, share all the benefits the school has given me, and there by show the world what a great school I.H.M. is.</p>
<div id="attachment_1064" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 190px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1064 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnTwoSPies.gif" alt="A Case for Two Spies" width="180" height="214" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Agent 145-and-a-half  in  &quot;A Case for Two Spies&quot;</p></div>
<p>I am so glad that I had the privilege of an education at I.H.M. not only for the reasons I stated earlier, but, more importantly, I’ve acquired a dependency on daily sacraments, a habit I plan on preserving even in Kansas.</p>
<div id="attachment_1061" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 150px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1061 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnRelic.gif" alt="John with a relic of his patron saint" width="140" height="219" /><p class="wp-caption-text">John with a relic of his patron saint</p></div>
<p>I can’t pretend to know exactly what my future holds, but, if things go as I would like them to, I will get married (sooner rather than latter), convince my wife to move to New Hampshire, and have many many children. I would be very happy to see all of them attend I.H.M.</p>
<p>Thank you.</p>
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		<title>Rose Marie Doucette &#8211; Class of 2010</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[[Rose is the second oldest of eight children. She is a member of the National Society of High School Scholars and a recipient of a partial college scholarship from the Knights of Columbus. She missed graduating "cum laude" by only two points -- her cumulative GPA being 86.5 (3.3). Congratulations, Rose!] Good Afternoon: Brother Andre, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_1020" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 220px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1020 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/RosePortrait.gif" alt="Rose Marie Raphael Doucette" width="210" height="316" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Rose Marie Raphael Doucette</p></div>
<p><em>[Rose is the second oldest of eight children. She is a member of the <a href="http://www.nshss.org/" target="_blank">National Society of High School Scholars</a> and a recipient of a partial college scholarship from the Knights of Columbus. She missed graduating "cum laude" by only two points -- her cumulative GPA being 86.5 (3.3). Congratulations, Rose!]</em></p>
<p>Good Afternoon: Brother Andre, Sr. Marie Therese, Sr. Maria Philomena, Dr. Fahey, Mother, Father, Brothers, Sisters, Family, Friends, and Fellow IHM Students. Thank you all for coming! I am here to tell you about something that is very important to me, and to you as well, I hope.</p>
<p>However, before I tell you of that important something, I would first like to tell you of my plans for the future. After I graduate today, my parents and I will be hosting a party at the Winchester Veteran’s Hall. Everyone is cordially invited to attend and enjoy some of my grandmother’s lasagna and a slice or two of graduation cake. There’s also going to be some great music. I hope you can all come!</p>
<p>Now, I will tell you of my plans for <span style="text-decoration: underline">my</span> future. I was accepted by two colleges: <a title="Magdalen College" href="http://www.magdalen.edu/" target="_blank">Magdalen</a> and <a title="Thomas More College of Liberal Arts, NH" href="http://www.thomasmorecollege.edu/" target="_blank">Thomas More</a>, and I plan to obtain a bachelor’s degree in Liberal Arts. After that, I’m going to try to get into a good Art college, where I can learn how to make children’s movies. I’ve seen a lot of children’s movies to date that are unfit for children’s psychological, religious, and moral growth. <span id="more-1014"></span>I don’t expect to stop the decline of movie morals by myself, but hopefully, if enough Catholic men and women learn the art of animation and other necessary skills [like script-writing and voice acting], we can see the day when better movies and books are circulated throughout American society. This is my most ardent desire, [after the triumph of Our Lady’s Immaculate Heart, of course] of which good entertainment will be an important part.</p>
<div id="attachment_1032" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 220px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1032 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/RosePortrait2.gif" alt="Graduate of the Class of 2010" width="210" height="316" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Graduate of the Class of 2010</p></div>
<p>Now, I would like to tell you a little bit about myself and my educational quest so far. I’ve lived here in New Hampshire seven – no &#8211; ten years: I have been here at IHM from seventh grade to twelfth grade and received honorable mentions only twice. This may seem odd, but even though my grades were, on average really good, I always managed to be deficient enough in one thing or another (like fiddle practice!) that I missed honorable mention. [Rose didn't know it until she got her diploma a few minutes later -- but she made Honor Roll in the fourth quarter of her senior year!]</p>
<p>I have been the winner of the High school division of the Spelling Bee three times. I won first place in the 2009 science fair. I have participated in the <a title="Blueberry Fiddle Festival" href="http://www.blueberryfiddlefestival.com/home.html" target="_blank">Richmond Blueberry Fiddle Festival </a>as both a singer, and a fiddler. In the Blueberry Bake-off, I won three ribbons: one second place ribbon, and two third place ribbons.  But all these things that I have done, I could not have accomplished if it weren’t for the people at Immaculate Heart of Mary School. In fact, if it weren’t for them, there wouldn’t have been any science fairs, spelling bees, or blueberry bake-offs for me.</p>
<p>I mentioned earlier that I had something important to tell you, I am going to tell you about it now. When I moved here, to New Hampshire, ten years ago, I didn’t have any of the things that really matter: neither friends, nor a correct understanding of history; not even a good understanding of my Catholic faith.</p>
<div id="attachment_1029" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 170px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1029 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/RosePumkin.gif" alt="Rose with the pumpkin she carved for the Keene Pumpkin Festival" width="160" height="225" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Rose with the pumpkin she carved for the Keene Pumpkin Festival</p></div>
<p>It was a blessing that I wasn’t sent to public school, which my mother frequently reminds me, where I might have grown into quite a rebellious child with an unchecked temper, and a destroyed faith.</p>
<p>As it was, I was already headstrong and rebellious. But underneath my outward bravado, I was actually seeking a peaceful place where my heart and dreams could soar.</p>
<p>My lousy attitude was not my Mother’s fault, she did her best to teach me, but I didn’t want to listen. My mind and heart were so confused that I started shutting everyone out, including her.</p>
<p>You see, when you’re homeschooled, you have no real reasons to leave home; all your classes, learning, and activities take place right in your own house. I could sleep in until ten o’clock, and finish my homework by twelve. I accomplished this by learning to skim the books for only the information I needed to finish my homework. This might seem great to my fellow classmates, but I couldn’t quite retain what I was learning. I simply was not diligent or disciplined enough.</p>
<div id="attachment_1030" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 210px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1030 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/RoseScienceYoung.gif" alt="Rose's first science fair" width="200" height="164" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Rose&#39;s first science fair</p></div>
<p>Before long, all of us [except, perhaps, my father who could leave to go to work] &#8212; all of us were experiencing a severe case of cabin fever which would not go away. I remember the days when Mother would go shopping, we would all crowd at the door, hoping to be the one chosen to go with her on her trip. Sometimes she took half of us. Other times, she took none of us, needing instead to take some time away from us- and we all understand why!</p>
<p>Days go by so slowly when you don’t have anything truly important to do. I spent my time reading books, visiting exotic and action-packed lands where at least something somewhat important was happening.</p>
<div id="attachment_1031" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 170px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1031 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/RosePageant.gif" alt="An innkeeper (Christmas Pageant)" width="160" height="233" /><p class="wp-caption-text">An innkeeper (Christmas Pageant)</p></div>
<p>But I longed for some real friends who I could talk to and who would talk back to me.</p>
<p>I read my entire town library out, but, when the good books were gone, I didn’t have any new places to go, so I turned to the video section of the library.</p>
<p>I watched every movie that my mother would allow, trying to find a way to get to the peaceful land where my heart would be content and joyful. I imagined myself in those places that I found in the movies, speaking to the characters and having many strange and weird adventures, but I knew, even then, that the land of peace was not there.</p>
<div id="attachment_1037" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 190px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1037 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/RoseChristmasTrees.gif" alt="What a penance - to decorate gingerbread trees during Advent (when you can't nibble)!" width="180" height="170" /><p class="wp-caption-text">What a penance - to decorate gingerbread trees during Advent (when you can&#39;t nibble)!</p></div>
<p>Well, one day I heard my parents talking about a small private school that was very close by. It was Catholic, and there was Mass every day. It was a new place to go with many new things to do! I finally pestered my parents into sending me to Immaculate Heart of Mary School, so that I could at least have more people to help me search for my mystical land.</p>
<p>I met many wonderful people here, my friends, my teachers, all the wonderful families; it almost seemed too good to be true. But I was still so very blind, and I was far from recognizing that the entrance-way into my desired mythical land was already opened and waiting. It was waiting for the time when I would find it. But first, I had to learn how to read the signs that would point me towards the entrance, and I had not learned how to recognize them yet.</p>
<div id="attachment_1024" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 360px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1024" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/JohnRoseSeventh.gif" alt="The Seventh/Eight Grade (Rose and John are in front)" width="350" height="146" /><p class="wp-caption-text">The Seventh/Eight Grade (Rose and John are in front)</p></div>
<p>I really can’t tell you how being around good friends can change you, but it did. I found that this small private school was just what I needed. I only ever really got punished once or twice, and then I really deserved it. Of course, for a long time, I couldn’t see much past the new sleep schedule I had to keep: six o’clock sharp every morning.</p>
<div id="attachment_1025" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 160px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1025 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/RoseBlueJam.gif" alt="Rose in the Blueberry Jammers (RBFF 2008)" width="150" height="208" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Rose in the Blueberry Jammers (RBFF 2008)</p></div>
<p>This was especially difficult for me, because, as you remember, I was used to sleeping in until ten, or even twelve o’clock. The curriculum was difficult for me as well, because I had never juggled so many subjects at one time.</p>
<p>Fridays were a highlight in my week, because two subjects were set aside so that we could learn music and art. These were very enjoyable, fun and easy things to do that didn’t require as much effort on my part. But, gradually I began to realize something important that I had been missing and trying not to think about too much: my religion.</p>
<div id="attachment_1022" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 160px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1022" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/RoseSpellingYoung.gif" alt="Rose's first Spelling Bee" width="150" height="270" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Rose&#39;s first Spelling Bee</p></div>
<p>Being around a group of sisters, I had my first real example of traditional Catholic living. I learned about my faith not only through religion classes where I had many difficult questions answered, but also through the Church’s history and traditions that I had never seen or heard before.</p>
<p>It’s funny how God waits until just the right moment before He lets you realize something wonderful. I began to measure my life to that of the sisters. They were so sure of themselves: so full of laughter and joy and such hope, that I felt ashamed. I tried to sort out why I wasn’t like them, why my life suddenly felt so empty and dull and fruitless, and theirs was full of joy and confidence, and peace.</p>
<div id="attachment_1040" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 160px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1040 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/Roseskeleton.gif" alt="Laughter is good for the soul" width="150" height="166" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Laughter is good for the soul</p></div>
<p>By then, I couldn’t take it anymore; I wanted that peace too, the tranquil, glassy, calm, and silent lake of peace that I saw in them. But I didn’t know how. I read my religion, but I still hadn’t realized its beautiful message yet, the light bulb wasn’t connected to the switch I was toggling, not yet. I knew that heaven was wonderful, but I hadn’t yet realized that it was the only land where there is true peace and happiness: the only land where my searching would be done.</p>
<p>Then, one day at Mass, it happened. I looked at the Host on the altar, and my heart almost broke. I knew that He was there, really and truly, but I didn’t know Him. He was a complete stranger to me.  Yet, my Catholic faith told me that this Stranger</p>
<div id="attachment_1027" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 260px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1027" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/RoseAbbey.gif" alt="Visiting the Relic Room at St. Benedict Abbey (Still River)" width="250" height="333" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Visiting the Relic Room at St. Benedict Abbey (Still River)</p></div>
<p>deserves all my love and devotion. How impossible it seemed! Millions of questions and doubts arose like a dark stormy cloud in my mind. Truth seemed to get even further off than ever.</p>
<p>But something inside of me took charge and rallied. I couldn’t see anything through that cloud, but, somehow, I knew that I was not alone. I felt a presence, watching me, waiting for me in expectancy. There was a battle raging in and around me, a battle for my heart and soul, and I was to be the one to decide how it ended. But, how could I? I was too inexperienced and ignorant to know what to do. I sent an ardent plea for help, and was answered almost immediately. The storm ended almost as instantly as it had come, and all my doubts were settled.</p>
<div id="attachment_1023" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 235px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1023" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/RoseAuriesville.gif" alt="After the Auriesville Pilgrimage" width="225" height="257" /><p class="wp-caption-text">After the Auriesville Pilgrimage</p></div>
<p>Why did God make us? To know, love, and serve Him in this life so that we can be happy with Him in the next life. I had my whole life to get to know Him. What better time to start was there than as soon as possible? That day was the first of many happy days spent here at St. Benedict Center.</p>
<p>Why am I telling you this? Because I want you to know why <a title="Web site of Saint Benedict Center, NH" href="http://catholicism.org/" target="_blank">St. Benedict Center </a>is important to me.  I am telling you about how your school, and by extension, your community has changed me from who I was to who I am. I want you to know how thankful I am, to all of you. This place has effected such a wonderful change in my life, that I almost consider it a second home.</p>
<p>This community has formed not just a school, but a family composed of all the wonderful people who work and support the Catholic faith.</p>
<div id="attachment_1028" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 185px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1028 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/RoseCrowning.gif" alt="Rose prepares to crown the statue of Our Lady in the chapel (May 2010)" width="175" height="185" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Rose prepares to crown the statue of Our Lady in the chapel (May 2010)</p></div>
<p>I would like to thank everyone who made it possible for me to come here, and who’ve welcomed me into this family. I’d like to thank, first of all Father DiMascola, and Father Charles Higgins, as well as many of our benefactors who helped to pay for part of my schooling, and gave me another reason to work hard at my studies.</p>
<div id="attachment_1039" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 130px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1039 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/RoseOldLady.gif" alt="That's some make-up job!" width="120" height="201" /><p class="wp-caption-text">That&#39;s some make-up job!</p></div>
<p>A special thank my good friends: Clare Margand, and John McCann,  whom I’ve known since I first came here. You really gave me that  companionship I was looking for.</p>
<p>I would like to thank Sister Mary Peter, who was my first teacher, and to whom I apologize for all my antics, but from whom I learned many important things: like diligence. Well, I always meant to put my homework in my backpack, but it got lost somewhere in transit!</p>
<p>Next, I would like to thank Sr. Maria Perpetua, who taught me a lot of church history, and helped me to understand a little more about the way the Catholic Church works in the world. Gratias tibi ago, Soror!</p>
<div id="attachment_1038" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 150px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1038 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/RoseDestroyer.gif" alt="On the USS Cassen Young" width="140" height="209" /><p class="wp-caption-text">On the USS Cassen Young</p></div>
<p>Thank you, Sr. Marie Therese, for starting the Sursum Corda Society. I am truly grateful for the books and the medal, and the spiritual help that this small group has given me. I am still trying to remember to return that book I borrowed!</p>
<p>I would like to thank my parents for letting me come to this school and for helping me to remember my homework. Hopefully, you won’t have to worry about the hole in my head for too much longer. And I would like to give a special thanks to my grandma who spent a lot of time and money to come out for my graduation.</p>
<div id="attachment_1035" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 160px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1035" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/RoseIceSkating.gif" alt="On ice!" width="150" height="268" /><p class="wp-caption-text">On ice!</p></div>
<p>I would also like to thank Professor Grinstead for teaching me that math is not boring. That’s right, folks! Math is not boring!</p>
<p>I would also like to thank Sr. Maria Philomena, my high school teacher for four years, who was patient with me and my tomfoolery. Remember that one time when Cecilia said a word that supposedly melted wizards and I pretended to actually melt? First, I was dumped out of my seat, and then the desk fell on top of me! Well, at least it got a laugh. I know I couldn’t stop laughing for at least ten minutes after that.</p>
<div id="attachment_1036" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 130px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1036 " src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/06/RoseSrMPhRoses.gif" alt="Red &amp; White Roses -- in honor of St. Philomena" width="120" height="162" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Red &amp; White Roses -- in honor of St. Philomena</p></div>
<p>{Here Rose presented flowers to Sister Marie Therese and Sister Maria Philomena.}</p>
<p>I would like to thank all my family and friends, and every member of Saint Benedict Center who have not only helped me, but also put up with my oddities and weaknesses. I am honored to graduate from this school!</p>
<p>Thank you!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Little Book of Instructions for Christian Mothers [continued] (from Mother Love – A Manual for Christian Mothers – by Rev. Pius Franciscus, O.M.Cap., 1926) On the Christian Training of Children Chapter XIV &#8211; How a Christian Mother Should Assist Her Children to Prepare for Holy Communion. The next great event in the young life of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='series_toc'><h3>Table of contents for Mother Love</h3><ol><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2008/11/the-christian-training-children-chapt-1-early-cares/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Early Cares'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Early Cares</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/01/the-christian-training-of-children-new-and-more-difficult-cares/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; New and more Difficult Cares'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; New and more Difficult Cares</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/02/the-christian-training-of-children-admonition-to-mother/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Admonition to Mother'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Admonition to Mother</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/02/the-christian-training-of-children-combating-concupiscence-of-the-flesh/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Flesh'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Flesh</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/02/the-christian-training-of-children-combating-concupiscence-of-the-eyes/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Eyes'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Eyes</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/03/the-christian-training-of-children-combating-pride/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Pride'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Pride</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/04/the-christian-training-of-children-rewards-punishments/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Rewards and Punishments'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Rewards and Punishments</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/04/the-christian-training-of-children-the-fathers-role/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; The Father&#8217;s Role'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; The Father&#8217;s Role</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/05/the-christian-training-of-children-prayers/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Prayers'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Prayers</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-maxims-and-sayings/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Maxims and Sayings'>The Christian Training of Children – Maxims and Sayings</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/05/the-christian-training-of-children-co-operation-with-pastor-and-teacher/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Co-operation with Pastor and Teacher'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Co-operation with Pastor and Teacher</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-catechetical-instruction/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Catechetical Instruction'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Catechetical Instruction</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-preparing-a-child-for-confession/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Preparing a Child for Confession'>The Christian Training of Children – Preparing a Child for Confession</a></li><li>The Christian Training of Children – Preparation for Holy Communion</li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-care-of-young-adults/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Care of Young Adults'>The Christian Training of Children – Care of Young Adults</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/mother-love/' title='Mother Love'>Mother Love</a></li></ol></div> <p><span style="color: #000000"><strong>Little Book of  Instructions  for Christian Mothers</strong></span> [continued]<br />
(from <em>Mother Love</em> – <em>A Manual for Christian Mothers</em> –   by Rev. Pius Franciscus, O.M.Cap., 1926)</p>
<p><strong>On the Christian Training of Children</strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>Chapter XIV &#8211; How a Christian Mother Should Assist Her Children to Prepare for Holy Communion. </strong></p>
<p>The next great event in the young life of your child is its first Holy Communion. <span id="more-976"></span>Until comparatively recent times it was the common practice of pastor and people to postpone this event to a time when the child was considered to be of a clearer understanding, and thus it would happen that children of thirteen and fourteen years had not yet received their first Holy Communion and many had not even made their first confession. Generally a child was not admitted to Holy Communion until it had reached the age of twelve years or had graduated from the parish school. This practice was introduced because it was deemed unwise and even wrong to allow children of a more tender age to approach the Table of the Lord, as they were considered too thoughtless for so holy an action.</address>
<p>But this practice was not at all in accord with the law of the Church, which had been promulgated by the Fourth Lateran Council in the year 1215, and which reads as follows: “All the faithful of both sexes, after coming to the use of reason, shall confess their sins alone to their own priest, at least once a year and devoutly receive Holy Communion at least at Easter time, unless upon the advice of their own priest and for some reasonable cause it should be deemed wise to abstain for a while.” This law was not only approved and confirmed by the Holy Council of Tent, about three hundred years after, but this Council even pronounced anathema on those who hold a contrary opinion: “If any one shall deny that all the faithful of both sexes, who have attained the use of reason, are obliged to receive Communion every year, at least at Easter time, according to the precepts of Holy Mother Church, let him be anathema.”</p>
<p>Therefore, Pope Pius X of happy memory, who deeply deplored the above mentioned custom which deprived children of Holy Communion, though they had attained the age of reason, once more promulgated the old law of the Church and condemned all contrary opinions. Then he also declared at what age a child should be considered as having attained sufficient use of reason for Holy Communion in the following words: “The age of discretion required for Holy Communion is that at which the child can distinguish the Eucharistic bread from common and material bread, and knows how to approach the altar with devotion.” Finally he approved and commanded to be observed throughout the world the following rules:</p>
<blockquote><p>1) The age of discretion required both for confession and Communion is the time when the child begins to reason, that is about the seventh year, sometimes after, sometimes even before. From this time on the obligation of satisfying the precepts of both Confession and Communion begins.</p>
<p>2)    Both for First Confession and First Communion a complete knowledge of Christian Doctrine is not necessary. The child will, however, be obliged to gradually learn the whole catechism according to its intellectual ability.</p>
<p>3) The knowledge of Christian Doctrine required in children in order to be properly prepared for First Communion is that they understand according to their capacity those mysteries of Faith which are necessary as a means of salvation, that they be able to distinguish the Eucharist from common and material bread, and also approach the Sacred Table with the devotion suitable to their age.</p>
<p>4) The obligation of the precepts of Confession and Communion which rests upon the child, falls back principally upon those in whose care they are, that is, parents, confessors, teachers and their pastor. According to the Roman Catechism, however, it belongs to the father or to the person taking his place, as also to the confessor, to admit the child to First Holy Communion.</p>
<p>5) The pastors shall take care to announce and distribute General Communion once or several times a year to the children, and on these occasions they shall admit not only First Communicants but also others who with the consent of their parents or their confessors, have already been admitted to the Sacred Table before. For both classes several days of instruction and preparation shall precede.</p>
<p>6) Those who have the care of children should use all diligence so that after First Communion the children shall often approach the Holy Table, even daily, if possible, as Jesus Christ and Mother Church desire, and that they do it with a devotion becoming their age. They should bear in mind their most important duty which obliges them to have the children present at the public instructions in catechism, otherwise they must supply this religious instruction in some other way.</p>
<p>7) The custom of not admitting children to confession, or of not absolving them when they have attained the age of reason, is absolutely condemned. Wherefore the Ordinaries, using those means which the law gives them, shall see that it is done away with.</p>
<p>8) It is an utterly detestable abuse not to administer Viaticum and Extreme Unction to åof infants. The Ordinaries shall proceed severely against those who do not abandon this custom.</p></blockquote>
<p>The foregoing are the instructions of the Holy Father, the representative of our Lord Jesus Christ, who in His name repeats in other words the rebuke of Christ to His apostles: “Let little children come to Me, and forbid them not.” We all have been too stingy in allowing children to get closer to the love of Christ and in union with Him; and it surely was the spirit of Christ that urged the Pope to be the champion o f the little ones. God be praised!</p>
<p>Now, dear Christian mother, after your duty has been so clearly defined by the Father of Christendom, can you hold back in lending your aid to lead that innocent boy or girl of yours nearer to Christ through Holy Communion? Oh, let it not be said, that you are less anxious to have your children in the arms and in the heart of Jesus, than those Jewish mothers of yore, who brought their children to Jesus for His blessing!</p>
<p>Yes, Christian Mother bringing your children nearer, closer to Jesus—this must be the object of all your efforts in promoting their proper education. These efforts must begin early in life. But with the dawn of reason they must be directed towards arousing in your child a deep appreciation of Christ’s love for all of us and, indeed, for each one of us in particular. As has been remarked before, this does not mean that a long elaborate narration of all that Christ did for us is to be told the little one, but it means that, whenever an occasion presents itself, you should use it to give the child a short explanation.</p>
<p>A few examples will indicate to you what I mean. For instance, you are taking your child out for a little walk in the fresh air. (I presuppose here that your child is about four or five years old, and is an average child.) On your walk you pass a church. Like every good Catholic you ought to stop in and pay your respects to our Lord in the Blessed Sacrament and, certainly, you will take your child along. After you have made a devout genuflection and have taken Holy Water and made the Sign of the Cross, which you have your child do also, you will kneel down and make a brief act of faith and adoration of our Blessed Lord in the tabernacle. Then it might be well to lead your child up to the Communion railing and call its attention to the Sanctuary Lamp and explain briefly the meaning of it, that it burns day and night to show the constant presence of Our Lord in the tabernacle. Point to the tabernacle door and tell the child that Jesus is locked in behind that door, because He loves us and wants to be with us always. This might be enough for one time. At some other time you might tell the child that Jesus is there in the tabernacle just as He was here on earth when He lived among the Jewish people in the Holy Land. Again you may tell it how we cannot see Jesus there because He hides Himself under the cover of bread, because we might be afraid of him if He were there with all of His Greatness and Power. Never keep the child in church too long, so that it does not become weary.</p>
<p>In these and similar ways the child should be taught to love the Prisoner of the Tabernacle, so that by the time it starts to school, it may be acquainted with the Mystery of the Holy Eucharist, and may more intelligently follow the instructions on this subject by the priest. Parents that seldom or never direct their children’s attention to this mystery as well as other mysteries of our Holy Faith, need not be surprised if the priest sometimes finds it necessary to postpone the First Communion to a later age than the accepted age of seven years, when every child should have so much understanding as to distinguish good from bad, and the Eucharistic bread from common bread.</p>
<p>But mother should not only be interested in this remote preparation for the child’s First Holy Communion, she must also interest herself in the proximate preparation. As soon as she hears that her boy or girl is one of the privileged First Communicants, she should aid the priest by every means in her power. In the first place, she should add a special prayer to the child’s regular morning and evening prayer to obtain from the Divine Goodness the grace that the child may make a worthy and devout First Communion. An Our Father and a Hail Mary will serve as well as any other prayer, if only each time the Our Father and Hail Mary is preceded by the words “for the grace of a good communion” or some similar words. The following prayer may be recommended for its simplicity:</p>
<blockquote><p>Prayer for the Grace of a Worthy Communion</p>
<p>O my dearest Jesus, soon I shall be allowed to receive You into my heart. You, O Jesus, Who are my God, my Lord, my Redeemer and Savior. I am glad, because I love You and want You always. But, dear Jesus, my heart is so small and so poor, that it makes me afraid to take in so great a Lord. I wish I could make it as rich and as great as heaven, then, I know, it would be worthy. I cannot make it so worthy. Still, I need You, Jesus, and You want me; otherwise You would not have said: Let the little children come to me, and forbid them not. Therefore I come to open my heart, so that You can live in it forever. Oh, keep it clean and pure and make it rich with Your heavenly Grace, and it will always be a worthy dwelling-place, until at last You will take it with You into Your own happy home in heaven. Help me to be good and to keep me from every sin, even a little one.</p>
<p>O Blessed Mary, Mother of Jesus and my Mother, dear Guardian Angel, Protect and help me. Amen. Hail Mary.</p></blockquote>
<p>Besides such daily prayer, mother should also drill her child in those fundamental truths which all must know to save their souls These are six, namely,</p>
<blockquote><p>1)    There is only one God.</p>
<p>2)    In God there are three Persons, Father, Son, and Holy Ghost.</p>
<p>3)    God created all things, and rules and governs them.</p>
<p>4)    The Son of God became man and died on the Cross to save us.</p>
<p>5)    God rewards the good and punishes the wicked.</p>
<p>6)    The human soul will never die, and grace is necessary to be saved.</p></blockquote>
<p>Then help to get a clear idea into the mind of your child about the Holy Eucharist. This is not so hard, if you will tell the child again and again the story of the Last Supper, and show from Christ’s many miracles how nothing is impossible to the power of God. Tell those miracles also in a child-like way and in deep faith, and the child will soon grasp that under the appearances of bread and wine the body and blood of Jesus Christ does exist in the Holy Eucharist.</p>
<p>As the day of its Holy Communion approaches, mother will do well also to speak of the First Holy Communions of the Saints and of other good, great men, and how they considered no day of their lives happier than the day on which they were privileged to receive into their souls for the first time the Lord of Heaven and Earth. Who will describe the joys of a mother’s and a father’s heart, when their little one in all its innocence and purity of the baptismal graces goes forward to the altar-steps to receive? Many a good father and mother have shed tears of joy and happiness on such an occasion, and surely they experienced at those moments a foretaste of the heavenly reunion in Christ in the next world. Indeed, in comparison to this happiness of having their innocent children united with their Divine Savior in the Holy Eucharist all other earthly joys must seem to them like so much dross and vanity. A warm, sincere faith in the mysteries of our holy religion, united with a supreme confidence in their fulfillment on occasions like the first Confession and the First Communion of their own child, will surely make life’s burdens and trials seem lighter and easier to bear.</p>
<p>After its first Holy Communion mother should frequently recall to the child’s memory the extraordinary grace which it received and strive also to urge it on to keep itself worthy of enjoying the same great happiness even every day. If parents and children would become more devoutly familiar with the Holy Eucharist through frequent and even daily Communion, there can be no doubt that ultimately the peace of Christ would reign in their homes and only rarely would the devil of discord and jealousy and hate gain an entrance there. The Holy Eucharist is the center of life in the Church, and the Holy Eucharist must also become the center of life in every Catholic home, if the principles of Christ are to bring forth there worthy fruits of virtue and perfection.</p>
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		<title>Letter to President Obama &#8211; On Climate Change</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[February 11, 2010 Dear Mr. President, I am a nineteen-year-old citizen who is imploring you to note an issue that is holding back this great nation from reaching our fullest potential. I can’t tell you how glad I am to hear you say that you look at man-made climate change with scientific consideration. With scientific [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='series_toc'><h3>Table of contents for Hands-on Civics Lesson</h3><ol><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/02/american-civics-economy-current/' title='American Civics and Economy (Current)'>American Civics and Economy (Current)</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/letter-to-president-obama-on-life/' title='Letter to President Obama &#8211; On Life'>Letter to President Obama &#8211; On Life</a></li><li>Letter to President Obama &#8211; On Climate Change</li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/letter-to-president-obama-on-education/' title='Letter to President Obama &#8211; On Education'>Letter to President Obama &#8211; On Education</a></li></ol></div> <div id="attachment_872" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 182px"><img class="size-full wp-image-872" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2010/03/noid3.gif" alt="John McCann - Class of 2010" width="172" height="228" /><p class="wp-caption-text">John McCann - Class of 2010</p></div>
<p>February 11, 2010</p>
<p>Dear Mr. President,</p>
<p>I am a nineteen-year-old citizen who is imploring you to note an issue that is holding back this great nation from reaching our fullest potential. I can’t tell you how glad I am to hear you say that you look at man-made climate change with scientific consideration. With scientific backing, one can reaffirm that his opinion can be proved; and people who base their opinions off of scientific proof are wise indeed.<span id="more-871"></span></p>
<p>The issue that I feel needs noting is that man-made climate change isn’t scientific. Opposed to the popular belief, many reputable scientists state that the amount of carbon created by man’s technology is minute compared to the massive amounts being emitted from the planet’s wild life and oceans (not to mention the fact that carbon doesn’t affect the temperature; the temperature affects the carbon). These facts and other scientific evidence against man-made climate change are stated in Martin Durkin’s “<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xzSzItt6h-s" target="_blank">The Great Global Warming Swindle</a>.”</p>
<p>The fact that such a scientifically shaky theory of man-made climate change is getting so much credibility, publicity, and funds is ridiculous. And if this foolishness were going on when we were strong and not twelve trillion dollars in debt, it would be just that foolishness. But, sadly, we are far from being strong; we are twelve trillion dollars in debt and still digging. What I propose is that you revaluate your view on man-made climate change and question the reliability of this “irrefutable scientific evidence.”</p>
<p>I’m sure you can see the folly of this current state of affairs. There is absolutely no reason why we should let these alarmists keep stealing from the people of this great nation by use of fear. You can inform the people of the real impending danger of our economic standing and re-channel the “fear money” that is currently being put toward man-made climate change and put it toward the real threat. Thank you for your time.</p>
<p>Sincerely,</p>
<p>[signed]<br />
John McCann<br />
15 Morgan Road<br />
Richmond, NH 0347</p>
<blockquote><p><em>Variations of this letter were sent to NH Representative <a title="Bio of Barbara Richardson" href="http://www.nhelects.com/Candidates/State08/Default.asp?CID=90" target="_blank">Barbara Richardson</a>, NH Senator <a title="Molly Kelly" href="http://www.mollykelly.com/" target="_blank">Molly Kelly</a>, US Congressman <a title="Paul Hodes" href="http://hodes.house.gov/" target="_blank">Paul Hodes</a>, US Senator <a title="Jeanne Shaheen" href="http://shaheen.senate.gov/" target="_blank">Jeanne Shaheen</a>, and US Senator <a title="Judd Gregg" href="http://gregg.senate.gov/" target="_blank">Judd Gregg</a></em></p></blockquote>
<p><em>Received 3/15/10 &#8211; A handwritten, handmade card with the following quote from Thomas Jefferson: &#8220;In matter of style, swim with the current; in matter of principle, stand like a rock.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>3/13/10</p>
<p>Dear John,</p>
<p>Thank you for your thoughtful letter. I respect your views on global warming. I am concerned about what is the result of the melting glaciers, etc. in whatever is the way in which these changes are occurring. In any event I do believe our dependence on coal burning plants for much of our energy is not helpful for us and our planet. I hope we will develop more environmental-friendly sources of power.</p>
<p>You sound like a very thoughtful young man and I wish you success in your future.</p>
<p>Sincerely,</p>
<p>[signed] Barbara Richardson</p>
<p><em>Received 4/2010</em></p>
<p>March 17, 2010</p>
<p>Dear John,</p>
<p>Thank you for contacting my office about climate change legislation. I appreciate hearing from you about this critical issue.</p>
<p>It is time to get America running on clean energy. We have a historic opportunity to transform our economy and become a global leader in clean energy technologies. Reducing the amount of greenhouse gas emitted in our country, in concert with the global community, is the only way we will begin to curb the negative consequences of climate change and drive our transition to a clean energy economy. It is time to act.</p>
<p>Confronting climate change is an environmental and economic imperative for our state. In New Hampshire climate change is already altering the beautiful landscape of our state, and scientists have documented warmer winters with less snowfall and the earlier arrival of spring. As a state where tourism is our second largest industry, we simply can’t afford to lose our ability to offer snowmobiling, hunting and fishing, or our first-rate skiing — a $650 million annual industry alone.</p>
<p>As we consider legislation establishing a clean energy incentive program for our economy, keeping household and business energy costs low is a priority for me. I support a market-based climate program that keeps costs to consumers low, incentivizes clean energy technologies and makes meaningful reductions in carbon emissions. An economy-wide, clean energy incentive program is the best way to achieve significant carbon reductions. Most importantly, this program will drive innovation in American-made clean energy technologies like wind, solar and biomass, creating American jobs and helping to reduce our dependence on foreign oil. The Senate is still working on the details of its energy and climate bill that we hope to bring to the Senate floor later in the year.</p>
<p>New Hampshire is already leading the way in market-based clean energy incentives as a member of the Regional Greenhouse Gas Initiative (RGGI). RGGI is a regional effort to reduce carbon emissions from power plants. We must continue to build nationally on the important work of this regional program to restore our global leadership and get America running on clean energy.</p>
<p>Thank you again for sharing your thoughts with me, and please do not hesitate to contact my office with any future concerns.</p>
<p>Sincerely,</p>
<p>[signed] Jeanne Shaheen</p>
<p>United States Senator</p>
<p><em>Received April 22, 2010</em></p>
<p>April 23, 2010</p>
<p>Dear Mr. McCann,</p>
<p>Thank you for contacting me about the scientific evidence of our planet’s changing climate. I truly appreciate hearing from you, and I am working hard to stand up for New Hampshire’s interests in Congress.</p>
<p>Since 2007, when the diverse panel of scientists on the Intergovernmental Panel on Global Climate Change published their report, countless other peer-reviewed scientific studies have supported their finding that greenhouse gas emissions are warming our planet. In fact, many studies in recent years show that greenhouse gas emissions by humans are warming our planet even faster than what was previously predicted. If we do not take action to prevent the most extreme effects of global warming, the results could be catastrophic to our public health and safety, as well as our global economy.</p>
<p>The Environmental Protection Agency (EPA) recently completed a detailed scientific analysis, and found that six greenhouse gases “threaten the public health and welfare of current and future generations.” More information on this study and finding are available on the EPA’s website at <a href="http://www.epa.gov/climatechange/endangerment.html">http://www.epa.gov/climatechange/endangerment.html</a>.</p>
<p>Our nations’ defense and intelligence agencies have also recognized the scientific evidence of global warming, and are taking action to understand the threat it poses to our national security. The Department of Defense will include an assessment of security threats posed by climate change as part of its Quadrennial Defense Review, to be published in 2010. The National Intelligence Council has already issued a series of reports entitled “The Impact of Climate Change to 2030.” These reports can be found at <a href="http://www.dni.gov/nic/special_climate2030.html">http://www.dni.gov/nic/special_climate2030.html</a>. I hope you find this information useful.</p>
<p>On June 26, 2009, the House of Representatives passed H.R. 2454, the American Clean Energy and Security Act. This bill would set a declining cap on greenhouse gas emissions and make significant investments in creating clean, renewable energy in the United States. Transitioning to these new energy sources will cerate new jobs in the U.S. and reduce our dependence on foreign oil. This bill is now awaiting action in the Senate. Please know that I will keep your views in mind as this bill moves through the legislative process.</p>
<p>I encourage you to continue to contact me about the issues that are important to you. Please feel free to visit my website at <a href="http://www.hodes.house.gov/">www.hodes.house.gov</a> where you can share your ideas with me, learn about the services I can provide to you, and sign up for my periodic e-mail updates on what I am doing to help New Hampshire.</p>
<p>Sincerely,</p>
<p>[signed] Paul W. Hodes</p>
<p>Member of Congress</p>
<p><em>Received 5/3/10</em></p>
<p>The White House</p>
<p>Washington, DC 20500</p>
<p>April 29, 2010</p>
<p>Dear Friend,</p>
<p>Thank you for contacting me. I appreciate hearing your perspective on global warning. Few challenges facing our Nation are more urgent. The facts are clear, and the science is beyond dispute. We know that we cannot keep burning fossil fuels and adding greenhouse gases to the atmosphere without consequence. If left unchecked, our continued dependence on these sources of energy will further weaken our economy and threaten our national security.</p>
<p>We are addressing the climate crisis first and foremost by pursuing a clean energy future that makes our country safer and more prosperous. The American Recovery and Reinvestment Act puts Americans to work weatherizing homes and buildings, doubling our supply of renewable energy, and advancing scientific research. My 2010 Budget makes further investments in a clean energy economy that will create good-paying jobs through funding for wind and solar power, advanced biofuels [sic], clean coal, and fuel-efficient cars. In addition, my Administration is pursuing comprehensive legislation to move toward energy independence and prevent the worst consequences of global warming while creating incentives to make clean energy profitable in America.</p>
<p>The response to global warning, however, must be global. Just as we work to reduce our own emissions, we must forge solutions that ensure every country does its part.</p>
<p>Our choices as individuals and as a Nation will ultimately define the world we leave to our children. To learn more about my plan to act boldly on global warning and meet our obligation to future generations, I encourage you to join me online at: www.whitehouse.gov/energy-and-environment. Thank you again for writing.</p>
<p>Sincerely,</p>
<p>[signed or stamped] Barack Obama</p>
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		<title>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Catechetical Instruction</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='series_toc'><h3>Table of contents for Mother Love</h3><ol><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2008/11/the-christian-training-children-chapt-1-early-cares/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Early Cares'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Early Cares</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/01/the-christian-training-of-children-new-and-more-difficult-cares/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; New and more Difficult Cares'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; New and more Difficult Cares</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/02/the-christian-training-of-children-admonition-to-mother/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Admonition to Mother'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Admonition to Mother</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/02/the-christian-training-of-children-combating-concupiscence-of-the-flesh/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Flesh'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Flesh</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/02/the-christian-training-of-children-combating-concupiscence-of-the-eyes/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Eyes'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Eyes</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/03/the-christian-training-of-children-combating-pride/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Pride'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Pride</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/04/the-christian-training-of-children-rewards-punishments/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Rewards and Punishments'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Rewards and Punishments</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/04/the-christian-training-of-children-the-fathers-role/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; The Father&#8217;s Role'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; The Father&#8217;s Role</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/05/the-christian-training-of-children-prayers/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Prayers'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Prayers</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-maxims-and-sayings/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Maxims and Sayings'>The Christian Training of Children – Maxims and Sayings</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/05/the-christian-training-of-children-co-operation-with-pastor-and-teacher/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Co-operation with Pastor and Teacher'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Co-operation with Pastor and Teacher</a></li><li>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Catechetical Instruction</li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-preparing-a-child-for-confession/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Preparing a Child for Confession'>The Christian Training of Children – Preparing a Child for Confession</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/05/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-preparation-for-holy-communion/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Preparation for Holy Communion'>The Christian Training of Children – Preparation for Holy Communion</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-care-of-young-adults/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Care of Young Adults'>The Christian Training of Children – Care of Young Adults</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/mother-love/' title='Mother Love'>Mother Love</a></li></ol></div> <address><span style="color: #000000"><strong>Little Book of  Instructions for Christian Mothers</strong></span> [continued]<br />
(from <em>Mother Love</em> – <em>A Manual for Christian Mothers</em> –  by Rev. Pius Franciscus, O.M.Cap., 1926)</p>
<p><strong>On the Christian Training of Children</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Chapter XII. –</strong> <strong>Catechetical Instructions Which a Christian Mother Should Frequently Explain to Her Children and upon Which She Should Often Question Them.</strong></p>
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<address>[This chapter is a lovely summary of the penny catechism.]<span id="more-969"></span></address>
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<address><strong>The Holy Sign of the Cross:</strong></address>
<address>In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost. Amen</address>
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<address><strong>The Our Father:</strong></address>
<address>The Our Father consists of one address, “Our Father, Who art in heaven,” and seven petitions. The first three, “Hallowed by Thy name, Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven,” refer to the honor of God; and the last four, “Give us this day our daily bread, forgive us our trespasses as we forgive them that trespass against us, and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.”— bear reference to our own and our neighbor’s temporal and spiritual welfare. The word “Father” is placed first because we should never repeat the Our Father without a filial turning of our heart to God. The mother should accustom her children to this.</address>
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<address><strong>The Hail Mary:</strong></address>
<address>The “Hail Mary” is composed of two parts. The first contains the salutation, “Hail Mary,” a threefold eulogium of the Blessed Virgin, “Full of grace, the Lord is with thee, blessed art thou among women,” and the praise of her Divine Child, “and blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus.”</address>
<address>The second part contains an address full of reverence, “Holy Mary, Mother of God,” and an humble petition, “pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen.”</address>
<address>Impress upon your children that it should always be said with child-like respect for the Mother of God.</address>
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<blockquote><address>The Six Truths which all must know and believe to gain eternal salvation:</address>
<address>1)    There is but one God, who created, preserves and governs all things.</address>
<address>2)    God is a just Judge. He rewards the good and punishes the wicked.</address>
<address>3)    In God there are three Persons: God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Ghost.</address>
<address>4)    The Son of God became man, and died on the Cross to save us.</address>
<address>5)    The soul of man is immortal.</address>
<address>6)     Grace is necessary to salvation.</address>
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<address> <strong>The Apostles’ Creed:</strong></address>
<address>This Creed contains twelve articles which are as follows:</address>
<address>1) I believe in God, the Father Almighty, Creator of heaven and earth.</address>
<address>2) And in Jesus Christ, His only Son, our Lord.</address>
<address>3) Who was conceived by the Holy Ghost, born of the Virgin Mary.</address>
<address>4) Suffered under Pontius Pilate, was crucified, died, and was buried.</address>
<address>5) He descended into hell, the third day He rose again from the dead.</address>
<address>6) He ascended into heaven, sitteth at the right hand of God, the Father Almighty.</address>
<address>7) From thence He shall come to judge the living and the dead.</address>
<address>8) I believe in the Holy Ghost.</address>
<address>9) The holy Catholic Church, the Communion of saints.</address>
<address>10) The forgiveness of sins.</address>
<address>11) The resurrection of the body.</address>
<address>12) And life everlasting. Amen.</address>
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<address><strong><em>The Gloria Patri, or Lesser Doxology:</em></strong></address>
<address>Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Ghost. As it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end. Amen.</address>
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<address><strong><em>The Holy Rosary:</em></strong></address>
<address>Teach the children at each decade to picture to themselves the mystery honored by the same and dto pray that its corresponding virtue may be impressed upon their hearts.</address>
<blockquote><address>The five Joyful Mysteries are to be said form the first Sunday in Advent, until the Feast of the Purification; the five Sorrowful Mysteries, from Ash-Wednesday until Easter Sunday; the five Glorious Mysteries, from Easter Sunday to Trinity Sunday. During the remaining part of the year, the Joyful Mysteries are said on Mondays and Thursdays, the Sorrowful Mysteries on Tuesdays and Fridays, and Glorious Mysteries on Sundays, Wednesdays, and Saturdays.</address>
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<address>The Rosary is to be said as follows:</address>
<address>In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost. Amen.</address>
<address>I believe in God, etc.</address>
<address>Our Father.</address>
<address>Hail Mary (three times).</address>
<address>Glory be to the Father, etc.</address>
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<address>The Joyful Mysteries  (The spirit of joy)</address>
<address>1)    The Annunciation of Our Lady (fruit: humility). Our Father, Hail Mary (ten times), Glory be, etc.</address>
<address>2)    The Visitation (fruit: love of neighbor). Our Father, as above.</address>
<address>3)    The Nativity (fruit: spirit of poverty)</address>
<address>4)    The Presentation (fruit: obedience)</address>
<address>5)    The Finding of the Child Jesus, twelve years old in the Temple (union of heart with Jesus and Mary)</address>
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<address>The Sorrowful Mysteries (the spirit of compassion)</address>
<address>1)    Our Lord’s Agony in the Garden (sorrow for sin)</address>
<address>2)    The Scourging at the Pillar (fervor of penance)</address>
<address>3)    The Crowning with Thorns (mortification of self-love)</address>
<address>4)    The Carrying of the Cross (patience in the trials of one’s state)</address>
<address>5)    The Crucifixion (love of Jesus and Mary)</address>
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<address>The Glorious Mysteries (spirit of reverence)</address>
<address>1)    The Resurrection of Our Lord (true conversion)</address>
<address>2)    The Ascension (desire of heaven)</address>
<address>3)    The Descent of the Holy Ghost (recollection of mind and fervor of prayer)</address>
<address>4)    The Assumption of Our Lady (grace of a good death)</address>
<address>5)    The Coronation of Our Lady (perseverance, reverence for the glorious Queen of Heaven, and confidence in her prayers)</address>
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<address>Conclude with the Salve Regina:</address>
<address> Hail, holy Queen, Mother of mercy, our life, our sweetness, and our hope! To thee do we cry, poor banished children of Eve. To thee do we send up our sighs, mourning and weeping in this valley of tears. Turn then, most gracious advocate, thine eyes of mercy toward us, and after this our exile, show unto us the blessed fruit of thy womb, Jesus. O clement, O loving, O sweet Virgin Mary!</address>
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<address><em>It is not necessary to reflect upon the foregoing virtues. Other meditations may be substituted and other petitions made according to the devotion of the individual.</em></address>
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<address><strong>The Ten Commandments of God:</strong></address>
<address>I.      I am the Lord, thy God, who brought thee out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of bondage. Thou shalt not have strange gods before Me. Thou shalt not make to thyself a graven thing, nor the likeness of anything that is in the heavens above, or in the earth beneath, nor of those things that are in the waters under the earth. Thou shalt not adore them nor serve them.</address>
<address>II.    Thou shalt not take the name of the Lord, thy God, in vain.</address>
<address>III.  Remember that thou keep holy the Sabbath day.</address>
<address>IV. Honor thy father and thy mother.</address>
<address>V.   Thou shalt not kill.</address>
<address>VI. Thou shalt not commit adultery.</address>
<address>VII.        Thou shalt no steal.</address>
<address>VIII.      Thou shalt not bear false witness against they neighbor.</address>
<address>IX. Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor’s wife.</address>
<address>X.   Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor’s goods.</address>
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<address>The Six Commandments of the Church:</address>
<address>I.      To rest from servile work, and to hear Mass on all Sundays and Holydays of Obligation.</address>
<address>II.    To fast and abstain on the days appointed.</address>
<address>III.  To confess our sins at least once a year.</address>
<address>IV. To receive worthily the Holy Eucharist during the Easter time.</address>
<address>V.   To contribute to the support of our pastors.</address>
<address>VI. Not to marry persons who are not Catholics or who are related to us in the third degree of kindred, nor privately without witnesses, nor to solemnize marriage at the forbidden times.</address>
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<address><strong>The Six Holydays of Obligation [in the USA]:</strong></address>
<address>I.      The Immaculate Conception of the Blessed Virgin (8<sup>th</sup> of December).</address>
<address>II.    The Nativity of Our Lord (25<sup>th</sup> of December).</address>
<address>III.  The Circumcision of Our Lord (1<sup>st</sup> of January).</address>
<address>IV. The Ascension of Our Lord (forty days after Easter).</address>
<address>V.   The Assumption of the Blessed Virgin (15<sup>th</sup> of August).</address>
<address>VI. The Feast of All-Saints (1<sup>st</sup> of November).</address>
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<address><strong>The Seven Sacraments:</strong></address>
<blockquote><address>The Seven Sacraments were instituted by Jesus Christ, for the salvation of sinners, and the perseverance of the just. They are: Baptism, Confirmation, Holy Eucharist, Penance, Extreme Unction, Holy Orders, and Matrimony.</address>
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<address>1.Baptism remits original sin and every actual sin committed before Baptism by one that has reached the age of reason. It takes away the eternal and temporal punishment due to sin; it pours into the soul sanctifying grace along with the three theological virtues of Faith, Hope and Charity; and it raises man to the dignity of a child of God, and rightful heir of the kingdom of heaven. In case of necessity, anyone of either sex that has reached the age of reason can and ought to baptize. Pouring common water on the head of the person to be baptized, so that the skin becomes wet, <em>say at the same time</em> the words: “I baptize thee in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost.”</address>
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<blockquote><address> The Baptismal Vows are fourfold:</address>
<address>I. I believe all that the Holy Catholic Church believes and teaches.</address>
<address>II. I renounce Satan.</address>
<address>III. I renounce all his works.</address>
<address>IV. I renounce all his pomps.</address>
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<address> By these words the newly-baptized promises to be forever a faithful child of the Catholic Church; resolutely to resist the suggestions and temptations of Stan; perseveringly to shun all sin (which is the work of Satan), and all the occasions thereto; to abhor and never to desist from mortifying in himself the threefold concupiscence in which the world seeks all its pleasure and enjoyment. Never  mshould we forget promises so holy, promises made on so solemn an occasion! Never should we violate them!</address>
<address>2.     Confirmation confirms the Faith and the life of grace in us, makes us able and strong to battle at the side of Christ against the enemies of the kingdom of God.</address>
<address>3.     The Blessed Sacrament of the Altar is the true Body and the true Blood of Jesus Christ under the appearance of bread and wine. It is the nourishment of the soul unto life everlasting for all who receive it worthily and with due preparation.         The Holy Mass is the real sacrifice of the Body and Blood of Jesus Christ, under the appearance of bread and wine. It is the most worthy act of adoration, praise, and thanksgiving, and the most powerful sacrifice of atonement and petition that we can offer.</address>
<blockquote><address> The three principal parts of the Mass are:</address>
<address>I.       The Offertory</address>
<address>II.     The Elevation</address>
<address>III.   The Communion of the Priest</address>
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<address> 4. Through the Sacrament of Penance are remitted all actual sins committed after Baptism, their eternal punishment and, at least, a part of the temporal punishment due to them. Through it Sanctifying grace is restored or, if it was not lost, is increased in the soul; and finally, it confers special graces for the leading of a pious life. For the worthy reception of the Sacrament of Penance, five things are necessary, namely:</address>
<blockquote><address> I.   Devout prayer to the Holy Ghost.</address>
<address> II.  A careful examination of conscience.</address>
<address> III. A sincere contrition and a firm resolution.</address>
<address> IV. A sincere confession of, at least, all mortal sins with their number and any </address>
<address> circumstances that materially change their nature.</address>
<address> V. Satisfaction, or the performance of the penance imposed by the Confessor.</address>
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<address> 5. Extreme Unction is the sacrament of the sick and comforts the soul especially for the hour of death. It often alleviates sickness, and sometimes even restores health itself.</address>
<address> 6. Through the Sacrament of Holy Orders, priests receive power to change bread and wine into the Body and Blood of Jesus Christ, and to forgive sins. It confers on them, also, many other powers and great graces. </address>
<address> 7. Through the Sacrament of Matrimony, husband and wife receive the grace to live together in love and peace, and to rear their children in a Christian manner.</address>
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<address><strong>Spiritual Communion</strong></address>
<address>Spiritual Communion consists in an ardent desire to receive our Lord in the Blessed Sacrament. Spiritual Communion can be made at any time, and in any place, and it enriches the soul with many graces according to the intensity of the desire for receiving Holy Communion. The Divine Savior Himself really deigned to teach the devout religious, Maria Lataste, the following simple form. He said: “Recollect thyself for one instant, place thyself in spirit before My tabernacle, and say to Me ‘O Jesus come into my heart!’ That is sufficient.”</address>
<address> But we may also make use of other and more lengthy forms; for instance,</address>
<blockquote><address> O Blessed Jesus, come to me!</address>
<address> O make me burn with love for Thee,</address>
<address> That I may live and die in Thee!</address>
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<address> Mothers, instruct your children already before they have made their First Communion to receive Jesus in this spiritual manner.</address>
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<address><strong>The Three Theological Virtues:</strong></address>
<address>The three divine virtues, Faith, Hope, and Charity, are infused into the soul together with Sanctifying Grace. They should be stirred into activity by frequently reciting them according to some definite form and thus they will take firm root in the soul and render it more and more holy. The following forms are recommended.</address>
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<blockquote><address>Act of Faith: </address>
<address> My God, I believe in Thee and in all that Thy Church teaches, because Thou hast revealed it, and Thy word is true.</address>
<address>Act of Hope: </address>
<address> My God, I hope in Thee for grace and for glory, because of Thy promises, Thy mercy, and Thy power.</address>
<address>Act of Love: </address>
<address> My God, because Thou art so good, I love Thee with all my heart, and for Thy sake I love my neighbor as myself.</address>
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<address>Act of Contrition: </address>
<address> My God, because Thou art so good,</address>
<address> With sorrow I deplore</address>
<address> That I have ever offended Thee.</address>
<address> I’ll never offend Thee more.</address>
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<address><strong>The Confiteor:</strong></address>
<address> I confess to Almighty God, to blessed Mary ever Virgin, to blessed Michael the Archangel, to blessed John the Baptist, to the holy Apostles Peter and Paul, to all the Saints, that I have sinned exceedingly in thought, word, and deed, through my fault, through my fault, through my most grievous fault. Therefore I beseech the blessed Mary ever Virgin, blessed Michael the Archangel, blessed John the Baptist, the holy Apostles Peter and Paul, and all Saints, to pray to the Lord our God for me.</address>
<address> May the Almighty God have mercy on me, forgive me my sins, and bring me to everlasting life. Amen.</address>
<address> May the Almighty and merciful Lord grant me pardon, absolution, and remission of my sins. Amen.</address>
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<address><strong>The Four Cardinal Virtues:</strong></address>
<address>1.     Prudence. Christian prudence causes us to discriminate in every circumstance the good from the bad, and prevents our being led astray by false appearances.</address>
<address>2.     Justice. By the practice of Christian justice, we constantly render to every one, to God, to superiors, to equals, and inferiors, all that we owe them.</address>
<address>3.     Fortitude. Christian fortitude enables us to overcome all the difficulties and dangers that might prevent us from doing good.</address>
<address>4.     Temperance. By Christian temperance we keep our sensual inclinations and desires in check.</address>
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<address><strong>Christian Perfection:</strong></address>
<address> Christian perfection consists in this: That we love God above all things, and all things for God’s sake.</address>
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<address><strong>The Seven Gifts of the Holy Ghost:</strong></address>
<address> The seven gifts of the Holy Ghost are: Wisdom, Understanding, Counsel, Fortitude, Knowledge, Piety, and the Fear of the Lord. They are infused into the soul, together with Sanctifying Grace, and affect us in such a way that, following the inspirations of the Holy Ghost, we dread to offend God (Fear of the Lord); we feel toward Him like children (Piety); we can rightly discriminate between the false and true, the good and the bad (Knowledge); we courageously conquer all obstacles in the serviced of God (Fortitude); we choose what is most advantageous for the honor of God and the salvation of souls (Counsel); we apprehend what is divine and eternal (Understanding); we love and esteem it as our greatest treasure (Wisdom). The Christian needs the first five gifts in order to struggle manfully; the two last, Understanding and Wisdom, are necessary to pray well.</address>
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<address><strong>The Merit of Good Works:</strong></address>
<address> All our words and actions as well as our good thoughts and holy imaginations, virtuous desires and resolutions, pleasure in good and fear of evil, briefly all our good works, exterior and interior, when performed in the state of grace, and with a good intention, are meritorious for heaven. They produce in us an increase of sanctifying grace and a greater love of God besides a higher degree of heavenly bliss; they obtain for us the remission of venial sin and of temporal punishment; and, finally, they procure for us and for others special actual graces.</address>
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<address><strong>Prayer, Fasting, Almsgiving:</strong></address>
<address> The principal good works are prayer, fasting and almsgiving, and comprise in themselves all other good works. Prayer embraces all other religious exercises; fasting, all corporal discipline; and almsgiving, all acts of mercy toward our neighbor. When practiced in their perfection, they lead to the three:</address>
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<address><strong>Evangelical Counsels:</strong></address>
<address> Entire obedience to a superior as to the representative of God, perpetual chastity, and voluntary poverty. By the three evangelical counsels, man sacrifices himself entirely to God. By chastity, his body; and by poverty, all his possessions. Only few are called by God to such a life. Members of religious orders bind themselves to it by vows.</address>
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<address>The Works of Corporal and Spiritual Mercy:</address>
<address> Christian charity does not consist in mere words and sentiments; it must also become practical in deeds. The ordinary needs of body and soul may be reduced to seven kinds, and hence we distinguish seven corporal and seven spiritual works of mercy.</address>
<blockquote><address> <strong>The Corporal Works of Mercy </strong></address>
<address>I.       To feed the hungry.</address>
<address>II.     To give drink to the thirsty.</address>
<address>III.   To clothe the naked.</address>
<address>IV.  To ransom the captive.</address>
<address>V.    To harbor the harborless.</address>
<address>VI.  To visit the sick.</address>
<address>VII. To bury the dead.</address>
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<address> <strong>The Spiritual Works of Mercy</strong></address>
<address>I.       To admonish the sinner.</address>
<address>II.     To instruct the ignorant.</address>
<address>III.   To counsel the doubtful.</address>
<address>IV.  To comfort the sorrowful.</address>
<address>V.    To bear wrongs patiently.</address>
<address>VI.  To forgive all injuries</address>
<address>VII.        To pray for the living and the dead.</address>
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<address>Point out to the child the works of mercy which are performed on its body and soul by others and which it can and ought to perform itself.</address>
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<address><strong>The Imitation of Jesus Christ:</strong></address>
<address> This imitation manifests itself in love of Jesus Christ, reverence for His words, obedience to His will, the following of His example. They follow Jesus Christ who exercise the three Theological Virtues, the four Cardinal Virtues, and the eight Beatitudes, and who cooperate with the seven gifts of the Holy Ghost. Seek ever to understand the Divine Master better and better, for this is eternal life.</address>
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<blockquote><address>The Eight Beatitudes (Matt. V):</address>
<address>I.   Blessed are the poor in spirit; for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.</address>
<address>II.  Blessed are the meek; for they shall possess the land.</address>
<address>III.  Blessed are they that mourn; for they shall be comforted.</address>
<address>IV.  Blessed are they that hunger and thirst after justice; for they shall be filled.</address>
<address>V.  Blessed are the merciful; for they shall obtain mercy.</address>
<address>VI. Blessed are the clean of heart; for they shall see God.</address>
<address>VII. Blessed are the peacemakers; for they shall be called the children of God.</address>
<address>VIII. Blessed are they that suffer persecution for justice’ sake; for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.</address>
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<address> The poor in spirit are they who have no attachment to perishable goods, whether they have earthly possessions or not. The meek are they who gently repay aversion and persecution with kindness and benefits. They “shall possess the land” means they shall gain the love and respect of all good people, shall oftentimes win over their adversaries; but, above all, shall obtain the kingdom of God, namely heaven. </address>
<address> They mourn in a holy manner, who are patient in suffering, who grieve over their own or others’ sins, or who long for the kingdom of heaven. </address>
<address> Hunger and thirst after justice indicate an ardent longing after virtue, after perfection, after grace, after the holy Sacraments, after the word of God, etc.</address>
<address> Merciful are they who are easily moved to compassion, and who love to exercise works of mercy.</address>
<address> The chaste souls detached from earthly things have a pure heart. They cheerfully stand before God here below, praying readily and fervently. And thus they enjoy a foretaste of the eternal vision of God which is prepared for them in heaven.</address>
<address> The peacemakers preserve peace with God by avoiding sin; they guard, as much as they can, against dissensions with and among their neighbors; and, as soon as they can, they restore the peace that may have been disturbed. They bear a special likeness to God, who is a God of peace; they are His well-beloved children, the objects of His special favor.</address>
<address> Ill-will, contempt, and persecution are the portion of all those who would lead a Christian life. What men inflicted upon the Divine Master, even this his disciples may expect: the cross and martyrdom.</address>
<address> The children of this world consider those who follow this road to heaven as fools, ridicule and despise them. This only shows how little the worldling understands what would save him from the eternal perdition into which he is precipitating himself.</address>
<address> </address>
<address><strong>The Twelve Fruits of the Holy Ghost:</strong></address>
<address> As the spirit of the flesh and the world can bring forth only evil and bitter fruit, so the Holy Ghost, on the other hand, produces in all souls, that allow Him to work freely in them, a multitude of beautiful virtues and good works, of which the holy Apostle Paul enumerates twelve, as follows:</address>
<blockquote><address> Charity, Joy, Peace, Patience, Benignity, Goodness, Long-Suffering, Meekness, Fidelity, Modesty, Continency, Chastity.</address>
</blockquote>
<address> </address>
<address><strong>The Four Last Things </strong>which men should constantly keep before their eyes, are: Death, Judgment, Hell, and Heaven.</address>
<address> </address>
<address><strong>The Life-Work </strong>of every Christian here below is:</address>
<blockquote><address>I.    To serve God, by keeping His commandments.</address>
<address>II.   To imitate Jesus Christ, by practicing the Christian virtues.</address>
<address>III.  To honor the angels and saints and invoke them.</address>
<address>IV.  To save his soul.</address>
<address>V.    To avoid hell.</address>
<address>VI.  To gain heaven.</address>
<address>VII. To despise the vanity of the world.</address>
<address>VIII. To atone for his sins.</address>
<address>IX.  To overcome evil inclinations.</address>
<address>X.  To perform good works.</address>
<address>XI. To edify his neighbor.</address>
<address>XII. To die, and to stand before the judgment-seat of Christ.</address>
</blockquote>
<address> </address>
<address><strong>The Two Means of Perseverance </strong>are watchfulness and prayer. “Watch and pray,” said the Divine Saviour to His disciples, “that ye enter not into temptation. The spirit, indeed, is willing, but the flesh is weak.” We must watch over the evil inclinations of our nature, that we do not fall into sin; over the movements of grace, that we may profit by them; over our love for Jesus Christ, that it may not be lost to us. We must pray, because without the assistance of God we can do nothing toward our salvation, much less persevere in the love of Jesus Christ. We must always watch, always pray, because we are always in danger of being unloyal [sic] to the love of Christ. Those moments in which we gave way to our evil inclinations, were moments of negligence in watchfulness and prayer.</address>
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		<description><![CDATA[Little Book of Instructions for Christian Mothers [continued] (from Mother Love – A Manual for Christian Mothers – by Rev. Pius Franciscus, O.M.Cap., 1926) On the Christian Training of Children Chapter XIII. – How a Christian Mother Should Prepare Her Child for Confession. The sincere confession of sins and faults in union with a sincere [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='series_toc'><h3>Table of contents for Mother Love</h3><ol><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2008/11/the-christian-training-children-chapt-1-early-cares/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Early Cares'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Early Cares</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/01/the-christian-training-of-children-new-and-more-difficult-cares/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; New and more Difficult Cares'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; New and more Difficult Cares</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/02/the-christian-training-of-children-admonition-to-mother/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Admonition to Mother'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Admonition to Mother</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/02/the-christian-training-of-children-combating-concupiscence-of-the-flesh/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Flesh'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Flesh</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/02/the-christian-training-of-children-combating-concupiscence-of-the-eyes/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Eyes'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Eyes</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/03/the-christian-training-of-children-combating-pride/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Pride'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Pride</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/04/the-christian-training-of-children-rewards-punishments/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Rewards and Punishments'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Rewards and Punishments</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/04/the-christian-training-of-children-the-fathers-role/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; The Father&#8217;s Role'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; The Father&#8217;s Role</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/05/the-christian-training-of-children-prayers/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Prayers'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Prayers</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-maxims-and-sayings/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Maxims and Sayings'>The Christian Training of Children – Maxims and Sayings</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/05/the-christian-training-of-children-co-operation-with-pastor-and-teacher/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Co-operation with Pastor and Teacher'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Co-operation with Pastor and Teacher</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-catechetical-instruction/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Catechetical Instruction'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Catechetical Instruction</a></li><li>The Christian Training of Children – Preparing a Child for Confession</li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/05/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-preparation-for-holy-communion/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Preparation for Holy Communion'>The Christian Training of Children – Preparation for Holy Communion</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-care-of-young-adults/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Care of Young Adults'>The Christian Training of Children – Care of Young Adults</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/mother-love/' title='Mother Love'>Mother Love</a></li></ol></div> <p><strong>Little Book of Instructions for Christian Mothers</strong> [continued]<br />
(from <em>Mother Love</em> – <em>A Manual for Christian Mothers</em> – by Rev. Pius Franciscus, O.M.Cap., 1926)</p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>On the Christian Training of Children</strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong><strong>Chapter XIII. – How a Christian Mother Should Prepare Her Child for Confession.</strong></p>
<div id="attachment_717" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><strong><img class="size-full wp-image-717" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/beanbags5.gif" alt="Third Grade students work on bean bags (a field trip fundraiser)." width="300" height="221" /></strong><p class="wp-caption-text">Third Grade students work on bean bags (a field trip fundraiser).</p></div>
<p>The sincere confession of sins and faults in union with a sincere sorrow for them and a firm resolution to amend is the best means to root out any bad habits or any evil inclination, as well as to strengthen the will in its determination to practice virtue and fulfill the daily duties and obligations. Confession teaches self-knowledge. Confession reveals the ugly side of our individuality, gives us a clearer view of our responsibility, and proves very vividly that sin, mortal and venial, is an offense, an insult against the supreme authority and majesty of God. Confession, therefore, has a distinct educative value in the development of character such as no other means can supply.<span id="more-713"></span></p>
<p>To obtain these results it is important to have the child thoroughly prepared and instructed in the proper manner of receiving the sacrament of Penance. No one can so easily and so effectively contribute to this thorough preparation as a pious father and a pious mother. Therefore parents should for the sake of their children make frequent use of the Holy Sacrament themselves. Their example will be the child’s first lesson on the subject of confession. The child will be deeply impressed when it observes how for some days after receiving the sacraments father and mother evidently are more subdued, more happy and peaceful, less irritable and less impatient.</p>
<div id="attachment_718" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 260px"><img class="size-full wp-image-718" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/beanbags2.gif" alt="Only clean consciences can work happily!" width="250" height="195" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Only clean consciences can work happily!</p></div>
<p>When, finally, the time arrives for the child to make its first confession, the parents should evince a cordial interest in its prospective happiness. They should carefully guard against frightening the child about confession and never represent confession as a difficult and laborious task; on the contrary they should represent it as comparatively easy. They should instill into the child’s heart love and confidence towards the priest who hears its confession in the name of Jesus Christ, in Whose name he is also ready to absolve every child, if it is sorry for its sins and resolved never to commit them again.</p>
<p>About a week before the day fixed for its first confession the parents should begin to pray with the child for the grace to make a good and worthy confession. The Our Father, the Hail Mary, or some other easy prayer will be suitable. The following prayer or at least a part of it may also serve the purpose:</p>
<blockquote><p>O Jesus, my God and Savior, I have often been a naughty child, I have been bold and saucy, disobedient and stubborn, and in this way I have displease You very much, so that You could hardly love me any more. I wish I had never done anything wrong. My Lord, I am sorry for all the naughty things I have done. I will never do them again. I love You, Lord; please, forgive me all my sins and love me again also. Help me to make a good confession, and help the other children too.</p></blockquote>
<p>If a child receives sufficient instruction in school, the parents’ task will be much easier. All they need do in this case, is to let the child tell them what was said in school, and then supply what the child may have forgotten. Certainly the task will be much more difficult if the school instruction is deficient. Then the duty will devolve upon the parents to instruct the child themselves. The following items may be of great usefulness to them.</p>
<p>Five things are necessary for a good confession:</p>
<blockquote><p>1) Prayer to the Holy Ghost;</p>
<p>2) Examination of conscience;</p>
<p>3) Sorrow for sin and the resolution to sin no more;</p>
<p>4) Telling of our sins to the priest;</p>
<p>5) Satisfaction or penance.</p></blockquote>
<p>The first is prayer to the Holy Ghost. This prayer the parents should have the child repeat frequently, till it has learned to say it devoutly. The following form may well serve the purpose:</p>
<blockquote><p>Come, O Holy Ghost, and enlighten me that I may know my sins, be heartily<br />
sorry for them, and sincerely confess them, and earnestly amend my life.</p></blockquote>
<div id="attachment_719" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 250px"><img class="size-full wp-image-719" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/beanbags8.gif" alt="Our students make their first confession in first grade (usually). This Third Grade boy could give YOU some tips on &quot;sewing a straight line&quot; in your life." width="240" height="290" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Our students make their first confession in first grade (usually). This Third Grade boy could give YOU some tips on &quot;sewing a straight line&quot; in your life.</p></div>
<p>Then follows the examination of conscience. When the child is quite young and has only learned the rudiments of the catechism, the parents should assist it in making this examination.</p>
<p>A good way to help children recall their sins is to remind them of how they behaved at home, at school, at church, on the street, on the playgrounds, towards father and mother, towards brothers and sisters, towards the teacher and towards other children. Parents should not ask their children to tell them the wrongs committed, but if a child should in its innocence reveal something which father and mother never expected it to do, they should not become excited over the revelation but use the opportunity calmly to recall the meaning of sin and the punishment which God will inflict for sin.</p>
<p>Children should also be assisted in making an act of contrition, and parents should consider it a privilege to teach them some form of this act. Any of the following will meet the purpose.</p>
<blockquote><p>My Father in heaven, I am sorry for all the naughty things I have done because<br />
They have displeased You Who are so good and kind, and because I love You.<br />
I do love You, indeed I do. Please forgive me and help me to be a good child<br />
after my confession.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>O my God, I am sorry that I have sinned against You, because You are so good,<br />
and I will sin no more.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>O my God, I am sorry for all my sins. I hate them more than all evils, because<br />
they deserve Thy dreadful punishments; I hate them because they offend Thy<br />
infinite Goodness. Do not punish me as I deserve. Forgive me and I will try not<br />
to do these sins again.</p></blockquote>
<p>Older and better instructed children should be taught to make their examination of conscience by going through the then commandments of God, the six commandments of the Church, the nine ways of being accessory to the sins of others, and the seven capital sins.</p>
<p>The first commandment demands that the child recite daily and devoutly its morning and evening prayers, the grace before and after meals, and frequent acts of Faith, Hope, and Charity.</p>
<p>The second commandment requires reverence towards the names of God, of the Saints, and of holy things. It forbids therefore the abuse of the name of God and of Jesus Christ by using them as by-words or in curing and sinful swearing.</p>
<div id="attachment_720" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 210px"><img class="size-full wp-image-720" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/beanbags6.gif" alt="The cheerfulness of a clean soul!" width="200" height="301" /><p class="wp-caption-text">The cheerfulness of a clean soul!</p></div>
<p>The third commandment demands attendance at Mass on Sundays and feast days of obligation, and also attendance at Christian Doctrine instructions; it forbids on Sundays and feast days any kind of unnecessary manual labor, and at all times bad conduct in church, such as laughing, talking, playing, disturbing others at prayer, and inattention during church service.</p>
<p>The fourth commandment requires reverence, obedience, gratitude and love towards father and mother, towards the priest and the teacher; and these obligations also include that children gladly accept and follow the admonitions of their superiors; that they do not despise parents and superiors; neither offend, deceive, or provoke them, nor wish them evil or speak evil of them. Finally it commands to respect old people and forbids ridiculing them, etc.</p>
<p>The fifth commandment demands that all persons and especially those who are more closely connected with us, as brothers and sisters, relatives and comrades, be treated with respect and consideration and that we should do them no harm either in body or soul. Hence we should fail against this commandment if we are self-willed and disagreeable, contemptuous and hateful, rude and unmannerly, harsh and uncharitable, irritable and revengeful; if we quarrel, fight and strike others or in some other way seek to hurt them; if we curse ourselves and others, endanger our own lives and the lives of others, and unnecessarily inflict pain upon dumb animals. Finally we fail against it when we are accessory to the sin of others. There are nine ways of being accessory to the sins of others: 1) by counsel, 2) by command, 3) by consent, 4) by provocation, 5) by praise or flattery, 6) by silence, 7) by toleration, 8) by assistance, and 9) by defense of the evil done. Tolerating or not punishing a sin is a sin which parents and superior commit when they are too lenient and indulgent with their subjects. It is evident that children cannot be accessory to the sins of others in this manner, but in all other ways they also can cooperate with another’s sin.</p>
<p>The sixth and ninth commandments forbid all unchasteness in thought, imagination and desire, as well as in looks, words, and actions, and, in short, everything that might lead to such sins, as dangerous reading, dangerous games, dangerous company.</p>
<div id="attachment_721" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 330px"><img class="size-full wp-image-721" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/beanbags4.gif" alt="Wouldn't you like to buy a bean bag? We promise to give you the correct change." width="320" height="282" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Wouldn&#39;t you like to buy a bean bag? We promise to give you the correct change.</p></div>
<p>The seventh and tenth commandments demand honesty and justice in all our dealings with others; therefore, they forbid pilfering and stealing, receiving stolen goods and keeping what was found, destroying and injuring the property of others. Children, furthermore, are not permitted even at home, to take anything that does not belong to them, nor give anything away without the permission or consent of their parents.</p>
<p>The eighth commandment demands truthfulness as well as respect for the honor and reputation of our fellow-men. Therefore it is a sin against this commandment to tell lies, may they be ever so slight, to insult our neighbor or speak badly about him whether it be true or not true. To make known secret faults of our neighbor without necessity is called detraction; to brand him with crimes and faults which are untrue is slander or calumny.</p>
<p>The commandments of the Church dictate the manner in which Sundays and feast days must be observed, and this has been referred to in the third commandment of God; but, besides, a child is obliged by the law of the Church also to abstain from flesh meat on Fridays and all days of abstinence, and is also bound to go to confession once a year and to receive Holy Communion at Easter time.</p>
<p>Finally children should be taught to examine themselves regarding the seven deadly or capital sins. Regarding pride they should ask themselves whether they raise themselves above their neighbor or even above God, and think themselves better than others. Sometimes children think they look pretty because of their hair or their dress or their eyes, and like to show off before others, etc. These actions are not real pride, but are indications of vanity and silliness.</p>
<p>Avarice shows itself in wanting everything for yourself, and never sharing with others any of the good things you may have.</p>
<p>Sins of lust are sins of unchasteness, as forbidden in the sixth commandment.</p>
<p>Envy shows itself when you grieve at the good things which others receive, and are glad when they meet with misfortune.</p>
<p>Gluttony is eating or drinking too much, or [doing] something which is injurious to the health of the body.</p>
<div id="attachment_722" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 250px"><img class="size-full wp-image-722" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/beanbags7.gif" alt="It takes concentration not to get distracted!" width="240" height="221" /><p class="wp-caption-text">It takes concentration not to get distracted!</p></div>
<p>Sloth is to neglect the work which you should do, because you do not like to do it or do not feel like doing it; sloth shows itself also in omitting our daily prayers, missing Mass and other devotions in church, neglecting the study of the catechism, etc.</p>
<p>It is not advisable to let the younger children make their whole examination of conscience at one time; let them do it gradually so that their little minds do not tire, and they perhaps get disgusted with the whole matter. Neither should they get the impression as if the examination of conscience and the memorizing of the sins were the most important part in preparing for the sacrament of Penance. It is certainly true that they should remember their mortal sins well and the number of times these were committed; and the child must not be allowed to consider the examination as negligible. Still the emphasis should be given to the necessity of a sincere sorrow for sin and a firm purpose of amendment. Hence in the course of the examination the parents should repeatedly try to elicit in the child sentiments and acts of real contrition. This can be most easily accomplished by pointing out again and again the motives for sorrow in language which will be intelligible to the child. A long discourse on these motives would be of little value. A mother’s instinct will naturally find the best method, but for a little guidance herein we have appended a few suggestions.</p>
<p>After having given the child some time to recall its faults, for instance, against the fourth commandment of God, the mother might ask: “Well, my child, are you sorry for these sins?” Whether it answers, “yes” or “no,” mother should use the opportunity to recall to the child one of the motives of sorrow in the following manner: “My child, remember, that all sins, event he smallest, are insults against the good God and displease and provoke Him very much.”</p>
<div id="attachment_723" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 210px"><img class="size-full wp-image-723" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/beanbags1.gif" alt="It is a valuable assistance to mothers to have the Sisters to help them in the training of their children." width="200" height="243" /><p class="wp-caption-text">It is a valuable assistance to mothers to have the Sisters to help them in the training of their children.</p></div>
<p>At another time she might say: “Remember, child, even venial sins are hated by God, and they lead slowly but surely to mortal sin, and mortal sin leads to the eternal punishment of hell; and do not forget, God punishes venial sins very severely even in this world, but especially in the fires of purgatory.” On another occasion she might remind the child of the horror of sin as follows: “Sin, my child, is indeed a very wicked thing, otherwise God would not have demanded that His beloved Son Jesus Christ suffer so many and cruel pains and tortures. To redeem us from sin and from hell the Son of God had to come from heaven, become man, be persecuted and hated and finally shed the last drop of His blood and die for us on the Cross.”</p>
<p>Again mother might speak to her child as follows: “Remember, my child, by every sin you do, you hurt Jesus just as much and even more than the Jews did. The Jews hurt His body only, but by sins you hurt His soul, His Heart which loves you so much, and desires to give you only what is good.” Finally, a mother might recall to the child all the great favors and benefits which God has bestowed on the child, such as life and health, food and clothing; the grace of baptism and of Christian instruction, the companionship and protection of the guardian angel, etc. Surely all these considerations repeatedly and earnestly retold will not fail to impress the tender heart of your child, and will fill it with a horror for everything sinful so that it will resolve never to be ungrateful again and never to commit a sin again, because God is so good and holy and sin is so vile and punishable. After you have accomplished this result, it may be very profitable if the mother or the father will recite with the child the following litany:</p>
<blockquote><p>Lord, have mercy on us! Christ, have mercy on us!<br />
Lord, have mercy on us! Christ, hear us! Christ, graciously hear us!<br />
God the Father of heaven, have mercy on us!<br />
God the Son, Redeemer of the world, have mercy on us!<br />
God the Holy Ghost, have mercy on us!<br />
Holy Trinity, one God, have mercy on us!<br />
Thou who dost call all sinners to penance and the amendment of life, have mercy on us!<br />
Thou who dost not take pleasure in chastisement and condemnation, etc.<br />
Thou who dost will to preserve every creature from hell and render him happy,<br />
Thou who hast promised me, also, pardon and grace if I am sorry for my sins and<br />
never again commit them,<br />
I have sinned,<br />
I have repeatedly and thoughtlessly sinned,<br />
I have trodden under foot Thy commandments,<br />
I have not fulfilled my duties,<br />
I have neither watched nor prayed,<br />
I have not feared Thy punishments,<br />
I have dishonored Thee,<br />
I have irritated Thee,<br />
I have renewed Thy Passion,<br />
I have deserved the most severe punishments,<br />
I am sorry that I ever committed a single sin,<br />
I am sorry that I ever displeased Thee,<br />
I am sorry that I was ever disobedient to Thee,<br />
I am sorry that I was ever ungrateful to Thee,<br />
I am sorry that I ever departed from Thy love,<br />
I will now detest all evil,<br />
I will now be carefully on my guard against it,<br />
I will now cheerfully overcome myself,<br />
I will pray repeatedly and devoutly,<br />
I will consider sin the greatest evil on earth,<br />
I will rather die than ever willfully commit a single sin again,<br />
Grant me, O God, grace to keep my resolution,<br />
Enlighten my understanding and strengthen my will,<br />
Preserve me from temptation and seduction,<br />
Protect me from the snares of the evil spirit,<br />
Subdue my evil desires and passions,<br />
Grant that I may rejoice in virtue and the fear of God,<br />
Bestow upon me final perseverance in good,<br />
Give to me a short and easy purgatory,<br />
Take me to heaven and make me eternally happy,<br />
Lamb of God, who takest away the sins of the world, spare us, O Lord.<br />
Lamb of God, who takest away the sins of the world, graciously hear us, O Lord.<br />
Lamb of God, who takest away the sins of the world, have mercy on us.</p>
<p>Let us pray.<br />
Heavenly Father, Thou dost love us so much and art willing to forgive us<br />
when with a sorrowing heart we come to you for forgiveness. I have been very naughty and disobedient. I have not loved or honored Thee as I should. I deserve to be punished severely. Please forgive me my past sins, because I am sorry for them, and from now on I will never do anything willfully that I know displeases Thee. Love me again , O Lord, as Thou didst love me before. Love me as if I had never sinned; yes, love me more and help me to love Thee also more than anything else. Help me to keep my promise that I may always be Thy good and loving child, and may also give pleasure to my parents and teachers and to all my friends. Amen.</p></blockquote>
<p>Your child, dear mother, is now ready for the cleansing, healing and helping graces of the sacrament of Penance. But before sending it to the confessional, instruct it also how it should enter the confessional, teach it the form it should use in beginning the confession, and also the one with which it should close its confession. Finally instruct it also to make a short thanksgiving after confession, and then to say the penance which the priest imposed. Then let your child “show itself to the priest” so that he may bless it and by the words of absolution purify it from the stains of sins and adorn it with the garb of sanctifying grace.</p>
<div id="attachment_724" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 310px"><img class="size-full wp-image-724" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/beanbags3.gif" alt="Bean bags are very useful for a variety of games and using energy that could get children into trouble. (Bean bags are also useful for developing physical coordination skills!)" width="300" height="199" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Bean bags are very useful for a variety of games and using energy that could get children into trouble. (Bean bags are also useful for developing physical coordination skills!) Would you like any for Christmas presents?</p></div>
<p>When the child returns from church, receive it, dear mother, with evident signs of joy and admonish it to make itself worthy of the great mercy it has just obtained. Watch over its conduct closely for the next few days, and remind it occasionally of its good resolutions.</p>
<p>Oh, how much good a Christian mother can achieve by taking a personal interest in her child’s confessions! She thereby sows a seed that is bound to bring forth fruit a thousandfold. Surely it requires much tact and much tender solicitude, but all her loving efforts will be richly rewarded when she sees her little ones earnestly responding and striving to make a good and worthy confession. And as they begin in their childhood to appreciate the value of this holy sacrament, she may confidently expect that also in later life they will find in it a source of consolation and of spiritual rejuvenation and strength against the dangers and the temptations of the wicked world. Through their whole lives and in eternity they will be ever grateful to your solicitude which familiarized them with this treasury of grace and opened to them the gates of heaven.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='series_toc'><h3>Table of contents for Mother Love</h3><ol><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2008/11/the-christian-training-children-chapt-1-early-cares/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Early Cares'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Early Cares</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/01/the-christian-training-of-children-new-and-more-difficult-cares/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; New and more Difficult Cares'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; New and more Difficult Cares</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/02/the-christian-training-of-children-admonition-to-mother/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Admonition to Mother'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Admonition to Mother</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/02/the-christian-training-of-children-combating-concupiscence-of-the-flesh/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Flesh'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Flesh</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/02/the-christian-training-of-children-combating-concupiscence-of-the-eyes/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Eyes'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Concupiscence of the Eyes</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/03/the-christian-training-of-children-combating-pride/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Pride'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Combating Pride</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/04/the-christian-training-of-children-rewards-punishments/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Rewards and Punishments'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Rewards and Punishments</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/04/the-christian-training-of-children-the-fathers-role/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; The Father&#8217;s Role'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; The Father&#8217;s Role</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/05/the-christian-training-of-children-prayers/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Prayers'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Prayers</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-maxims-and-sayings/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Maxims and Sayings'>The Christian Training of Children – Maxims and Sayings</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/05/the-christian-training-of-children-co-operation-with-pastor-and-teacher/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Co-operation with Pastor and Teacher'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Co-operation with Pastor and Teacher</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-catechetical-instruction/' title='The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Catechetical Instruction'>The Christian Training of Children &#8211; Catechetical Instruction</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/03/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-preparing-a-child-for-confession/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Preparing a Child for Confession'>The Christian Training of Children – Preparing a Child for Confession</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2010/05/the-christian-training-of-children-%e2%80%93-preparation-for-holy-communion/' title='The Christian Training of Children – Preparation for Holy Communion'>The Christian Training of Children – Preparation for Holy Communion</a></li><li>The Christian Training of Children – Care of Young Adults</li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/mother-love/' title='Mother Love'>Mother Love</a></li></ol></div> <p><span style="color: #000000"><strong>Little Book of   Instructions for Christian Mothers</strong></span> [concluded]<br />
(from <em>Mother Love</em> – <em>A Manual for Christian Mothers</em> –   by Rev. Pius Franciscus, O.M.Cap., 1926)<strong> On the Christian Training of Children</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Chapter XII. –</strong> <strong>A Christian Mother’s Care of Her Child after the Period of School-Life.</strong></p>
<p>The periods of childhood and school-life are soon past, and then there begins a period of life which is, indeed, fraught with dangers for your son and your daughter. It is the period of transition in which the life-course of your child is definitely settled, its character firmly fixed, and its vocation decided. It is the period which decides the weal or woe of your child’s whole future, both temporal and eternal. <span id="more-982"></span>During this period the battle between Christ and Satan, between the Church and the World, rages more than ever for the possession of the heart of your growing boy and girl. In this period your child experiences new and strange sensations; and novel ideas, inclinations and desires present themselves; they promise pleasure and more or less insistently demand gratification. On every side the child beholds the alluring appeals of the three-fold concupiscence, everywhere it sees the wanton abandon with which the votaries of the world seem to surrender themselves to every enjoyment and pleasure. Few it sees who follow in the footsteps of Christ, few who mortify their passions and deny their inclinations, and these few are despised and ridiculed. Will your child join the big crowd, or will it follow in the wake of the few?</p>
<p>This is not all that faces your child, dear Christian Mother, in making its choice. Your boy and your girl have started to feel their importance since graduating from school. They are working, they are earning money which every week helps to meet the expenses for the upkeep of the family. They feel that, because they are contributing towards the family funds, they ought to have more liberty than heretofore and be allowed to be the masters of their time and of their action. The urge of independence is becoming stronger.</p>
<p>They do not want you to interfere with their “fun,” as they call it. All the young people are having good times, why shouldn’t they have them just as well?</p>
<p>These two new conditions — the strange physical manifestations and the urge of independence — are the factors that make it so necessary for the prudent mother to keep her eyes more widely open than ever. If ever, so especially now a mother should possess the full confidence of her boy and girl, and strive to hold it without seeming to pry into any secrets. This may be difficult at times, but if the child has been reared according to the principles and suggestions laid down in this book, it ought to be comparatively easy. The boy and girl and have come to realize that mother is not unsympathetic, that, while she believes life to be an earnest duty, she at the same time believes that it should be generously interspersed with innocent amusements and recreations and with every comfort and ease that is compatible with Christian ideals and principles. And there need be no special effort to confirm your boy and girl in this view. Having held their confidence for so many years, you need but sympathize with the new spirit that possesses them and, ordinarily they will accept your interpretations of the changing phases of their life. But in her sympathy mother must not compromise her position. She must not only be her children’s sympathetic companion and guide, she must also remain the queen of her home and assert her God-given right of authority. Therefore, while she may relax somewhat in supervising every detail of her growing children’s actions, yet she must not tolerate any willful disobedience in moral problems of importance. The following paragraphs will attempt to show how a Christina mother may cope with the various phases of this new period of her children’s life.</p>
<p>In the first place a Christian mother will direct her children at this period in the employment of their time. As long as the children went to school, the school practically regulated their time on account of the demands which their teachers and their lessons made upon them. Since their graduation from school, the children will have much leisure time which must be well utilized if it should not make them dissipated. In every household there should be a regular daily routine, which barring extraordinary cases should be observed faithfully. There should be a fixed hour for rising, a fixed hour for family morning prayer, a fixed hour for breakfast, a fixed hour for going to or beginning work, a fixed time for the noon-meal and the return to work, a fixed time for the evening meal and a fixed time and a fixed period for recreation and relaxation and enjoyment, a for profitable reading, for self-improvement, both intellectual and physical, and a fixed time for family night prayer. The son, having finished school, should be assigned to the work for which his talents, natural gifts and abilities fit him. It may be that he is fitted for more than just manual labor. In this case his parents should strive to give him the opportunity to become proficient in the profession most suitable to him, may it be law, medicine, business, or some particular commercial pursuit. He should be encouraged in his ambitions, as long as they do not interfere with the interests of his soul, and if they are not beyond the family finances.</p>
<p>As regards the daughter we would strongly discourage the idea of putting girls to work among strangers at the age of sixteen. We believe in the old-fashioned idea of keeping them at home and teaching them the important occupation of housewifery in some shape or form. There are so many domestic duties to be fulfilled, duties which mean so much for the comfort and the happiness of home-life. Girls should become acquainted with and learn all of them, cooking, washing, cleaning, sewing, darning, fancy work, etc. After girls have become older and after they have been trained in the various duties of housework, they may, if necessary, be allowed to go out to work, but they should be given charge of some of the household duties even then. The principal aim in the training of the girls must be, after all, to fit them for good housewives and mothers.</p>
<p>The next point of importance is recreation. How much recreation should boys and girls have? There certainly must be a limit, though, in general, we may say that it should be plentiful, taking care merely that recreation and enjoyment do not interfere with the proper fulfillment of the daily duties. When pleasures are sought merely for the sake of enjoyment we consider them injurious to the spiritual welfare of a person. If in any way possible, all recreation and pleasure should be provided for at home, music, singing, dancing, interesting books, games, cards, etc. The more attractive and pleasant you can make your home, the less desire your children will have to seek their enjoyments outside, and the more the family will keep united. Fewer sins are committed in a bright home than in a dull, gloomy one, and this is surely a great gain. As much as possible, the frequentation of theaters, public dances and amusement places should be discouraged and, indeed, should not be allowed except under the escort of mother or of some discreet elderly person; this should at least be the rule for the girls. Outdoor games, such as baseball, tennis, swimming, skating, and others are very conducive to the physical well-being of the young, and should also be readily allowed, but never to be pursued so far as to become a passion, or an injury to the health.</p>
<p>The choice of companions or friends is a third point that requires the earnest attention of a good Christian mother. All the good which a careful education may have sowed into the hearts of your children, can be rooted out again in a very short time by dangerous companions and friends. Experience only too frequently has proven the truth of that Scriptural proverb, “Evil associations corrupt good manners.” Mother should investigate thoroughly the moral character of every companion of her son or daughter before approving of the companionship. Innocence and faith are easily endangered, love of God and peace of conscience are easily lost, and neither can be regained except through mighty struggles and severe penance, if at all. Particular supervision must be exercised in your children’s associations with persons of the opposite sex. All the warnings that mother ever heard from the pulpit or read in books of instruction should be ever before her mind, so that her boy and her girl may not become victims of the devil of lust who only too often lurks under the guise of refinement and etiquette.</p>
<p>The choice of books and other reading material is another grave matter. Mother should never permit any trashy novel to come into her house whether it be gotten at the public library, or be bought at a nearby newsstand. No magazine, pamphlet or newspaper of whatever type — literary, scientific, political, economic, or social — should be permitted if it contains anything that might be contrary to good faith and good morals. Both the son and daughter should be earnestly warned against picking up indiscriminately every magazine that flaunts gay colors or a catchy title. A good rule which mother should inculcate into the hearts of both her sons and daughters is the following: “Never read a book by yourself, which you would blush to read aloud to a respectable person.”</p>
<p>Mother should also gently but firmly urge the practice of weekly confession and communion. She should also recommend devout assistance at daily Mass and at the ordinary church services, and whatever she admonishes her children to do, she herself should practice and induce her husband and the father of her children to fulfill as far as his business or work permits. Here we would also urge mother to have her boy and her girl enrolled in the young men’s or the young ladies’ sodality, and she should send them to the vocational instructions which are occasionally given by the sodality director. Those instructions will no doubt supplement many of her own admonitions and teachings and will keep alive in her children the earlier instructions of their schooldays.</p>
<p>It may be that God will inspire your son or daughter with the desire of consecrating themselves to a higher, to the more perfect life in the service of God. This call should be appreciated, indeed, as a special favor of God, and if your boy be otherwise fitted for the holy priesthood, dear Christian Mother, rejoice! Do not oppose his desire, but urge him to seek the advice of his confessor, who will more thoroughly investigate the purity of the boy’s intentions and who will advise the manner of preserving and attaining his desire. And if your daughter desires to devote her life in holy virginity to the care of the sick or to the education of the young and ignorant, encourage her in her laudable aspirations and thank God that He has singled out one of your own flesh and blood for so noble a calling. Indeed, the world may speak about the burying of talents behind gloomy convent or monastery walls, it may deplore what it calls the fanaticism which prompts a young man to forego a brilliant worldly career in exchange for the tame career of a priest, but all the criticism of the worldly-minded should not be allowed to influence your willingness to surrender your daughter or your son to God’s service and the service of mankind. Christ’s call of your children – If thou wilt be perfect, come and follow me — is, indeed, a pledge of their salvation and even of your own; if you place no obstacles in their way to obey that call.</p>
<p>Matrimony is the other vocation, which your son or daughter might choose. Teach your children to consider this state of life also as a holy one, and fraught with momentous and noble obligations; that it entails many sacrifices, sorrows and suffering, though these are coupled also with many pleasures and with many merits for eternity. In choosing a companion for life, the Christian mother should advise her boy or girl against making mistakes. A mistake in this choice will be a misfortune, indeed, for it can never be remedied. Passion and infatuation are poor guides in this decision. Wise reflection and calm, judicious deliberation with father and mother as well as with the confessor are indispensable in making a wise choice, a choice, that promises with some guarantee a future of temporal happiness and eternal salvation. Surely physical and intellectual accomplishments and talents will greatly influence the final decision, but “the one thing necessary” for both parties is sincere Catholicity, Christian virtue and earnest piety. These three form the solid foundation for a happy marriage, all others are merely contributing factors. Associations and friendships with non-Catholics should not be fostered lest perhaps the danger of a mixed marriage arise. Mixed marriages are forbidden by the Church, and this should be sufficient reason to make them odious to a sincere Catholic. A marriage forbidden by the Church cannot be acceptable in the eyes of God, must not be countenanced by good Catholic parents, and dare not be desired by a Catholic youth or maiden.</p>
<p>After the life-partner has been chosen and the engagement has been closed, the parents must not relax their vigilance over the young couple. Liberties and familiarities should not be permitted to them, and they should not be allowed to meet except in the presence of a third person; at least, they should not be permitted to be alone together for any length of time. They should be admonished to receive the sacraments frequently before the day of marriage, if possible, every week, to foster a tender devotion to the purest Virgin Mary and her most chaste Spouse, St. Joseph, and thus to prepare their hearts for receiving the Holy Sacrament of Matrimony, and also to escape the allurements of unholy passion.</p>
<p>Let the wedding day be celebrated in a decent manner without too much worldly pomp and clamor. Catholics should always remember that the day of the wedding is a holy day, and that our Lord Himself sanctifies it by deigning to become a guest in the souls of the bride and bridegroom.</p>
<p>After the marriage has taken place the parents should assist the young couple with impartial affection, and in the little ups-and-downs which naturally occur in the course of married life, they should encourage them to bear with patience each other’s faults, to rear their children in the fear and piety of the Lord, and in all things to place their confidence in the Providence of God. It is then that parents may expect to reap the fruits of the education they have given their children. In the  happiness of their children, in their grateful love, as well as in the reverence in which they are held, father and mother enjoy a sweet and well-earned reward for the innumerable and great sacrifices which they once made. Therefore, father and mother, continue to follow your children with your prayers and counsels, your admonitions and your encouragements. But in your love for them do not during your life-time share all your material possessions with them and thus make yourself entirely dependent on them. Many sad examples show the imprudence of such a proceeding. Many a father and many a mother who relied too much upon the fine promises of their children and who expected greater filial devotion and love in exchange for their own generosity, were cruelly neglected and their death was hailed with joy by their precious offspring.</p>
<p>In concluding these instructions we would earnestly urge all Christian parents to decorate their homes with some expressive marks of their Catholic Faith, such as crucifixes, holy water fonts, images or pictures of our Lord, of the Blessed Virgin Mary, of St. Joseph, of the Guardian Angel, and of some Saint or Saints to whom they may have a special devotion. We would recommend a crucifix for every bedroom besides a picture of the Blessed Virgin in the bedrooms of the girls as well as of the boys. A beautiful picture of the Sacred Heart of Jesus would surely be an ornament even to the most gorgeously furnished parlor. In every bedroom there should also be found a holy water font, which should always contain a generous supply of holy water. Besides these religious articles each Christian family should possess a number of pious books of instruction and edification, which may serve as spiritual reading for the members of the family. We would recommend a large family Bible and a more or less elaborate volume of the Lives of the Saints. Furthermore, a larger catechism with popular explanations of the text should be considered an important general household book. For general spiritual instruction in our warfare against passion, temptation, and sin, Scupoli’s <em>Spiritual Combat</em> was highly recommended and also extensively used by St. Francis de Sales. Appropriate prayerbooks are Father Lasance’s <em>Young Man’s Guide </em>and <em>Catholic Girls’ Guide, </em>and for Christian Mothers the prayerbook, <em>Mother Love. </em>A special book of spiritual value is<em> Introduction to a Devout Life </em>by St. Francis de Sales. There are other books which might appeal more to the individual taste, but it would lead too far to mention them all. Your pastor will surely be glad to give you any desired information and will gladly furnish you also with the addresses of the firms from which the above-mentioned or any other books may be purchased.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I recently came across John Cornwall&#8217;s <em>Hitler&#8217;s Pope</em>, published in 1999 by Viking Press. Just reading the Prologue and the first chapter was enough to convince me that this was not the type of solid research I was looking for. Not only was the author&#8217;s bias obvious, but his facts were more than dubious. In discussing the subject with a friend, I was referred to <a title="Article on Cornwall's book" href="http://www.catholicculture.org/culture/library/view.cfm?id=3124&amp;amp;CFID=21578032&amp;amp;CFTOKEN=14036637" target="_blank">an article by William Doino, Jr.</a> I found his article to be so well-written (and extremely well researched) that I thought our readers might find it informative as well. Just click on that hyperlink two sentences back.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Our third level of education is the human or liberal &#8212; the training of man as man (how to think, how to act, and how to express oneself eloquently with both tongue and pen). A liberal education presupposes the earlier levels. If you can&#8217;t stay alive, you won&#8217;t be able to train your intellect. If [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='series_toc'><h3>Table of contents for Education - Necessary for Life</h3><ol><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/12/education-a-necessity-for-life/' title='Toward a Deeper Understanding of the Powers of Life'>Toward a Deeper Understanding of the Powers of Life</a></li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/12/education-a-necessity-for-life-2/' title='As They Transcend the Material'>As They Transcend the Material</a></li><li>The Acquisition of Wisdom and the Transmission of Culture</li></ol></div> <dl> </dl>
<div id="attachment_750" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 330px"><img class="size-full wp-image-750" src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/Conf2.gif" alt="St. Ignatius (kneeling, center) and his first Jesuits" width="320" height="206" /><p class="wp-caption-text">St. Ignatius (kneeling, center) and his first Jesuits</p></div>
<p>Our third level of education is the human or liberal &#8212; the training of man as man (how to think, how to act, and how to express oneself eloquently with both tongue and pen). A liberal education presupposes the earlier levels. If you can&#8217;t stay alive, you won&#8217;t be able to train your intellect. If people aren&#8217;t working together in society and providing for its needs with servile education, liberal education isn&#8217;t an option. But, once a society is established, now we can build even higher. And, to paraphrase Brother Francis, having a liberal education will make everything else you do more meaningful. Remember, the more you know, the more you can love, and the more you love, the more you serve.</p>
<p>In honor of Father Leonard Feeney, one of my examples is Saint Ignatius and his Company of Jesus.</p>
<p>Like that of Saint John Bosco, the story of Saint Ignatius&#8217; personal education is fascinating. He was of a noble family and followed a military career. When he was laid up after the cannon ball broke his leg, he was disappointed that his sister-in-law had nothing else for him to read than the lives of Christ and the saints &#8212;so he was literate &#8212; but this reading educated him in a way that opened his soul to grace and God&#8217;s call (he had not been living the faith very well until now).<span id="more-803"></span> In order to become a priest, he had to get a more formal scholastic education and so he went back to school. You are probably familiar with his humility, a grown man in a class of little boys, and how he worked his way up through school until he received his degree. It was while he was at the university that he met Saint Francis Xavier and gathered the rest of his first followers.</p>
<p>To talk about the founding of the Company, I&#8217;m going to use excerpts from The Jesuits and Education &#8212; by Father McGucken:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;His original concept [for the Company of Jesus was] of a very select body of men, limited in number . . .not to exceed sixty . . .He had not visualized a vast organization, but rather a small group of men, gifted, trained, university men, of whom St. Francis Xavier was a perfect example; men of executive ability, bound by no petty parochial cares, much less by the daily routine of the classroom, ready to fly at a moment&#8217;s notice to any part of the world at the Pope&#8217;s command, there to sit in on the councils of kings, to argue with heresiarchs, or to captivate the university centers of Europe by their learning and eloquence&#8221; (pg 6) &#8212; making sure that the Faith was integrated at highest levels of society . . . something they could only do if they were learned, holy men.</p></blockquote>
<p>The Society developed differently, however, even during Saint Ignatius&#8217; lifetime.</p>
<blockquote><p>Soon he had &#8220;great numbers clamber[ing] for admission to the new Company . . . [and t]he admission of these younger men, the &#8220;scholastics,&#8221; their university training not yet complete, presented a new problem to St. Ignatius, the problem of educating them. At first they were &#8220;sent in small groups to the universities (the first one to Paris 1540), where &#8220;they lived under a superior and followed the ordinary exercises of community life, daily Mass, meditation, and the like. . . .Naturally, these young men with their fixed hours for study and their regular manner of life were a striking contrast to the university youth of the sixteenth century. Young seculars desirous of profiting by the favorable surroundings of the Jesuits asked to be taken into the Jesuit [residence hall] &#8220;college&#8221;. Occasionally courses were given by Jesuit professors to counteract the none-too-orthodox university teaching, or to supplement a regular course.&#8221; (pg 7) (*re-cap*) From here, it was only a short step to founding a separate school, in fact, only seven years after the first scholastics were sent to university of Paris, the first Jesuit college, as a school for externs (seculars) only &#8212; with Jesuits acting as professors &#8212; was established at Messina.</p></blockquote>
<p>Eventually, the scope of Jesuit education was broadened to include what we call &#8220;secondary&#8221; education.</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;[A]lmost against [St. Ignatius'] will, he and his followers came to see the power of education. This would be not [just] a cure for heresy, but a preventive of it. To save southern Germany for the Church, there was needed a genius like Peter Canisius; and even his heroic efforts were powerless to remedy all the ravages wrought by heresy and worldly prelates. But once get control of the youth, train them in right principles, impart to them at the same time an education the equal or superior of any in Europe, and the whole world is saved for the Church.&#8221; (pg 9)</p></blockquote>
<p>And if you can&#8217;t get control of ALL youth, you start with those you have. The effectiveness of the Jesuits in the Catholic Counter Reformation for two and a half centuries can perhaps best be measured by the hatred which they inspired in the enemies of the Church &#8212; hatred that led to their suppression. If you think of the familiar English Jesuits, like Saint Edmund Campion, or if you look at the family of Saint Thomas More, I think you will immediately get a picture of the kind of full Catholic life and culture that is the result of a liberal education.</p>
<p>We are in the home stretch, but to show that an appreciation for liberal education is not limited to modern times . . . I would like to go back to the Middle Ages, what your average American knows as &#8220;the Dark Ages.&#8221; We move to England, where the King is Alfred the Great. It is the late 800&#8242;s, and with his wars of defense over, he is turning his attention to the welfare of his people&#8217;s souls. With the aid of the monks (mostly Benedictines), he duplicates in England &#8212; much more gently &#8212; what Charlemagne did in France during the previous century &#8212; what&#8217;s called the Carolingian Renaissance. This covers all aspects of life and learning: religion, education, law (trial by jury of 12), language, exploration and expanded trade and travel, agriculture, the useful and mechanical arts. The result of Alfred&#8217;s reign was such peace and tranquility that he could (and apparent did) hang gold bracelets some major sign posts and no man would touch them &#8212; and that if a traveler dropped a purse in the highway &#8212; he would find it untouched the next day! This is particularly impressive when you realize that prior to this, plundering and robbery by the English of their own countryside had become common place. King Alfred&#8217;s reign was one of the golden ages of England history.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s just take a quick look at St. Alfred&#8217;s educational policies.</p>
<p>First of all, not only did he restore the destroyed monasteries, but at the advice of St. Neot founded a palace school. To run this school, the king invited scholars (monks) from Europe and Wales. King Alfred himself hadn’t learned to read until the age of 12 because of the invasions of the Danes and he always regretted this late start. So, (to paraphrase Father Butler in his Lives of the Saints for October 28, feast of St. Neot)</p>
<blockquote><p>“Not only did the King see to his own education, spending all his free time conversing with the scholarly monks of the palace school, he also made the series of translations* for the instruction of his clergy and people, most of which survive.” (<a title="Alfred the Great" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alfred_the_Great" target="_blank">en.wikipedia.com</a>) He himself set the example for his people of putting religion first: eight hours of the day he devoted to prayer and reading, eight hours to the administration of his kingdom, and the final eight to the needs of his body.   King “Alfred stirred up all the gentlemen to bring up their sons to the study of literature, or, if they had no sons, some servants or vassals whom they should make free. He obliged every free man … [with a certain amount of land] to keep their sons at school till they were fifteen years of age. … In order to be qualified [for their rank and responsibilities], their tender hearts must be deeply impressed with the strongest and most generous sentiments of sincere piety and religion, and of true honors; . . . they must acquire the habit of reasoning well and readily, and of forming right judgments and conclusions. Their faculties must be raised and improved by study, … [and then after a foundation in the sciences, directed according to their talents]. King Alfred also exhorted the noblemen to choose among their country vassals … some youths who should appear by their parts [talents] and ardent inclinations to piety, particularly promising to be trained up to the liberal arts. … [T]his prince was solicitous that care should be taken for the education and civilizing of all [his people] by religious instructions and principles. …” [Butler’s Lives of the Saints, John Murphy &amp; Co., 1866 – Volumes 4, October 28, page 227]</p>
<p>*St. Bede’s Church History, St. Gregory’s Pastoral, Orosius’ Roman History, Boetius’ De Consolatione Philosphia, St. Austin’s Soliloquies, Dialogues of St. Gregory, as well as a prose version of the fifty Psalms. A book of the poverbs of St. Alfred has come down to us, as well as the King’s crowning literary work: The Lays of Boethius. He was probably also the inspiration for the Saxon Chronicle and the Saxon Martyrology.</p></blockquote>
<p>I already mentioned the peace and tranquility that reigned under this amazing, saintly king &#8212; and the education of himself and his people played no small role.</p>
<p>***</p>
<p>In our time, with a majority of high school students going on to college  &#8212; although most of these colleges are providing, not liberal education but more advanced vocational training &#8212; higher education certainly is valued.</p>
<p>Brother Francis was asked by Father Feeney: what is the matter with education today? Unbeknownst to Father, Brother had been thinking about this question and so surprised him with a ready answer: An absence of Wisdom. Brother told this story many times, but I remember one time in particular. I can still remember the joy on Brother&#8217;s face &#8212; the smile with which he told me how he surprised Father!</p>
<p>And absence of Wisdom. Education today needs the Faith. It was this conversation, I believe, that led to Brother Francis&#8217; Tuesday Night Philosophy class at the early Center. Philosophy is the study of wisdom, natural wisdom as a preparation for supernatural wisdom, and so it ties right back into our definition of education: what was it? (repeat definition)</p>
<p>It was to address the problems of modern education that the Center was founded in the first place; and it was at the Center that Father Feeney put his finger on the root of the current Crisis: yet another attempt to deny the necessity of the Faith in our time, by denying the necessity of the Church for salvation – by denying the dogma: Extra ecclesiam nulla salus &#8212; Outside the Church there is no salvation.</p>
<div id="attachment_751" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><img src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/Conf9.gif" alt="Conf9" width="300" height="222" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Just look at that pile of books!</p></div>
<p>Among Brother Francis&#8217; notes, I found a couple of lists, enumerating the results of denying this dogma. One list has nine points, the other has fourteen &#8212; but both lists include this point: one of the results of denying the dogma is the destruction of Catholic Education. If we take that and word it positively, we get: If we are defending the dogma, we should be building Catholic Education.</p>
<p>How can we build Catholic education, the acquiring of Wisdom and the transmitting of culture, into our own lives now that, for most of us, the years of our formal education are past?  An excellent means of continuing our education is to be part of the Saint Augustine Institute of Catholic Studies. <a title="Saint Augustine Institute of Catholic Studies" href="http://sai.catholicism.org/" target="_blank">[There is more information on the table over there.]</a></p>
<p>The history of man follows a predictable pattern of hills or waves. There is a period of growth, of effort and enthusiasm, of building, until a certain order is reached. This is maintained &#8212; or even built upon &#8212; for a time, and then people start getting lax. This begins a downhill trend until things get so bad that &#8220;somebody does something&#8221; and we begin the upward processes again.</p>
<p>We see this in nations, in societies, in families, in individuals. And we see it in the history of education.</p>
<p>Education is necessary for life; Catholic education is necessary for a Catholic life.</p>
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<p>Before I close, I would like to give you two short exercises in imagination.</p>
<p>First, imagine yourself without any of your senses, except the sense of touch. You cannot see, you cannot hear, you cannot smell, you cannot taste. All you can do is feel. Now I, who have my senses, wish to share with you a gorgeous rose. But you cannot see it and you can not hear me describe it . . .  So I take the rose and put it near your hand. What happens? You would probably prick yourself on a thorn and refuse to touch it any more, being content with a smooth pebble or a simple clover blossom that doesn&#8217;t hurt. You will not be able to appreciate much about the rose with only the sense of touch.</p>
<p>But suddenly you have your sense of taste! Well, taste doesn&#8217;t help much with roses, although you could taste honey made from its nectar, but you probably wouldn&#8217;t make any connection between honey and the thing that pricked you since you can&#8217;t hear.</p>
<p>Add your sense of smell. You can smell the marvelous scent of the rose &#8230; which might make you explore further with your sense of touch to find the velvety petals. But you are still very limited.</p>
<div id="attachment_752" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 170px"><img src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/Conf12.gif" alt="The appreciation of roses . . ." width="160" height="229" /><p class="wp-caption-text">The appreciation of roses . . .</p></div>
<p>Now you can hear. I can tell you about the rose, give you its name, you can hear poetry about it . . . but you still can&#8217;t fully appreciate the gorgeous queen of flowers &#8212; you don&#8217;t have enough knowledge.</p>
<p>So: You now have sight &#8212;  But only shades of gray &#8212; because you are colorblind. You can now see the petals, the beautiful intricacy of God&#8217;s creation, but when I tell you that it is red, you have no idea what I&#8217;m talking about.</p>
<p>At last, you can see color. The fascinating shades of gradating color in the petals . . .Now you can truly know what I mean when I say: &#8220;Look at the beautiful rose!&#8221;</p>
<p><em>What the senses do for the body in acquiring knowledge, education does for the intellect and will: it makes one able to appreciate all of God&#8217;s creation, physical and spiritual, as well as God Himself. </em></p>
<p>***</p>
<p>I have one more exercise for you. I have here on the podium a little white rock. Suppose I give it to you. What is your reaction?</p>
<p>What a nice white rock &#8212; just like hundreds of others out in the driveway. Thank you! And you toss it outside.</p>
<p>It is possible that because <strong>I</strong> gave it to you, you might not toss it away, but slip it into your</p>
<div id="attachment_753" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 250px"><img src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/Conf7.gif" alt="Education leads to appreciation." width="240" height="159" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Education leads to appreciation.</p></div>
<p>pocket. If you were Brother Francis, you would make a meditation on it &#8212; probably several meditations on it! &#8212; all about the stability of its nature, what its nature means for plants, animals, and men &#8212; in fact to the whole universe &#8212; what part rocks played in the life of Our Lord or the Saints . . . but most of us would just throw it away.</p>
<p>But now I tell you that it comes from the Holy Land &#8212; and you know what the Holy Land is. Wow, now this rock takes on some significance. From being ready to toss the rock outside, you might keep it as an almost-relic &#8212; or at least an interesting artifact.</p>
<p>And this respect will deepen into reverence when I explain that it came from a spot near Calvary, a spot where we know Our Lord and Our Lady had been.</p>
<p><em>You are really starting to appreciate this rock now that you are being educated about it. </em></p>
<p>But, when I tell you that this rock, this exact piece in my hand, is a piece of the Holy Sepulcher, where Our Lord Himself was laid after He was taken off the cross, your reverence turns to . . . veneration.</p>
<p>This rock really is from the Holy Sepulcher. Helene Armeno and her twin sister brought it back with them from their pilgrimage.</p>
<p>Until I educated you about this rock, this relic, you might have been ready to throw it away.</p>
<p><em>Can you see how education, leading to appreciation, can affect our outlook and decisions? </em></p>
<p><em> </em>Remember, the saints became saints because they appreciated the things we have &#8212; the things that we don&#8217;t appreciate.</p>
<p>***</p>
<div id="attachment_754" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 220px"><img src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/Conf1.gif" alt="Seat of Wisdom, pray for us!" width="210" height="252" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Seat of Wisdom, pray for us!</p></div>
<p>Another quote from Brother Francis (which I&#8217;ve included on the handout):</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;When the condition of the world is as bad as it is, it calls for great sanctity to meet the challenge. Mediocrity is not for our time.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>Sanctity is union with God, union with God is measured by charity, charity is fed by knowledge . . . and knowledge is gained by education.</p>
<p>I have shown you different scenes from the past that demonstrate how Catholic education played a vital role in teaching, living, and spreading the Faith.</p>
<p>How will future historians describe our time &#8212; so troubled and muddied?</p>
<p>What difference will Catholic education make for us now?</p>
<p><a title="The Dogma &amp; Catholic Culture" href="http://catholicism.org/ad-rem-no-119.html" target="_blank">Our Crusade</a> was founded by <a title="History of Saint Benedict Center's Founding" href="http://catholicism.org/book-loyolas-and-the-cabots.html" target="_blank">educated men and women</a> &#8212; with such courage &#8212; what will the future have to say about OUR response in this critical time?</p>
<p>Thank you.</p>
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<p>Bibliography (partial):</p>
<p>Pioneer Priests of North America, 1642-1710, by the Rev. T. J. Campbell, S.J., Fordham University Press, 1908.</p>
<p>The Jesuits and Education, The Society&#8217;s Teaching Principles and Practice, Especially in Secondary Education in the United States, by William, J. McGucken, S.J., Ph.D., The Bruce Publishing Company, 1932. (pp. 6-9)</p>
<p>The Biographical Memoirs of Saint John Bosco, by Giovanni Battista Lemoyne, S.D.B., An American Edition Translated from the Original Italian, Diego Borgatello, S.D.B., Editor-in-chief, Volume IV, 1850-1853, Salesiana Publishers, Inc., 1967. (pp. 204-207)</p>
<p>The Lives of the Fathers, Martyrs, and Other Principal Saints; by the Rev. Alban Butler, John Murphy &amp; Co., 1866. Volume IV, pp. 222-229.</p>
<p>Saint Angela of the Ursulines, Mother Francis d&#8217;Assisi, O.S.U., The Bruce Publishing Company, 1952.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='series_toc'><h3>Table of contents for Education - Necessary for Life</h3><ol><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/12/education-a-necessity-for-life/' title='Toward a Deeper Understanding of the Powers of Life'>Toward a Deeper Understanding of the Powers of Life</a></li><li>As They Transcend the Material</li><li><a href='http://ihm.catholicism.org/2009/12/the-acquisition-of-wisdom-and-the-transmission-of-culture/' title='The Acquisition of Wisdom and the Transmission of Culture'>The Acquisition of Wisdom and the Transmission of Culture</a></li></ol></div> <p>Our Lord Himself is the Educator par excellence and in the Great Commission, which was His last directions to the apostles before His ascension, He gave His Mystical Body a teaching mission: &#8220;Going, therefore, teach ye all nations, baptizing them in the Name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Ghost. Teaching them to observe all things, whatsoever I have commanded you.&#8221; (St. Matthew 28:19-20) Throughout history, the Church, in fulfilling this mission, has encountered people in every level of society, at every level of education. Her success often depended on the level of education she finds. The Greeks &amp; Romans, with their liberal education, ordered societies, just laws and lofty ideals, proved the most fertile soil for the reception of Wisdom on the highest level. With others, works of charity had to come first so that people could lift their eyes above survival mode (as after the Barbarian invasions or in Post-Revolution France) &#8212; they have to be lifted above survival mode before they can see the beauty of eternal things.</p>
<p>I have some examples to show that, regardless of method or curriculum, the aim of the Church is the same: the formation of Catholic men and women in this world, for the next. It was painful to limit the examples because this is a constant theme throughout Church history.  <span id="more-792"></span>Remember the powers of life  &#8212; REPEAT &#8212; and see how they apply spiritually &#8211;transcending the material (board): Nutrition, people are being fed knowledge; growth, knowledge is being actively applied; reproduction, the Faith is being spread in society. Remember also our definition of education: it includes the transmission of culture: an environment that will aid, support, nurture, sustain this natural &amp; supernatural life as well as being an expression of their Faith which in turn will draw others to it.</p>
<p>First we&#8217;ll take survival education. And for my example here, I&#8217;d like to use the Iroquois in the seventeenth century &#8212; around the time of the Eight North American martyrs.</p>
<p>Pioneer Priests of North America &#8211; to the Iroquois pg. xiii ff. &#8211; gives a clear word picture of their life.</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;They were an intelligent race, but unfortunately having determined to destroy or assimilate all other nations, they directed all their energies to the prosecution of war. They knew nothing of agriculture, and were satisfied with the maize, beans and squash raised by their squaws. The mystery of well-digging was too deep for them, so they had to keep close to the lakes and river courses to live. They have left no pottery of any value, and being ignorant of the textile arts, made their clothing of the skins of wild beasts. . . . [their long houses] were swarming with vermin and reeking with disease. They were divided into sections . . . but without any pretense or possibility of privacy. . . Their personal habits were filthy in the extreme. . . . They ate the most disgusting things, and boasted of their prowess in that regard. Yet, though voracious gluttons, they starved uncomplainingly when food was lacking&#8211;which was often. . . . Morally, the Iroquois were very degraded . . . [their abominations are only hinted at in the writings of the missionaries] . . . the children were never punished, and were allowed to grow up like animals . . . &#8220;</p></blockquote>
<p>We have all heard of the tortures and cannibalism these Indians practiced on their prisoners. These sights were often introduction of the missionaries to their flocks. Father Chaumonot writes to his superior:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;Never could I imagine such hardheartedness as there is in a savage. You cannot convert him unless you pay him for it. But he is by no means stupid . . . the difficulty is with the sixth commandment . . . permanency of marriage is out of the question. Every time I go to their cabins I feel as if I were going to be hanged.&#8221;  (pg. 127)</p></blockquote>
<p>These people were obviously in a very low condition. They knew what they needed to survive, but the rest of their time was given to vice.</p>
<p>We must remember that the education of the missionaries was of the very highest: liberal education completely informed by the Faith. It was this background enabled them to learn the language, determine what elements of the Indian&#8217;s survival culture could be kept as compatible with the faith, how to teach the truths of the faith to these intellectually untrained pagans. What zeal for souls is shown by the sacrifices these men made in such uncongenial surroundings!</p>
<p>Father de Lamberville writes on the difficulties of converting those who cannot reason.</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;It must be understood that the Iroquois are not capable of reasoning as do the Chinese and other civilized nations, to whom we [can] prove the truth of faith and the existence of God. The Iroquois are not guided by reasons. The reasons for credibility are not listened to here, and our greatest truths are called falsehoods. As a rule they believe only what they see.&#8221; He goes on to say: &#8220;Only the fear of some evil or the hope of some good can determine them to embrace our religion. It is nevertheless a great honor for us to be God&#8217;s agents and to cause Him to be adored by a small Church in a country where the Devil is so completely the master . . .&#8221; (pg 227)</p></blockquote>
<div id="attachment_745" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 250px"><img src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/Conf5.gif" alt="Blessed Kateri Tekawitha" width="240" height="348" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Blessed Kateri Tekawitha</p></div>
<p>Now, the Jesuits did make converts, but most of them were deathbed (death skin or death stake?) conversions. If there were converts who weren&#8217;t dying, they quickly apostatized (at one point there were more apostates than Christians). So, the probation of the catechumens was extended until their education level could be raised and their environment, their culture, could be made to sustain the Faith. Even once the converting Indians had shown their sincerity and good will, they were under enormous pressure . . . and most of them would leave (as Blessed Kateri did) for the <a title="History of the mission" href="http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/03458a.htm" target="_blank">Catholic mission of Caughnawaga</a> &#8212; where the culture sustained an exemplary Catholic life.</p>
<blockquote><p>[W]e have an official letter of Bishop St. Valier which says that &#8220;the piety I saw     there surpassed anything I had imagined, or that had been reported to me.&#8221; He gives instances of virtue little less than heroic, and adds: &#8220;What I say is not said to please. It is an exact account of the actual state of things. The French are so charmed with what they see that they often go to unite with the Indians in prayer, and to revive their own devotion by the sight of the fervor which they wonder at in a people who were savage such a short time ago.&#8221; These Caughnawagas were known among the Indians as &#8220;those who do not drink and who pray to God right.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>Eventually <a title="Shrine of the Martyrs" href="http://www.martyrshrine.org/pages/virtual_tour/" target="_blank">Ossernenon</a> (Auriesville, NY) also had a large Catholic population &#8212; once it had been watered by the blood of three martyrs. But even these the converts moved to <a title="Kahnawake - Wikipedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kahnawake" target="_blank">Caughnawaga</a>, as many as a hundred per year. They recognized that their environment had to help them live their faith &#8212; so they moved to where they could find it. When the priests were &#8220;reproached with causing the depopulation of the villages, they replied that it was not religion, but war and vice with their train of destructive maladies and want that caused the ruin.&#8221;</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;Become Christians,&#8221; they said [to the pagans], &#8220;and your tribe will prosper.&#8221; (page 289)</p></blockquote>
<p>That covers the teaching (nutrition) and living (growth) of the Faith, but what about it&#8217;s transmission? I wish that I had time for more examples, because there are so many. Hot Ashes, one of the Indians who help Bl. Kateri get to Caughnawaga, refused to be chief of the Oneidas unless they became Christians. He and others worked as catechists. An Indian from Ossernanon went to war against the Illinois only to be on hand to baptize the children and prisoners before they were killed.</p>
<blockquote><p>[There was also the Indian woman who was so insensed by the ill treatment -- mockery and ridicule -- the Catholic Indians received from the Protestant Dutch, she went into the meeting house in Albany in the midst of a Sunday meeting -- and, in a loud voice said the prayers taught to her by the Black Robes. She was "put out," but she "gloried in her exploit!"]</p></blockquote>
<p>Almost 200 years later, the way was paved for the success of Father DeSmet by Iroquois from Caughnawaga. Old Ignatius was the chief of a band of Catholic Iroquois who moved west in the early 1800&#8242;s. They were the ones to meet the Flatheads, teach them the basics of the Faith, and adjust their culture.</p>
<blockquote><p>Abundant Harvest &#8212; Life of Father De Smet, S.J. &#8211; by E. Laveille, S.J.   (from FTH20, volume VIII, November 1, 1981 &#8211; page 54)</p>
<p>&#8220;Beneath his native ruggedness and rare intelligence, the soul of an apostle lay hidden in Old Ignatius. His courage and loyalty acquired for him an influence which he used for the good of the tribe. He often spoke to the Flatheads of the Catholic faith, of its beliefs, its prayers, and its ceremonies. The conclusion of his discourse was always the same appeal: to send for a Black Robe to instruct them and show them the way to heaven.</p>
<p>&#8220;The Flatheads listened attentively, and learned from him the principal mysteries of the Faith, the great precepts of Christianity, the Lord&#8217;s Prayer, the Sign of the Cross, and other religious practices. Their lives were regulated by this teaching [not the change of culture]; they said morning and night prayers, sanctified Sundays, baptized the dying, and placed a cross over the graves of their dead.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>The Flatheads (and even the surrounding tribes) were so moved to desire instruction that they sent four successive embassies to Saint Louis requesting a missionary &#8212; and refused to be taken in by the Protestants who came in the meantime. In fact, when Father DeSmet was given permission to go to the Indians of the Rockies, his guide was Young Ignatius, the son of the Iroquois chief from Caughnawaga.</p>
<div id="attachment_746" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 170px"><img src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/Conf6.gif" alt="The grave of Bl. Junipero Serra, the Father of California" width="160" height="240" /><p class="wp-caption-text">The grave of Bl. Junipero Serra, the Father of California</p></div>
<p>It is interesting to contrast the different missions throughout the Americas (I had wanted to touch on the California Missions and the missions among the Eskimos &#8212; but in the interests of brevity and courtesy I don&#8217;t dare do that now). The stories of these missions all show us the same lesson: that no condition is hopeless, but that a lot of work is necessary to build the Faith on survival education alone, and that a culture sufficient for survival is not sufficient to sustain the Faith.</p>
<p>It has to be elevated first &#8212; and this is done by extensive, persevering education by zealous, educated, teachers.</p>
<p>Our next level of education is servile or vocational.  We need to go to Italy, fifteenth century Italy, just before the Protestant Revolt. We have here a Catholic society, with years of history and traditions, but a society getting lax, on the downhill slide. Society is literate, with the possibility of higher education, but your average person is educated vocationally, along the lines of the various trades. It is the time of the Renaissance (which had it&#8217;s benefits as well as it&#8217;s train of errors), but its pagan ideas have filtered down to the girls, especially in the cities, and have resulted in a loss of morals that are breaking up families.</p>
<blockquote><p>(Read quote on pg. 15-16 &#8211; Saint Angela of the Ursulines)</p>
<p>[The] new pagan thought [...] was sweeping over Italy. It was coloring men&#8217;s lives with its voluptuousness and blotting out completely the simplicity of the Gospel. Humanism they called it &#8212; the study of the Greek and Latin writers whose philosophy of life these moderns would make their own. It was going to men&#8217;s heads like old wine too freely taken and was making madmen of them. From the universities it was seeping down to the lower schools, and there seemed neither time nor inclination to temper it with the philosophy of Jesus. And to these lower schools went the young girls, the future mothers of the race, who would have no word of Christian teaching to impart to their little ones. It was the home that was losing. It was in the home that the remedy must be applied.</p></blockquote>
<div id="attachment_747" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 250px"><img src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/Conf3.gif" alt="St. Angela Merice, Foundress of the Ursulines" width="240" height="347" /><p class="wp-caption-text">St. Angela Merici, Foundress of the Ursulines</p></div>
<p>Saint Angela Merici put her finger on the problem, and gathered around her other young women who would visit the homes of the poor and teach them their Christian doctrine. This project grew into schools for girls where Christian Doctrine and Domestic Arts were taught. This was the beginning of the Ursulines, a teaching order dedicated to the education of girls &#8212; the future mothers of society &#8212; an order that would grow throughout Europe and eventually spread around the world. (Under the patronage of St. Charles Borromeo the Ursulines played an important part in countering the Protestant Revolution by their life under vows.)</p>
<p>These Sisters also tie into my Iroquois example. In 1639 the Ursulines opened a school in Quebec with both boarding and day students  under Venerable Marie of the Incarnation (whose favorite work was the education of Indian children and the religious instruction of their parents). The book I quoted from earlier: Saint Angela of the Ursulines, gives the course of studies when the school opened: religious; history, sacred and profane; arithmetic; French; spelling; writing; grammar; reading; and geography &#8212; in addition to music and the womanly arts.</p>
<div id="attachment_748" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 250px"><img src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/Conf4.gif" alt="The tomb of Bl. Marie of the Incarnation" width="240" height="180" /><p class="wp-caption-text">The tomb of Bl. Marie of the Incarnation</p></div>
<p>Less than a hundred years later, in the 1700&#8242;s, the Ursulines were the first order to open schools in what is now the USA (unless you count the Spanish missions). I mentioned Father DeSmet &#8212; the Ursulines were one of the orders of Sisters who founded schools for the missions of the Rockies. (They also started the first women&#8217;s college in New York in the early 1900&#8242;s). Saint Angela&#8217;s daughters started with vocational training, and then broadened the girls&#8217; formation with other studies. It is another interesting study to look at the curriculum as it was adjusted to meet the needs of each time and place &#8212; but, once again, that is a topic for another time.</p>
<p>What I wish to make clear is that a material society lays a better foundation for the Faith than does the society only bent on survival. The Sisters, of whom the Ursulines are just one example, taught girls of all levels of society and of all races &#8212; and, as soon at the basics are covered, expanded the girls&#8217; education to fulfill their potential &#8212; raising them from just servile education (as important as that is) to liberal education &#8212; and with the Faith front and center and completely integrated. These young ladies became the heart of their own families, now knowing well how to provide a culture in their homes that would foster the Faith of the next generation.</p>
<p>Before I leave vocational education, I want to quickly touch on one other example closer to our time.</p>
<p>We&#8217;re still in Italy, but it is now the middle of the nineteenth century. The industrial revolution has made it&#8217;s way through Europe. Cities are getting bigger.  Material education is definitely the norm and some professions even require a liberal education. But, thanks to freemasonry, the errors of the Enlightenment (that Gary Potter mentioned yesterday), especially anti-clericalism and indifferentism, are rampant. We have a formerly Catholic, established society that is disintegrating in revolution after revolution. And, as in every age, the Holy Ghost raises up saints and apostles to meet the needs of the time. (I think more religious orders were founded in this century than in any other &#8212; and many of them seem to be teaching orders.)</p>
<div id="attachment_749" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 210px"><a title="Source" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/warrengwapo/3589140550/http://www.flickr.com/photos/warrengwapo/3589140550/" target="_blank"><img src="http://ihm.catholicism.org/files/2009/12/Conf15.gif" alt="Don Bosco (Saint John Bosco)" width="200" height="266" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Don Bosco (Saint John Bosco)</p></div>
<p>Before I get too distracted, we will stop in Northern Italy, Turin, and pay a flying visit to Saint John Bosco. Everyone knows that Saint John Bosco took care of boys (did you know that Our Lady herself appeared to him and gave him that mission: of turning the wild beasts into lambs?), but you have to read at least some of the nineteen volumes of the Biographical Memoirs of Saint John Bosco to get an idea of how many other things he did &#8212; and what an important man he was of his time.</p>
<p>Well, it is 1851, and at the moment he has three Oratories (the newest one already has five hundred boys). The Oratories are places where the boys meet on Sundays and holy days for religious exercises, catechism classes, and outdoor games, but Don Bosco also has classes during the week in reading, writing, arithmetic, and the metric system. (Literacy is essential in an urban society.) He has a hospice for about forty poor boys (that would grow into the Salesian boarding schools), has laid the foundation of what would be come his order &#8212; the Salesians, has just acquired the Pinardi property and field and is fundraising to build a church in honor of Our Lady Help of Christians, the cornerstone of which has been laid. In the midst of this activity, he is also tutoring boys in their classical studies (Eventually he would have full boarding and day schools. There would be a common basis for all the boys in certain subjects, and then they had the choice to follow one of two tracks: either classical studies &#8212; to prepare for the priesthood or professional fields, or apprenticeships in various trades.)</p>
<p>But at the moment, all his boys go elsewhere for school and training, coming back to Don Bosco for tutoring as well as spiritual direction and guidance. For those of his boys who were apprentices, learning their trade in the various Turin workshops, he &#8220;not only continued to visit them at work to see if there was any moral danger or to check on their progress, but he also took the trouble to enter into formal contracts with their employers and to see to it that they were kept.&#8221; In Volume IV, pg 205, there is a contract he wrote up between one of his boys and a glassblower. I don&#8217;t have time to go through it now, but not only must the employer teach the boy the craft, employing him only in work related to the trade and within his physical capabilities, but he had to pay the boy on a scale that increased each year, give him Sundays and holy days off, and provide a written monthly report to Don Bosco. The boy promised work hard and attentively, be obedient, docile and respectful.</p>
<p>In this way, Don Bosco not only helped prepare these &#8220;at-risk&#8221; boys for society, but he integrated the Faith every step of the way . . . making sure that the vocational education didn&#8217;t disintegrate into just plain survival mode&#8211;no factory slaves here. At the same time, through the boys, Don Bosco was able to reach the tradesmen and the parents, not to mention the statesmen that he had to work with &#8212; and in every case he was on the look out for their souls&#8217; welfare.</p>
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